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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -37

Steve born January 21, 1969
Aquarius ♒

Pam born June 29, 1970
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Steve and Pam’s Relationship

Pam and Steve’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Aquarius. No individual is a pure Cancer or Aquarius but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Steve’s birth chart and the planets in Pam’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Steve’s Venus Trines Pam’s Mars (+9.68 harmony) – Steve’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Pam’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Pam and loving nature of Steve. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Steve’s Sun Trines Pam’s Uranus (+8.50 harmony) – Steve’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Pam’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Pam’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with Steve’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between Steve and Pam.

Pam’s Moon Sextiles Steve’s Venus (+7.75 harmony) – Pam’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Steve’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Pam and Steve have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Pam and Steve.

Steve’s Jupiter Conjuncts Pam’s Uranus (+6.84 harmony) – Steve’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Pam’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. Steve will expand Pam’s goals and creativity. Pam adds a touch of genius and excitement to Steve’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in Steve or Pam.

Steve’s Moon Trines Pam’s Mars (+5.78 harmony) – Steve’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Pam’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between Steve and Pam. Steve inspires the development of Pam’s sexual fire. Pam stimulates Steve’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if Pam is male and Steve is female.

Steve’s Sun Trines Pam’s Pluto (+5.55 harmony) – Steve’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Steve can bring out the psychoanalyst in Pam. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Pam and Steve. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Steve and Pam to a long-term relationship.

Steve’s Sun Sextiles Pam’s Neptune (+5.27 harmony) – Steve’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Pam’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Pam and Steve. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Pam knows what Steve is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Pam’s Sun Trines Steve’s Mars (+5.07 harmony) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Steve’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Pam and Steve are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Steve and Pam inspire creative passion in one another.

Pam’s Moon Trines Steve’s Pluto (+4.03 harmony) – Pam’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Steve’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Pam and Steve. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Steve’s Venus Sextiles Pam’s Saturn (+3.91 harmony) – Steve’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Pam’s protective nature stimulates Steve’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Pam’s Sun Trines Steve’s Moon (+3.77 harmony) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Steve’s emotional needs. Steve’s sensitive nature and Pam’s personality are in harmony. Steve inspires and gives comfort to Pam. Pam supports, encourages, and revitalizes Steve. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Steve’s Moon Sextiles Pam’s Moon (+3.58 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine pleasantly. Steve and Pam’s attitudes are similar enough they tend to agree on almost anything under the sun. They stimulate each other so well they can resolve various lifestyle problems before they even pop up. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a long-term relationship.

Steve’s Neptune Sextiles Pam’s Pluto (+3.54 harmony) – Steve’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Steve stimulates the reforming urge of Pam. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Pam’s Venus Trines Steve’s Saturn (+2.55 harmony) – Pam’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Steve’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Steve’s protective trait is in harmony with Pam’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Pam’s Neptune Sextiles Steve’s Pluto (+2.39 harmony) – Pam’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Steve’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Pam stimulates the reforming urge of Steve. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Steve’s Mars Trines Pam’s Mars (+2.36 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of Steve and Pam. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. Pam and Steve are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

Steve’s Moon Sextiles Pam’s Saturn (+1.80 harmony) – Steve’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between Steve and Pam is based on mutual needs. Pam will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in Steve. Steve can expand the ideas of Pam with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. Pam and Steve are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Steve and Pam.

Pam’s Sun Trines Steve’s Venus (+1.44 harmony) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Steve’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Steve and Pam. Steve’s power of attraction is in harmony with Pam’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Pam’s Saturn Trines Steve’s Pluto (+1.01 harmony) – Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Steve’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Pam’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Steve’s quiet but immense power. Both Pam and Steve are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Steve’s Uranus Sextiles Pam’s Neptune (+0.63 harmony) – Steve’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Pam’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Pam and Steve have a strong intuitive connection.

Pam’s Uranus Sextiles Steve’s Neptune (+0.52 harmony) – Pam’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Steve’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Steve and Pam have a strong intuitive connection.

Steve’s Uranus Conjuncts Pam’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Steve and Pam complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Steve’s Neptune Conjuncts Pam’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Steve and Pam share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Steve or Pam.

Steve’s Pluto Conjuncts Pam’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Steve and Pam enjoy the same cultural references. Pam and Steve have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Steve’s Sun Opposes Pam’s Venus (-0.99 discord) – Steve’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Pam’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between Steve’s ego and Pam’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. Pam and Steve can be emotionally confused with one another.

Steve’s Sun Opposes Pam’s Mars (-1.95 discord) – Steve’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Pam’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Steve and Pam. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Pam and Steve are together.

Pam’s Mercury Squares Steve’s Uranus (-2.46 discord) – Pam’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Steve’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Steve may seem unstable and erratic to Pam. Pam may seem elusive and contradictory to Steve. Steve stimulates, excites, and irritates Pam’s mind simultaneously. Pam can’t understand the complex mind of Steve. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Steve’s Venus Opposes Pam’s Pluto (-2.50 discord) – Steve’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is tension in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Steve’s Sun Squares Pam’s Jupiter (-3.42 discord) – Steve’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Pam’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Steve and Pam have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Pam and Steve may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Pam’s Moon Opposes Steve’s Neptune (-3.67 discord) – Pam’s emotional needs confront and challenge Steve’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Pam can overreact to the confusion caused by Steve. Steve can be deceptive or dishonest to Pam. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Steve’s Moon Opposes Pam’s Pluto (-3.72 discord) – Steve’s emotional needs confront and challenge Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Steve’s defensive nature and Pam’s nastiness. Pam expects Steve to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Pam’s Saturn Opposes Steve’s Neptune (-3.99 discord) – Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Steve’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Pam’s domineering nature and Steve’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

Pam’s Mercury Squares Steve’s Pluto (-4.56 discord) – Pam’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Steve’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Pam and Steve have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Steve and Pam.

Pam’s Sun Squares Steve’s Jupiter (-5.37 discord) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Steve’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Pam and Steve have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Steve and Pam may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Pam’s Jupiter Opposes Steve’s Saturn (-5.44 discord) – Pam’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Steve’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Steve’s restrictive nature and Pam’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

Pam’s Venus Squares Steve’s Mars (-5.60 discord) – Pam’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Steve’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Pam and Steve in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Steve feels suffocated by Pam’s possessiveness. Pam can be deeply hurt by Steve’s thoughtless words.

Steve’s Mars Opposes Pam’s Saturn (-6.30 discord) – Steve’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Steve’s impulsive attitude and Pam’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Pam’s Moon Opposes Steve’s Mars (-8.24 discord) – Pam’s emotional needs confront and challenge Steve’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when Steve becomes rude or aggressive toward Pam. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Pam and Steve. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

Pam’s Sun Squares Steve’s Uranus (-8.60 discord) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Steve’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Steve produces friction with the selfishness of Pam. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Steve might resent and even rebel against Pam’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Pam and Steve.

Pam’s Moon Squares Steve’s Mercury (-8.97 discord) – Pam’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Steve’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Pam is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Steve’s intentions. Steve pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Pam. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Steve’s Mercury Opposes Pam’s Venus (-10.52 discord) – Steve’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Pam’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Steve and Pam. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Steve tends to disregard the emotional needs of Pam. Pam may find Steve cold and calculative.

Pam’s Mars Squares Steve’s Saturn (-14.49 discord) – Pam’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Steve’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Steve’s constructive ideas and Pam’s enthusiasm. Steve may have unreasonable demands for Pam. This makes Pam impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Steve’s Mercury Squares Pam’s Saturn (-15.01 discord) – Steve’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Pam’s criticism and disapproval of Steve’s achievements. Steve may seem careless and annoying to Pam. Pam may appear cold and bossy to Steve. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There is 1 mutual reception in Steve and Pam’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -17.17 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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