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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -20

Sel born November 8, 1959
Scorpio ♏

Raj born January 29, 1982
Aquarius ♒

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sel and Raj’s Relationship

Raj and Sel’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aquarius and Scorpio. No individual is a pure Aquarius or Scorpio but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sel’s birth chart and the planets in Raj’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Sel’s Jupiter Conjuncts Raj’s Uranus (+9.73 harmony) – Sel’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Raj’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. Sel will expand Raj’s goals and creativity. Raj adds a touch of genius and excitement to Sel’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in Sel or Raj.

Sel’s Venus Trines Raj’s Venus (+8.54 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Sel and Raj have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Raj’s Sun Sextiles Sel’s Jupiter (+8.34 harmony) – Raj’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sel’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Raj stimulates Sel to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Sel and Raj can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Raj’s Sun Sextiles Sel’s Mercury (+6.65 harmony) – Raj’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sel’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between Raj and Sel. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

Sel’s Uranus Trines Raj’s Neptune (+4.80 harmony) – Sel’s respect for expression of individuality combines very effortlessly with Raj’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both surprise each other at how crazy and beautiful things can get. Raj and Sel have a strong intuitive connection.

Raj’s Jupiter Sextiles Sel’s Pluto (+3.93 harmony) – Raj’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Sel’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

Raj’s Jupiter Conjuncts Sel’s Neptune (+2.85 harmony) – Raj’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Sel’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Both are spiritually compatible and encourage each other to realize real goals. There is a combined tendency towards extravagance and self-indulgence.

Raj’s Saturn Sextiles Sel’s Uranus (+2.83 harmony) – Raj’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Sel’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Raj and Sel. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Sel is spontaneous and creative while Raj is sensible and rational.

Sel’s Sun Conjuncts Raj’s Jupiter (+2.49 harmony) – Sel’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Raj’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both Sel and Raj share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

Raj’s Mars Sextiles Sel’s Uranus (+1.89 harmony) – Raj’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Sel’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

Raj’s Sun Trines Sel’s Venus (+1.88 harmony) – Raj’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sel’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Sel and Raj. Sel’s power of attraction is in harmony with Raj’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Sel’s Mars Conjuncts Raj’s Jupiter (+1.24 harmony) – Sel’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with Raj’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. Raj enjoys teasing Sel which Sel doesn’t find amusing.

Sel’s Venus Sextiles Raj’s Uranus (+1.03 harmony) – Sel’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Raj’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Raj surprises Sel in one way or another. Sel has a pleasant way of toning down Raj’s eccentricity.

Sel’s Uranus Sextiles Raj’s Pluto (+0.98 harmony) – Sel’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Raj’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Raj’s Neptune Trines Sel’s Pluto (+0.18 harmony) – Raj’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Sel’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Raj and Sel. The spiritual urge of Raj harmonizes with the reforming call of Sel. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Sel’s Mercury Conjuncts Raj’s Uranus (neutral) – Sel’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Raj’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a fusion of intellectual and mental awakening in Sel and Raj. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Raj’s Sun Opposes Sel’s Uranus (-3.35 discord) – Raj’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Sel’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Raj and the independent nature of Sel. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted Sel and Raj together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

Raj’s Mercury Squares Sel’s Neptune (-3.95 discord) – Raj’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Sel’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Sel’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Raj’s method of thinking. Both Raj and Sel are capable of lying to each other. Sel’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Sel’s Saturn Conjuncts Raj’s Neptune (-4.38 discord) – Sel’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Raj’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Raj can add a degree of holiness to Sel’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Sel’s Venus Squares Raj’s Neptune (-5.51 discord) – Sel’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Raj’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Sel and Raj. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Sel’s Sun Squares Raj’s Sun (-5.93 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Sel and Raj can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Raj’s Uranus Squares Sel’s Pluto (-6.01 discord) – Raj’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Sel’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Raj and Sel. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Raj’s Mercury Opposes Sel’s Uranus (-9.15 discord) – Raj’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Sel’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. Sel may seem unstable and erratic to Raj. Raj may seem elusive and contradictory to Sel. Sel stimulates, excites, and irritates Raj’s mind simultaneously. Raj can’t understand the complex mind of Sel. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Raj’s Sun Squares Sel’s Neptune (-9.76 discord) – Raj’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sel’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Raj and Sel can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Sel can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Raj.

Raj’s Sun Squares Sel’s Mars (-11.13 discord) – Raj’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sel’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Raj and Sel. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Sel and Raj is necessary for the union to work. Sel will have to work on patience while Raj will have to work on humility.

Raj’s Mercury Squares Sel’s Mars (-11.60 discord) – Raj’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Sel’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Sel’s aggressive attitude and Raj’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Raj’s sarcasm could easily provoke Sel’s temper.

Sel’s Sun Squares Raj’s Mercury (-11.73 discord) – Sel’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Raj’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Raj and Sel. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Raj might be too aggressive in communicating with Sel.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Sel and Raj’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -24.86 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Sel and Raj don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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