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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -37

Sun born May 23, 1985
Gemini ♊

Em born July 22, 1992
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sun and Em’s Relationship

Em and Sun’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Gemini. No individual is a pure Cancer or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sun’s birth chart and the planets in Em’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Em’s Mercury Trines Sun’s Venus (+13.49 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Em’s communication style is in harmony with Sun’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Sun makes Em feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Em’s Mercury Trines Sun’s Uranus (+11.34 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Em and Sun. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Sun’s Moon Sextiles Em’s Jupiter (+9.97 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Em is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward Sun. Sun inspires and encourages Em’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Em to Sun.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Jupiter (+8.54 harmony) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Sun’s thoughts are in harmony with Em’s dreams. Em’s faith deepens Sun’s intellectual self-confidence. Em sympathizes with Sun’s desire for mental advancement. Sun respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Em.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Uranus (+7.79 harmony) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Sun and Em. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Neptune (+6.43 harmony) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Em inspires the creativity of Sun. Sun’s practical suggestions give form to Em’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Sun’s Sun Sextiles Em’s Sun (+5.62 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with the couple. The similar temperaments of Sun and Em can stimulate each other to achieve their goals in life. There is a strong sense of compatibility between Em and Sun. Both are supportive of each other’s basic needs. This aspect is mutually beneficial for marriage.

Em’s Venus Trines Sun’s Uranus (+5.04 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Sun surprises Em in one way or another. Em has a pleasant way of toning down Sun’s eccentricity.

Em’s Mercury Sextiles Sun’s Mars (+4.96 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Em’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Sun’s encouragement.

Sun’s Venus Sextiles Em’s Saturn (+3.65 harmony) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Em’s protective nature stimulates Sun’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Em’s Saturn Sextiles Sun’s Uranus (+3.37 harmony) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Em and Sun. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Sun is spontaneous and creative while Em is sensible and rational.

Sun’s Venus Trines Em’s Venus (+3.25 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Sun and Em have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Em’s Sun Trines Sun’s Saturn (+3.17 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. Em and Sun are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

Sun’s Moon Trines Em’s Pluto (+2.83 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Sun and Em. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Sun’s Mars Trines Em’s Saturn (+1.92 harmony) – Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Em’s patience and Sun’s aggressiveness.

Sun’s Jupiter Conjuncts Em’s Saturn (neutral) – Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. Em’s practicality fuses with Sun’s expansive ideas. Sun provides vision while Em creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Venus (-0.39 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Sun’s romantic sensibilities and Em’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Sun’s Sun Conjuncts Em’s Mars (-1.44 discord) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Sun combines with the aggressiveness of Em. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between Em and Sun.

Em’s Venus Opposes Sun’s Jupiter (-1.47 discord) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Sun’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Sun may occasionally accuse Em of not being entirely open and honest. Em may accuse Sun of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Em’s Venus Squares Sun’s Pluto (-1.47 discord) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Sun’s Jupiter Squares Em’s Pluto (-3.28 discord) – Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Sun.

Em’s Jupiter Squares Sun’s Uranus (-3.39 discord) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in Em’s aspirations and Sun’s individualistic ideas. Sun will seem rebellious or unstable to Em. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Sun’s Mars Squares Em’s Jupiter (-3.55 discord) – Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in Sun’s instincts and Em’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

Sun’s Mercury Squares Em’s Venus (-3.71 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Sun and Em. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Sun tends to disregard the emotional needs of Em. Em may find Sun cold and calculative.

Sun’s Venus Squares Em’s Uranus (-3.76 discord) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Sun’s Saturn Conjuncts Em’s Pluto (-3.96 discord) – Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between Sun and Em is repeatedly tested in this aspect. Em may try to reform Sun’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

Sun’s Venus Squares Em’s Neptune (-5.09 discord) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Sun and Em. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Em’s Mercury Opposes Sun’s Jupiter (-7.25 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Em will seem petty to Sun. Sun might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Em’s Mercury Squares Sun’s Saturn (-7.46 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Sun’s criticism and disapproval of Em’s achievements. Em may seem careless and annoying to Sun. Sun may appear cold and bossy to Em. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Sun’s Mercury Opposes Em’s Pluto (-7.49 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em has a natural tendency to dominate if Sun appears weak. There is tension in the relationship that both Em and Sun will be uncomfortable with each other. The intensity can sometimes feel overpowering. Sun might have difficulty being heard out of fear of making Em unhappy.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Neptune (-8.77 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Sun can overreact to the confusion caused by Em. Em can be deceptive or dishonest to Sun. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Pluto (-9.35 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Em and Sun can cause damage to the relationship.

Sun’s Mercury Squares Em’s Mercury (-10.43 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Sun’s Moon Opposes Em’s Uranus (-10.55 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between Sun and Em. Sun is hypersensitive and moody. Em is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

Sun’s Saturn Squares Em’s Saturn (-11.95 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the relationship between how each other handles responsibility and security. Sun and Em can create severe problems of adjustment.

Em’s Mars Opposes Sun’s Saturn (-12.59 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Em’s impulsive attitude and Sun’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Sun’s Mercury Squares Em’s Saturn (-14.04 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Em’s criticism and disapproval of Sun’s achievements. Sun may seem careless and annoying to Em. Em may appear cold and bossy to Sun. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Sun and Em’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -26.98 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Sun and Em don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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