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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +8

Shy born October 13, 1978
Libra ♎

J born February 10, 1982
Aquarius ♒

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Shy and J’s Relationship

J and Shy’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aquarius and Libra. No individual is a pure Aquarius or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Shy’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Shy’s Sun Trines J’s Sun (+10.37 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Shy and J can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Shy’s Jupiter Trines J’s Uranus (+9.17 harmony) – Shy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Shy’s visions are in harmony with J’s creative genius. Shy will expand J’s goals and creativity. J adds innovation and excitement to Shy’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Shy’s Moon Trines J’s Jupiter (+8.92 harmony) – Shy’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Shy encourages and nurtures J’s expansive ideas. J is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Shy. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from J to Shy. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Shy’s Venus Sextiles J’s Venus (+7.54 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Shy and J have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

J’s Sun Trines Shy’s Pluto (+7.30 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Shy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J can bring out the psychoanalyst in Shy. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Shy and J. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead J and Shy to a long-term relationship.

Shy’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Neptune (+5.61 harmony) – Shy’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J stimulates the imagination of Shy. Shy’s practical suggestions give form to J’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between J and Shy. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

J’s Jupiter Sextiles Shy’s Saturn (+5.58 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Shy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Shy’s practicality stimulates J’s expansive ideas. J provides vision while Shy creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

J’s Moon Sextiles Shy’s Venus (+5.00 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Shy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. J and Shy have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between J and Shy.

J’s Sun Trines Shy’s Mercury (+4.59 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Shy’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between J and Shy is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Shy understands J’s intentions. J supports Shy’s intellectual excitement. Shy is able to discuss problems with J. Together they can work out a solution.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts Shy’s Uranus (+3.48 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Shy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. J will expand Shy’s goals and creativity. Shy adds a touch of genius and excitement to J’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in J or Shy.

J’s Moon Sextiles Shy’s Mars (+2.84 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Shy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Shy stimulates J’s imagination and self-confidence. J inspires the development of Shy’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between J and Shy. This aspect encourages reproduction if Shy is male and J is female.

J’s Sun Sextiles Shy’s Neptune (+2.70 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Shy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Shy and J. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Shy knows what J is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Moon Sextiles Shy’s Uranus (+2.69 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Shy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking J and Shy. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. J and Shy are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. Shy awakens and inspires ideas in J. J’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Shy’s inventiveness and creativity.

J’s Mars Sextiles Shy’s Neptune (+2.67 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Shy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of J stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Shy. J and Shy will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Shy’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+1.90 harmony) – Shy’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Shy’s ideas combine with J’s dreams. J’s faith deepens Shy’s intellectual self-confidence. J sympathizes with Shy’s desire for mental advancement. Shy respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of J.

Shy’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+1.47 harmony) – Shy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. J enjoys teasing Shy which Shy doesn’t find amusing.

Shy’s Sun Sextiles J’s Neptune (+0.36 harmony) – Shy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between J and Shy. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes J knows what Shy is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Shy’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – Shy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Shy and J are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Shy’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – Shy’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J can have an explosive effect on Shy’s viewpoints. Shy can expand J’s range of interest in various areas of life. J’s influence on Shy is stronger than Shy’s on J. J has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Shy and could be ruthless in doing so.

Shy’s Jupiter Squares J’s Jupiter (neutral) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the moral sentiments, ethical principles, and spiritual values. Both have difficulties in finding a familiar path. This may create problems of adjustment in the relationship.

Shy’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Shy and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Shy or J.

Shy’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Shy and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and Shy have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Shy’s Moon Squares J’s Uranus (-0.20 discord) – Shy’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between J and Shy. J is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Shy is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Shy’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Mars (-1.18 discord) – Shy’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Friendly debates can sometimes lead to irritation if J is headstrong or argumentative. J can be impatient and wants immediate action while Shy intends to plan before taking any action.

J’s Moon Conjuncts Shy’s Saturn (-1.61 discord) – J’s emotional needs combine with Shy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Shy tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of J. J may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Shy imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between J and Shy.

Shy’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Mars (-2.44 discord) – Shy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Shy combines with the aggressiveness of J. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between J and Shy.

J’s Venus Squares Shy’s Pluto (-2.52 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Shy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

J’s Mars Conjuncts Shy’s Pluto (-2.54 discord) – A delicate combination of J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Shy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for J and Shy.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts Shy’s Pluto (-3.29 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Shy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between J and Shy is repeatedly tested in this aspect. Shy may try to reform J’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

Shy’s Sun Squares J’s Venus (-3.33 discord) – Shy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between J’s romantic sensibilities and Shy’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Shy’s Saturn Squares J’s Uranus (-4.02 discord) – Shy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Shy and the progressive nature of J. Shy will restrict J’s progress and expression of individuality. J will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Shy.

J’s Mercury Opposes Shy’s Jupiter (-4.12 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Shy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. J will seem petty to Shy. Shy might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Shy’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-4.16 discord) – Shy’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Shy may feel inadequate when J imparts knowledge and wisdom. J has the tendency to discipline Shy. Shy may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by J. Shy can talk J out of negative attitudes. Shy can encourage progressiveness in J.

Shy’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-4.32 discord) – Shy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. J has the tendency to criticize and judge Shy’s actions. J sometimes blames Shy when something goes wrong. Shy is more tolerant and forgiving towards J. Shy can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from J.

Shy’s Mercury Squares J’s Venus (-4.90 discord) – Shy’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Shy and J. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Shy tends to disregard the emotional needs of J. J may find Shy cold and calculative.

J’s Sun Squares Shy’s Uranus (-5.65 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Shy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Shy produces friction with the selfishness of J. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Shy might resent and even rebel against J’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between J and Shy.

J’s Moon Squares Shy’s Neptune (-6.73 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Shy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. Shy can be deceptive or dishonest to J. J can overreact to the confusion caused by Shy. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

Shy’s Mercury Squares J’s Mercury (-7.42 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Shy’s Moon Opposes J’s Moon (-7.70 discord) – The individual emotional needs complement each other. Both are attracted to each other and can be sexually or domestically compatible. The differences in moods and feelings are mutually helpful. Shy and J’s personalities are different, but there is seldom severe conflict. This is a right combination for marriage if other aspects of the relationship are harmonious.

J’s Sun Squares Shy’s Venus (-8.28 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Shy’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Shy’s romantic sensibilities and J’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

J’s Sun Squares Shy’s Mars (-8.43 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Shy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of J and Shy. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Shy and J is necessary for the union to work. Shy will have to work on patience while J will have to work on humility.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Shy and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -21.35 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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