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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +28

Sarah born March 22, 1979
Aries ♈

Tom born June 17, 1978
Gemini ♊

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sarah and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Sarah’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Gemini and Aries. No individual is a pure Gemini or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sarah’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Sarah’s Sun Trines Tom’s Venus (+14.76 harmony) – Sarah’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Tom’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Tom and Sarah. Tom’s power of attraction is in harmony with Sarah’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Sarah’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Venus (+10.43 harmony) – Sarah’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Sarah’s communication style is in harmony with Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Sarah feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Tom’s Sun Trines Sarah’s Venus (+10.21 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sarah’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Sarah and Tom. Sarah’s power of attraction is in harmony with Tom’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Tom’s Venus Conjuncts Sarah’s Jupiter (+9.88 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Sarah’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Sarah’s Mars Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+6.06 harmony) – Sarah’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Tom has a broad impact on Sarah’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Sarah challenges Tom to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Tom’s Mercury Trines Sarah’s Venus (+5.56 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Sarah’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Tom’s communication style is in harmony with Sarah’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Sarah makes Tom feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Tom’s Neptune Sextiles Sarah’s Pluto (+5.38 harmony) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Sarah’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Tom stimulates the reforming urge of Sarah. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Sun Trines Sarah’s Pluto (+4.37 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sarah’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom can bring out the psychoanalyst in Sarah. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Sarah and Tom. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Tom and Sarah to a long-term relationship.

Sarah’s Moon Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+4.19 harmony) – Sarah’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking Sarah and Tom. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Sarah and Tom are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. Tom awakens and inspires ideas in Sarah. Sarah’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Tom’s inventiveness and creativity.

Tom’s Jupiter Sextiles Sarah’s Saturn (+3.26 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Sarah’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Sarah’s practicality stimulates Tom’s expansive ideas. Tom provides vision while Sarah creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Tom’s Moon Sextiles Sarah’s Saturn (+3.19 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Sarah’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between Tom and Sarah is based on mutual needs. Sarah will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in Tom. Tom can expand the ideas of Sarah with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. Sarah and Tom are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Tom and Sarah.

Tom’s Jupiter Trines Sarah’s Uranus (+2.98 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Sarah’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Tom’s visions are in harmony with Sarah’s creative genius. Tom will expand Sarah’s goals and creativity. Sarah adds innovation and excitement to Tom’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Sarah’s Venus Trines Tom’s Pluto (+2.26 harmony) – Sarah’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Sarah and Tom makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Sarah’s Mars Trines Tom’s Uranus (+2.21 harmony) – Sarah’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Sarah’s Moon Sextiles Tom’s Moon (+1.97 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine pleasantly. Sarah and Tom’s attitudes are similar enough they tend to agree on almost anything under the sun. They stimulate each other so well they can resolve various lifestyle problems before they even pop up. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a long-term relationship.

Tom’s Moon Trines Sarah’s Mars (+1.30 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Sarah’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between Tom and Sarah. Tom inspires the development of Sarah’s sexual fire. Sarah stimulates Tom’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if Sarah is male and Tom is female.

Tom’s Saturn Trines Sarah’s Neptune (+1.25 harmony) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Sarah’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s practical instincts are in harmony with Sarah’s visions and dreams. Tom has a good sense of reality that Sarah might not have. Sarah is aware of a different dimension that can help Tom.

Sarah’s Saturn Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+1.08 harmony) – Sarah’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Sarah and Tom. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Tom is spontaneous and creative while Sarah is sensible and rational.

Sarah’s Venus Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+0.74 harmony) – Sarah’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Sarah is willing to overlook Tom’s faults. Tom is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Sarah’s Neptune Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+0.41 harmony) – Sarah’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Sarah stimulates the reforming urge of Tom. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Moon Conjuncts Sarah’s Uranus (neutral) – Tom’s emotional needs combine with Sarah’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking Tom and Sarah. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes Tom’s traditional attitude clashes with Sarah’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

Sarah’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Sarah and Tom complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Sarah’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Sarah and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Sarah or Tom.

Sarah’s Pluto Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Sarah and Tom enjoy the same cultural references. Tom and Sarah have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Sarah’s Venus Opposes Tom’s Mars (-0.24 discord) – Sarah’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Sarah and Tom in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. Tom feels suffocated by Sarah’s possessiveness. Sarah can be deeply hurt by Tom’s thoughtless words.

Sarah’s Sun Squares Tom’s Jupiter (-0.29 discord) – Sarah’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Sarah and Tom have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Tom and Sarah may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Tom’s Mars Conjuncts Sarah’s Saturn (-2.19 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Sarah’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. Tom stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in Sarah. Sarah in some ways restricts or limits the activities of Tom.

Tom’s Jupiter Squares Sarah’s Pluto (-2.19 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Sarah’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Tom.

Sarah’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Jupiter (-2.21 discord) – Sarah’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Sarah will seem petty to Tom. Tom might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Sarah’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Pluto (-2.36 discord) – Sarah’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Tom will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of Sarah. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

Tom’s Sun Squares Sarah’s Mercury (-2.83 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sarah’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Sarah and Tom. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Sarah might be too aggressive in communicating with Tom.

Tom’s Saturn Squares Sarah’s Uranus (-4.06 discord) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Sarah’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Tom and the progressive nature of Sarah. Tom will restrict Sarah’s progress and expression of individuality. Sarah will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Tom.

Tom’s Sun Squares Sarah’s Mars (-4.87 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sarah’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Tom and Sarah. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Sarah and Tom is necessary for the union to work. Sarah will have to work on patience while Tom will have to work on humility.

Sarah’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Jupiter (-5.04 discord) – Sarah’s emotional needs confront and challenges Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The tension between Sarah and Tom is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Having disagreements about religion, money, and relatives is common. Sarah may feel uncomfortable when Tom misunderstands a passing mood. Tom may make extravagant pledges making Sarah to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Sarah’s Neptune (-5.84 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Sarah’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of Sarah. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. Sarah may find Tom’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

Sarah’s Mars Squares Tom’s Neptune (-6.07 discord) – Sarah’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Tom’s elusive reaction to Sarah’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Sarah’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Pluto (-6.20 discord) – Sarah’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom has a natural tendency to dominate if Sarah appears weak. There is tension in the relationship that both Tom and Sarah will be uncomfortable with each other. The intensity can sometimes feel overpowering. Sarah might have difficulty being heard out of fear of making Tom unhappy.

Sarah’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Mercury (-6.54 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Sarah’s Sun Squares Tom’s Sun (-6.67 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Sarah and Tom can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Sarah’s Moon Squares Tom’s Pluto (-9.31 discord) – Sarah’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Sarah’s defensive nature and Tom’s nastiness. Tom expects Sarah to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Sarah’s Neptune (-9.56 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Sarah’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between Sarah and Tom is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. Sarah can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Tom.

Sarah’s Venus Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-9.84 discord) – Sarah’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of Tom and the affectionate nature of Sarah. Sarah feels dominated. Tom tends to impose too much responsibility on Sarah.

Sarah’s Sun Squares Tom’s Mercury (-10.39 discord) – Sarah’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Tom and Sarah. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Tom might be too aggressive in communicating with Sarah.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Sarah and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -6.79 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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