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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +32

Sun born May 23, 1985
Gemini ♊

Em born July 14, 1985
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sun and Em’s Relationship

Em and Sun’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Gemini. No individual is a pure Cancer or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sun’s birth chart and the planets in Em’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Em’s Mercury Trines Sun’s Venus (+14.90 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Em’s communication style is in harmony with Sun’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Sun makes Em feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Sun’s Jupiter Conjuncts Em’s Jupiter (+12.13 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Sun and Em’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

Em’s Mercury Trines Sun’s Uranus (+10.05 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Em and Sun. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Em’s Jupiter Sextiles Sun’s Uranus (+7.57 harmony) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Em’s visions stimulate Sun’s creative genius. Em will expand Sun’s goals and creativity. Sun adds innovation and excitement to Em’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Sun’s Mars Trines Em’s Jupiter (+7.51 harmony) – Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Em has a broad impact on Sun’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Sun challenges Em to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Em’s Moon Trines Sun’s Jupiter (+6.28 harmony) – Em’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Em encourages and nurtures Sun’s expansive ideas. Sun is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Em. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Sun to Em. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Em’s Mercury Sextiles Sun’s Mars (+5.93 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Em’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Sun’s encouragement.

Sun’s Neptune Sextiles Em’s Pluto (+5.89 harmony) – Sun’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Sun stimulates the reforming urge of Em. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Sun’s Venus Sextiles Em’s Jupiter (+5.57 harmony) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Em’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Sun’s Venus Trines Em’s Uranus (+5.19 harmony) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Em surprises Sun in one way or another. Sun has a pleasant way of toning down Em’s eccentricity.

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Em’s Sun Trines Sun’s Saturn (+4.86 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. Em and Sun are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

Sun’s Jupiter Sextiles Em’s Uranus (+4.30 harmony) – Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Sun’s visions stimulate Em’s creative genius. Sun will expand Em’s goals and creativity. Em adds innovation and excitement to Sun’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Em’s Neptune Sextiles Sun’s Pluto (+4.13 harmony) – Em’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Em stimulates the reforming urge of Sun. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Em’s Mars Trines Sun’s Saturn (+2.21 harmony) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Sun’s patience and Em’s aggressiveness.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Sun’s Mercury (+1.68 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sun’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between Em and Sun. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

Sun’s Sun Conjuncts Em’s Venus (+1.11 harmony) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Sun has the same social interests and cultural values as Em. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both Em and Sun enjoy each other’s company.

Sun’s Moon Trines Em’s Saturn (+0.71 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Sun are stabilized by Em. Sun expands the ideas of Em with practical imagination. Em will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Sun is depressed. Sun and Em complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Sun and Em.

Em’s Venus Trines Sun’s Jupiter (+0.23 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sun’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Sun’s Uranus Conjuncts Em’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Sun and Em complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Sun’s Pluto Conjuncts Em’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Sun and Em enjoy the same cultural references. Em and Sun have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Sun’s Neptune Conjuncts Em’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Sun and Em share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Sun or Em.

Em’s Sun Conjuncts Sun’s Moon (neutral) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Sun’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Em connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Sun. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Sun’s Sun Conjuncts Em’s Moon (neutral) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Em’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Sun connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Em. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Em’s Venus Conjuncts Sun’s Mars (neutral) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Sun’s desire fuses with Em’s loving nature. Both are magnetically attracted to each other. Sun can be jealous or possessive. Em has a soothing effect on Sun.

Em’s Jupiter Squares Sun’s Saturn (-0.36 discord) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Sun’s view of responsibility and Em’s dreams of expansion. Sun places too much responsibility on Em. Em feels confined and frustrated.

Sun’s Sun Opposes Em’s Saturn (-0.41 discord) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Sun and Em. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Sun may feel Em being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Em may feel Sun being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

Em’s Mars Squares Sun’s Pluto (-0.65 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Sun’s Moon Conjuncts Em’s Mars (-0.73 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs combine with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Em arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Sun. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Sun and Em will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of Em can be unbearable to the emotional character of Sun. Both Em and Sun are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Pluto (-1.42 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Em and Sun can cause damage to the relationship.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Neptune (-1.70 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Sun can overreact to the confusion caused by Em. Em can be deceptive or dishonest to Sun. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Em’s Moon Conjuncts Sun’s Mars (-2.94 discord) – Em’s emotional needs combine with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Sun arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Em. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Em and Sun will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of Sun can be unbearable to the emotional character of Em. Both Sun and Em are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

Sun’s Jupiter Squares Em’s Saturn (-3.15 discord) – Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Em’s view of responsibility and Sun’s dreams of expansion. Em places too much responsibility on Sun. Sun feels confined and frustrated.

Em’s Venus Opposes Sun’s Uranus (-3.21 discord) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Sun’s Mercury Squares Em’s Jupiter (-4.48 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Sun will seem petty to Em. Em might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Sun’s Venus Squares Em’s Mars (-5.35 discord) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Sun and Em in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Em feels suffocated by Sun’s possessiveness. Sun can be deeply hurt by Em’s thoughtless words.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Venus (-6.34 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Sun’s romantic sensibilities and Em’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Em’s Mercury Opposes Sun’s Jupiter (-6.60 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Em will seem petty to Sun. Sun might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Em’s Moon Opposes Sun’s Uranus (-7.34 discord) – Em’s emotional needs confront and challenge Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between Em and Sun. Em is hypersensitive and moody. Sun is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

Sun’s Mercury Opposes Em’s Saturn (-7.63 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Em’s criticism and disapproval of Sun’s achievements. Sun may seem careless and annoying to Em. Em may appear cold and bossy to Sun. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Sun’s Mercury Squares Em’s Mercury (-9.14 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Em’s Mercury Squares Sun’s Saturn (-9.39 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Sun’s criticism and disapproval of Em’s achievements. Em may seem careless and annoying to Sun. Sun may appear cold and bossy to Em. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Sun’s Mars Opposes Em’s Uranus (-9.97 discord) – Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. Sun resents the quiet side of Em. Em dislikes the over emotional side of Sun. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Sun’s Saturn Conjuncts Em’s Saturn (-12.12 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Sun and Em share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Sun and Em are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

There are 5 mutual receptions in Sun and Em’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -25.32 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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