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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -18

Sun born May 23, 1985
Gemini ♊

Em born August 30, 1989
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sun and Em’s Relationship

Em and Sun’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Virgo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sun’s birth chart and the planets in Em’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Em’s Venus Trines Sun’s Jupiter (+10.50 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sun’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Sun’s Sun Trines Em’s Mercury (+10.06 harmony) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Em’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Sun and Em is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Em understands Sun’s intentions. Sun supports Em’s intellectual excitement. Em is able to discuss problems with Sun. Together they can work out a solution.

Sun’s Moon Trines Em’s Pluto (+9.78 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Sun and Em. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Em’s Sun Trines Sun’s Neptune (+7.94 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Sun and Em. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Em’s Jupiter Trines Sun’s Pluto (+7.40 harmony) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.

Em’s Venus Sextiles Sun’s Uranus (+6.44 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Sun surprises Em in one way or another. Em has a pleasant way of toning down Sun’s eccentricity.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Mars (+6.43 harmony) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Sun’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Em’s encouragement.

Em’s Venus Trines Sun’s Mars (+6.11 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Sun and loving nature of Em. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Em’s Uranus Sextiles Sun’s Pluto (+4.82 harmony) – Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Sun’s Pluto (+3.47 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Em can bring out the psychoanalyst in Sun.

Em’s Sun Trines Sun’s Mercury (+3.43 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Sun’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Em and Sun is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Sun understands Em’s intentions. Em supports Sun’s intellectual excitement. Sun is able to discuss problems with Em. Together they can work out a solution.

Sun’s Moon Conjuncts Em’s Jupiter (+2.82 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. Em can be protective of Sun and can be too indulgent at the same time. Sun inspires and promotes Em’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, Em will not harbor any ill feelings toward Sun. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Em to Sun. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

Sun’s Moon Sextiles Em’s Mars (+2.19 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Em stimulates Sun’s imagination and self-confidence. Sun inspires the development of Em’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between Sun and Em. This aspect encourages reproduction if Em is male and Sun is female.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Sun’s Moon (+2.09 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sun’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between Em and Sun. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Neptune (+2.08 harmony) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Em inspires the creativity of Sun. Sun’s practical suggestions give form to Em’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Em’s Saturn Sextiles Sun’s Pluto (+0.57 harmony) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate Sun’s power of transformation. Em can give stability to Sun’s feelings of loneliness. Sun can strengthen Em’s sense of authority.

Sun’s Venus Opposes Em’s Venus (+0.19 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges each other. Both have different romantic styles. There is tension in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Em’s Uranus Conjuncts Sun’s Neptune (neutral) – Em’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Sun’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Em and Sun. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Sun or Em to evade responsibility.

Sun’s Neptune Conjuncts Em’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Sun and Em share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Sun or Em.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Mars (-0.60 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Em and Sun. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Sun and Em is necessary for the union to work. Sun will have to work on patience while Em will have to work on humility.

Sun’s Jupiter Squares Em’s Pluto (-1.03 discord) – Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Sun.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Uranus (-1.39 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between Sun and Em. Sun is hypersensitive and moody. Em is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Uranus (-2.52 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Sun produces friction with the selfishness of Em. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Sun might resent and even rebel against Em’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Em and Sun.

Sun’s Moon Squares Em’s Mercury (-3.24 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Em’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Sun is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Em’s intentions. Em pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Sun. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Em’s Jupiter Opposes Sun’s Neptune (-3.32 discord) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Sun’s Moon Squares Em’s Venus (-6.21 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Sun and Em can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Em and Sun. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Em’s Saturn Conjuncts Sun’s Neptune (-6.93 discord) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Sun can add a degree of holiness to Em’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Sun’s Sun Squares Em’s Sun (-7.21 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Sun and Em can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Sun’s Mercury Opposes Em’s Pluto (-8.12 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em has a natural tendency to dominate if Sun appears weak. There is tension in the relationship that both Em and Sun will be uncomfortable with each other. The intensity can sometimes feel overpowering. Sun might have difficulty being heard out of fear of making Em unhappy.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Neptune (-9.74 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Sun can overreact to the confusion caused by Em. Em can be deceptive or dishonest to Sun. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Em’s Mercury Squares Sun’s Neptune (-10.80 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Sun’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Em’s method of thinking. Both Em and Sun are capable of lying to each other. Sun’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Saturn (-11.12 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between Em’s practicality and Sun’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Sun resents Em’s constant discipline. Em is frustrated by the moody disposition of Sun. Em sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. Sun sees the intuitive and magical side.

Em’s Mars Squares Sun’s Uranus (-11.86 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Em resents the quiet side of Sun. Sun dislikes the over emotional side of Em. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Sun’s Mars Squares Em’s Mars (-12.70 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in own wills and desires. Everyday activities together can lead to conflicts. Cooperation is difficult to achieve between Sun and Em. Each one fears the other’s anger. This aspect is challenging to deal with.

There are 2 mutual receptions in Sun and Em’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -27.53 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Sun and Em don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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