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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -49

Sun born May 23, 1985
Gemini ♊

Em born December 11, 1996
Sagittarius ♐

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sun and Em’s Relationship

Em and Sun’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Sagittarius and Gemini. No individual is a pure Sagittarius or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sun’s birth chart and the planets in Em’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Em’s Sun Trines Sun’s Venus (+8.38 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sun’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Sun and Em. Sun’s power of attraction is in harmony with Em’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Sun’s Sun Trines Em’s Uranus (+7.92 harmony) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Em’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with Sun’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between Sun and Em.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Jupiter (+4.65 harmony) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Sun’s thoughts are in harmony with Em’s dreams. Em’s faith deepens Sun’s intellectual self-confidence. Em sympathizes with Sun’s desire for mental advancement. Sun respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Em.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Sun’s Jupiter (+4.48 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sun’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Em stimulates Sun to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Sun and Em can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Mercury (+3.83 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Sun and Em. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Mars (+3.30 harmony) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Sun’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Em’s encouragement.

Sun’s Sun Sextiles Em’s Saturn (+2.69 harmony) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Sun and Em can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. Sun and Em can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

Em’s Jupiter Sextiles Sun’s Saturn (+2.30 harmony) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Sun’s practicality stimulates Em’s expansive ideas. Em provides vision while Sun creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Em’s Venus Squares Sun’s Jupiter (+2.26 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Sun’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Sun may occasionally accuse Em of not being entirely open and honest. Em may accuse Sun of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Sun’s Saturn Sextiles Em’s Neptune (+2.07 harmony) – Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Sun can stabilize Em to be practical. Em can inspire Sun to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Sun’s Sun Trines Em’s Neptune (+1.82 harmony) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Em and Sun. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Em’s Mars Sextiles Sun’s Saturn (+1.00 harmony) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Em stimulates Sun’s ambition and self-confidence. Sun restrains Em’s tendency to act impulsively.

Sun’s Moon Trines Em’s Venus (+0.18 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Em’s cuteness charms Sun’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Sun and Em can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Sun’s Saturn Trines Em’s Saturn (neutral) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very comfortably with the couple. Both Sun and Em can work as a team on a common goal and can accomplish whatever they set their minds to. This is a good aspect for a long-term relationship. Em and Sun’s attitude toward responsibility and security are in harmony.

Em’s Sun Conjuncts Sun’s Uranus (neutral) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of Em combine with the individualism of Sun. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. Em is uncertain of how Sun will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of Sun has a disorganizing effect on Em.

Em’s Mercury Conjuncts Sun’s Neptune (neutral) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Sun brings out the poet and dreamer in Em. There is a robust telepathic connection between Em and Sun that helps to understand each other without speaking a word. Sometimes Em can win arguments even when it’s wrong.

Sun’s Venus Squares Em’s Neptune (-0.24 discord) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Sun and Em. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Sun’s Sun Opposes Em’s Venus (-1.17 discord) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Em’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between Sun’s ego and Em’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. Em and Sun can be emotionally confused with one another.

Sun’s Venus Squares Em’s Jupiter (-1.47 discord) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Em may occasionally accuse Sun of not being entirely open and honest. Sun may accuse Em of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Em’s Neptune Squares Sun’s Pluto (-1.55 discord) – Em’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Em and Sun. Sun will likely have a more forceful personality that Em. Em attempts to give Sun spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Sun in return will psychoanalyze Em’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Jupiter (-2.72 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenges Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The tension between Sun and Em is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Having disagreements about religion, money, and relatives is common. Sun may feel uncomfortable when Em misunderstands a passing mood. Em may make extravagant pledges making Sun to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

Sun’s Mercury Opposes Em’s Venus (-2.85 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Sun and Em. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Sun tends to disregard the emotional needs of Em. Em may find Sun cold and calculative.

Em’s Venus Conjuncts Sun’s Saturn (-3.44 discord) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Sun provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Em’s sympathy and affection stimulate Sun’s confidence. Sun can become possessive of Em. Em can feel restricted by Sun’s criticism and discipline.

Em’s Uranus Squares Sun’s Pluto (-5.65 discord) – Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Em and Sun. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Em’s Mars Squares Sun’s Uranus (-6.63 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Em resents the quiet side of Sun. Sun dislikes the over emotional side of Em. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Mercury (-9.49 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension when Em over analyzes and misinterprets Sun’s feelings. Differing viewpoints can cause minor misunderstanding in the relationship. Em reacts on a rational level while Sun on an emotional level. Understanding and tolerance with less criticism can transform this aspect from discord to harmony.

Sun’s Sun Opposes Em’s Pluto (-9.65 discord) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Em will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of Sun. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

Sun’s Mars Squares Em’s Mars (-11.02 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in own wills and desires. Everyday activities together can lead to conflicts. Cooperation is difficult to achieve between Sun and Em. Each one fears the other’s anger. This aspect is challenging to deal with.

Em’s Saturn Squares Sun’s Neptune (-11.45 discord) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Em’s realism and Sun’s idealism.

Em’s Sun Opposes Sun’s Mars (-14.65 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Em and Sun. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Sun and Em are together.

There is 1 mutual reception in Sun and Em’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -21.90 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Sun and Em don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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