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Birthday Compatibility Score: -15
Self born April 17, 1961
Aries ♈
Ex born July 24, 1961
Leo ♌
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Scoring Overview
A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.
A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”
A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.
A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.
A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”
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Self and Ex’s Relationship
Ex and Self’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Leo and Aries. No individual is a pure Leo or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Self’s birth chart and the planets in Ex’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).
A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.
Self’s Jupiter Conjuncts Ex’s Jupiter (+10.65 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Self and Ex’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.
Ex’s Moon Trines Self’s Venus (+10.41 harmony) – Ex’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Self’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Self’s cuteness charms Ex’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Ex and Self can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.
Ex’s Mercury Trines Self’s Neptune (+8.23 harmony) – Ex’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Self’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Self inspires the creativity of Ex. Ex’s practical suggestions give form to Self’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.
Self’s Sun Trines Ex’s Uranus (+7.33 harmony) – Self’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Ex’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Ex’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with Self’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between Self and Ex.
Ex’s Moon Trines Self’s Mercury (+7.01 harmony) – Ex’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Self’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Self and Ex are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.
Self’s Venus Sextiles Ex’s Venus (+6.45 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Self and Ex have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.
Ex’s Venus Sextiles Self’s Uranus (+4.93 harmony) – Ex’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Self’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Self surprises Ex in one way or another. Ex has a pleasant way of toning down Self’s eccentricity.
Ex’s Neptune Sextiles Self’s Pluto (+4.21 harmony) – Ex’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Self’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Ex stimulates the reforming urge of Self. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
Ex’s Moon Trines Self’s Uranus (+3.57 harmony) – Ex’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Self’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Ex and Self are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Self and Ex are together. Self awakens and inspires ideas in Ex. Ex’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Self’s inventiveness and creativity.
Self’s Neptune Sextiles Ex’s Pluto (+3.32 harmony) – Self’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Ex’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Self stimulates the reforming urge of Ex. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
Self’s Venus Trines Ex’s Uranus (+2.99 harmony) – Self’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Ex’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Ex surprises Self in one way or another. Self has a pleasant way of toning down Ex’s eccentricity.
Ex’s Mars Sextiles Self’s Neptune (+1.48 harmony) – Ex’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Self’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Ex stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Self. Ex and Self will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.
Ex’s Sun Trines Self’s Mercury (+1.03 harmony) – Ex’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Self’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Ex and Self is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Self understands Ex’s intentions. Ex supports Self’s intellectual excitement. Self is able to discuss problems with Ex. Together they can work out a solution.
Ex’s Mercury Sextiles Self’s Pluto (+0.68 harmony) – Ex’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Self’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Self stimulates Ex to be open to new ways of thinking. Ex appreciates Self’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Self’s influence on Ex is stronger than Ex’s on Self.
Self’s Mars Sextiles Ex’s Mars (+0.26 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly within the couple. Both have a fierce loyalty to each other and can cooperate effectively. The relationship stimulates each other’s courage and ambition. There is a unity of desire between Self and Ex. Both enjoy sports and other physical activities together.
Ex’s Jupiter Conjuncts Self’s Saturn (neutral) – Ex’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Self’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. Self’s practicality fuses with Ex’s expansive ideas. Ex provides vision while Self creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.
Self’s Uranus Conjuncts Ex’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Self and Ex complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.
Self’s Neptune Conjuncts Ex’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Self and Ex share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Self or Ex.
Ex’s Uranus Conjuncts Self’s Pluto (neutral) – Ex’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with Self’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Ex and Self have more aspects in harmony than in discord.
Self’s Pluto Conjuncts Ex’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Self and Ex enjoy the same cultural references. Ex and Self have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.
Self’s Mars Opposes Ex’s Jupiter (-0.34 discord) – Self’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Ex’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Self is rash and aggressive while Ex can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between Self and Ex. There is tension in individual ambitions.
Ex’s Moon Squares Self’s Pluto (-0.46 discord) – Ex’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Self’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Ex’s defensive nature and Self’s nastiness. Self expects Ex to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.
Ex’s Mars Conjuncts Self’s Pluto (-0.61 discord) – A delicate combination of Ex’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Self’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Ex and Self.
Self’s Sun Opposes Ex’s Neptune (-0.69 discord) – Self’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Ex’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between Ex and Self is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. Ex can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Self.
Ex’s Jupiter Squares Self’s Neptune (-1.03 discord) – Ex’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Self’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Ex might unintentionally hurt Self’s sensitive feelings. Self may appear elusive to Ex. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.
Ex’s Sun Conjuncts Self’s Mars (-1.12 discord) – Ex’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Self’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Ex combines with the aggressiveness of Self. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between Self and Ex.
Self’s Saturn Squares Ex’s Neptune (-1.37 discord) – Self’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Ex’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Self’s realism and Ex’s idealism.
Ex’s Sun Opposes Self’s Jupiter (-2.17 discord) – Ex’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Self’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between Ex and Self’s philosophy of life. Self and Ex are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.
Ex’s Mercury Squares Self’s Venus (-2.34 discord) – Ex’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Self’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Ex and Self. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Ex tends to disregard the emotional needs of Self. Self may find Ex cold and calculative.
Self’s Sun Squares Ex’s Jupiter (-2.44 discord) – Self’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Ex’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Self and Ex have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Ex and Self may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.
Ex’s Sun Squares Self’s Neptune (-3.03 discord) – Ex’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Self’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Ex and Self can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Self can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Ex.
Self’s Jupiter Squares Ex’s Neptune (-3.19 discord) – Self’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Ex’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Self might unintentionally hurt Ex’s sensitive feelings. Ex may appear elusive to Self. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.
Self’s Mars Opposes Ex’s Saturn (-4.61 discord) – Self’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Ex’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Self’s impulsive attitude and Ex’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.
Self’s Saturn Conjuncts Ex’s Saturn (-6.36 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Self and Ex share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Self and Ex are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.
Self’s Mercury Squares Ex’s Mercury (-7.78 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.
Self’s Sun Squares Ex’s Sun (-7.90 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Self and Ex can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.
Self’s Sun Squares Ex’s Saturn (-10.40 discord) – Self’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Ex’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Ex’s controlling nature and Self’s egocentric nature. Self struggles to break free from the limits set by Ex. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.
Ex’s Sun Opposes Self’s Saturn (-24.03 discord) – Ex’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Self’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Ex and Self. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Ex may feel Self being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Self may feel Ex being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.
There are 2 mutual receptions in Self and Ex’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add to the total score. The remaining -27.68 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.
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Self and Ex don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”
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