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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +157

Sh born May 31, 1988
Gemini ♊

Nji born September 9, 1958
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sh and Nji’s Relationship

Nji and Sh’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Virgo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sh’s birth chart and the planets in Nji’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Sh’s Venus Trines Nji’s Jupiter (+14.80 harmony) – Sh’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Nji’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Sh’s Mercury Trines Nji’s Jupiter (+12.58 harmony) – Sh’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Sh’s thoughts are in harmony with Nji’s dreams. Nji’s faith deepens Sh’s intellectual self-confidence. Nji sympathizes with Sh’s desire for mental advancement. Sh respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Nji.

Nji’s Venus Trines Sh’s Uranus (+12.33 harmony) – Nji’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sh’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Sh surprises Nji in one way or another. Nji has a pleasant way of toning down Sh’s eccentricity.

Nji’s Moon Sextiles Sh’s Jupiter (+9.81 harmony) – Nji’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Sh’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Sh is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward Nji. Nji inspires and encourages Sh’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Sh to Nji.

Nji’s Jupiter Sextiles Sh’s Uranus (+9.67 harmony) – Nji’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Sh’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Nji’s visions stimulate Sh’s creative genius. Nji will expand Sh’s goals and creativity. Sh adds innovation and excitement to Nji’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Sh’s Venus Sextiles Nji’s Venus (+8.82 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Sh and Nji have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Nji’s Mercury Trines Sh’s Uranus (+8.49 harmony) – Nji’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Sh’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Nji and Sh. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Nji’s Mercury Sextiles Sh’s Venus (+8.10 harmony) – Nji’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Sh’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Nji’s communication style stimulates Sh’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Sh makes Nji feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

Sh’s Venus Trines Nji’s Neptune (+7.50 harmony) – Sh’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Sh is willing to overlook Nji’s faults. Nji is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Nji’s Sun Trines Sh’s Jupiter (+7.34 harmony) – Nji’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sh’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in Nji and Sh’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. Nji inspires Sh to plan big dreams. Sh will make Nji feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

Sh’s Uranus Trines Nji’s Pluto (+7.32 harmony) – Sh’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both will encourage and support each other’s causes. The relationship promotes the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals.

Nji’s Venus Trines Sh’s Saturn (+6.97 harmony) – Nji’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sh’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Sh’s protective trait is in harmony with Nji’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Nji’s Jupiter Sextiles Sh’s Saturn (+6.71 harmony) – Nji’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Sh’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Sh’s practicality stimulates Nji’s expansive ideas. Nji provides vision while Sh creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Sh’s Mercury Sextiles Nji’s Mercury (+6.45 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly between the couple. Stimulating and exciting conversations are frequent in the relationship. Ideas flow naturally between Sh and Nji. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Sh’s Mercury Sextiles Nji’s Venus (+6.01 harmony) – Sh’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Nji’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Sh’s communication style stimulates Nji’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Nji makes Sh feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

Sh’s Mercury Trines Nji’s Neptune (+5.93 harmony) – Sh’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Nji inspires the creativity of Sh. Sh’s practical suggestions give form to Nji’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Sh’s Moon Trines Nji’s Uranus (+4.74 harmony) – Sh’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Sh and Nji are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Nji and Sh are together. Nji awakens and inspires ideas in Sh. Sh’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Nji’s inventiveness and creativity.

Sh’s Venus Sextiles Nji’s Pluto (+4.17 harmony) – Sh’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Nji’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Sh and Nji makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Sh’s Saturn Trines Nji’s Pluto (+4.08 harmony) – Sh’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Sh’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Nji’s quiet but immense power. Both Sh and Nji are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Sh’s Uranus Sextiles Nji’s Neptune (+3.99 harmony) – Sh’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Nji’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Nji and Sh have a strong intuitive connection.

Nji’s Mercury Trines Sh’s Saturn (+3.82 harmony) – Nji’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Sh’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Sh helps give form to Nji’s ideas. Nji learns a lot from Sh’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Sh offers practical guidance that improves Nji’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Sh’s Mars Trines Nji’s Neptune (+3.46 harmony) – Sh’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. Sh helps Nji fight procrastination. Nji inspires Sh to more significant achievements.

Nji’s Sun Trines Sh’s Neptune (+3.28 harmony) – Nji’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sh’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Sh and Nji. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Sh’s Mars Trines Nji’s Jupiter (+3.24 harmony) – Sh’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Nji has a broad impact on Sh’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Sh challenges Nji to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Sh’s Neptune Trines Nji’s Pluto (+2.94 harmony) – Sh’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Nji’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Sh and Nji. The spiritual urge of Sh harmonizes with the reforming call of Nji. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Sh’s Saturn Sextiles Nji’s Neptune (+2.41 harmony) – Sh’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Nji’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Sh can stabilize Nji to be practical. Nji can inspire Sh to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Sh’s Mercury Sextiles Nji’s Pluto (+2.26 harmony) – Sh’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Nji’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Nji stimulates Sh to be open to new ways of thinking. Sh appreciates Nji’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Nji’s influence on Sh is stronger than Sh’s on Nji.

Sh’s Sun Sextiles Nji’s Uranus (+2.14 harmony) – Sh’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Nji’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Sh and Nji have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Nji and Sh.

Sh’s Jupiter Squares Nji’s Uranus (+1.69 harmony) – Sh’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Nji’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in Sh’s aspirations and Nji’s individualistic ideas. Nji will seem rebellious or unstable to Sh. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Nji’s Mars Conjuncts Sh’s Jupiter (+1.20 harmony) – Nji’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with Sh’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. Sh enjoys teasing Nji which Nji doesn’t find amusing.

Nji’s Venus Trines Sh’s Neptune (+0.49 harmony) – Nji’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sh’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Nji is willing to overlook Sh’s faults. Sh is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Sh’s Neptune Sextiles Nji’s Neptune (+0.27 harmony) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines pleasantly with the couple. The relationship stimulates a beautiful romance between Sh and Nji. Both share similar ideas, and each one knows what the other one is thinking. Nji and Sh appreciate each other’s company. There is a feeling of love and unity in the relationship.

Nji’s Sun Sextiles Sh’s Pluto (+0.10 harmony) – Nji’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sh’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Nji can bring out the psychoanalyst in Sh.

Nji’s Neptune Conjuncts Sh’s Pluto (neutral) – Nji’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with Sh’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of Nji and Sh. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

Sh’s Sun Squares Nji’s Pluto (-0.27 discord) – Sh’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Nji’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Sh and Nji can cause damage to the relationship.

Nji’s Sun Opposes Sh’s Mars (-0.63 discord) – Nji’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Sh’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Nji and Sh. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Sh and Nji are together.

Nji’s Saturn Conjuncts Sh’s Uranus (-0.74 discord) – Nji’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Sh’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Sh is radical and rebellious while Nji is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Sh’s Moon Conjuncts Nji’s Saturn (-1.76 discord) – Sh’s emotional needs combine with Nji’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Nji tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Sh. Sh may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Nji imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Sh and Nji.

Sh’s Sun Squares Nji’s Sun (-1.95 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Sh and Nji can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Nji’s Venus Opposes Sh’s Mars (-2.17 discord) – Nji’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Sh’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Nji and Sh in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. Sh feels suffocated by Nji’s possessiveness. Nji can be deeply hurt by Sh’s thoughtless words.

Nji’s Uranus Squares Sh’s Pluto (-2.30 discord) – Nji’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Sh’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Nji and Sh. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Nji’s Sun Squares Sh’s Moon (-2.54 discord) – Nji’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sh’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. Nji’s domineering personality can overwhelm Sh’s emotional and sensitive nature. Sh can appear moody to Nji’s inconsiderate behavior.

Sh’s Venus Opposes Nji’s Saturn (-3.08 discord) – Sh’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Nji’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of Nji and the affectionate nature of Sh. Sh feels dominated. Nji tends to impose too much responsibility on Sh.

Nji’s Mercury Opposes Sh’s Mars (-5.50 discord) – Nji’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Sh’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in Sh’s aggressive attitude and Nji’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. Nji’s sarcasm could provoke Sh’s temper.

Sh’s Mars Opposes Nji’s Pluto (-5.89 discord) – Sh’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Nji’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.

Sh’s Saturn Conjuncts Nji’s Saturn (-7.15 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Sh and Nji share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Sh and Nji are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

Sh’s Sun Opposes Nji’s Saturn (-9.42 discord) – Sh’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Nji’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Sh and Nji. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Sh may feel Nji being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Nji may feel Sh being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

Sh’s Mercury Opposes Nji’s Saturn (-11.31 discord) – Sh’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Nji’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Nji’s criticism and disapproval of Sh’s achievements. Sh may seem careless and annoying to Nji. Nji may appear cold and bossy to Sh. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 6 mutual receptions in Sh and Nji’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +60 harmony to the total score. The remaining -31.40 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Sh and Nji don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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