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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +19

Sun born May 23, 1985
Gemini ♊

Em born September 5, 1973
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Sun and Em’s Relationship

Em and Sun’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Virgo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Sun’s birth chart and the planets in Em’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Sun’s Sun Trines Em’s Jupiter (+14.01 harmony) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Em’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in Sun and Em’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. Sun inspires Em to plan big dreams. Em will make Sun feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

Sun’s Mercury Trines Em’s Mercury (+11.59 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Sun and Em. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Sun’s Sun Trines Em’s Pluto (+8.84 harmony) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Sun can bring out the psychoanalyst in Em. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Em and Sun. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Sun and Em to a long-term relationship.

Em’s Moon Trines Sun’s Venus (+7.89 harmony) – Em’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Sun’s cuteness charms Em’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Em and Sun can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Em’s Venus Trines Sun’s Mars (+7.88 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Sun and loving nature of Em. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Em’s Venus Trines Sun’s Jupiter (+6.98 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sun’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Sun’s Moon (+6.78 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sun’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between Em and Sun. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.

Sun’s Moon Sextiles Em’s Mercury (+5.75 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Em’s mentality and powers of perception. The relationship stimulates deep communication in a friendly manner. There is an intuitive understanding of each other’s ideas and views. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Em and Sun are often in complete agreement with each other. There is usually a telepathic thought projection. The relationship provides favorable circumstances to solve problems reasonably.

Sun’s Mars Trines Em’s Uranus (+5.73 harmony) – Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Sun’s Jupiter Trines Em’s Uranus (+5.63 harmony) – Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Sun’s visions are in harmony with Em’s creative genius. Sun will expand Em’s goals and creativity. Em adds innovation and excitement to Sun’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Em’s Sun Trines Sun’s Mercury (+5.12 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Sun’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Em and Sun is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Sun understands Em’s intentions. Em supports Sun’s intellectual excitement. Sun is able to discuss problems with Em. Together they can work out a solution.

Em’s Mars Trines Sun’s Neptune (+3.93 harmony) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. Em helps Sun fight procrastination. Sun inspires Em to more significant achievements.

Em’s Saturn Trines Sun’s Pluto (+3.68 harmony) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Sun’s quiet but immense power. Both Em and Sun are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Em’s Venus Sextiles Sun’s Uranus (+3.55 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Sun surprises Em in one way or another. Em has a pleasant way of toning down Sun’s eccentricity.

Sun’s Uranus Sextiles Em’s Uranus (+2.60 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with the couple. Sun and Em stimulate each other’s strange ideas. There is a feeling of openness. Both enjoy their own craziness. The relationship encourages one another to have a broader view of the changes affecting society in general.

Em’s Moon Sextiles Sun’s Jupiter (+2.39 harmony) – Em’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Sun’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Sun is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward Em. Em inspires and encourages Sun’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Sun to Em.

Sun’s Moon Sextiles Em’s Mars (+1.34 harmony) – Sun’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Em stimulates Sun’s imagination and self-confidence. Sun inspires the development of Em’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between Sun and Em. This aspect encourages reproduction if Em is male and Sun is female.

Em’s Sun Trines Sun’s Neptune (+0.26 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Sun and Em. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Em’s Moon Conjuncts Sun’s Uranus (neutral) – Em’s emotional needs combine with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking Em and Sun. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes Em’s traditional attitude clashes with Sun’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

Sun’s Uranus Conjuncts Em’s Neptune (neutral) – Sun’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Em’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Sun and Em. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Em or Sun to evade responsibility.

Em’s Moon Conjuncts Sun’s Neptune (neutral) – Em’s emotional needs combine with Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The fusion offers strong compatibility with each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Em and Sun. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Sun’s Moon Squares Em’s Pluto (-0.46 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Sun’s defensive nature and Em’s nastiness. Em expects Sun to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Sun’s Saturn Conjuncts Em’s Neptune (-0.74 discord) – Sun’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Em can add a degree of holiness to Sun’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Sun’s Mercury Conjuncts Em’s Mars (-0.78 discord) – Sun’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Friendly debates can sometimes lead to irritation if Em is headstrong or argumentative. Em can be impatient and wants immediate action while Sun intends to plan before taking any action.

Sun’s Moon Conjuncts Em’s Saturn (-1.60 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs combine with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Em tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Sun. Sun may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Em imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Sun and Em.

Sun’s Moon Squares Em’s Venus (-1.70 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Sun and Em can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Em and Sun. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Sun’s Moon Squares Em’s Uranus (-2.03 discord) – Sun’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Em and Sun. Em is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Sun is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Em’s Jupiter Squares Sun’s Pluto (-2.71 discord) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Em.

Em’s Mars Opposes Sun’s Pluto (-3.47 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Sun’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.

Sun’s Venus Opposes Em’s Venus (-3.85 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges each other. Both have different romantic styles. There is tension in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Mars (-5.21 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Em and Sun. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Sun and Em is necessary for the union to work. Sun will have to work on patience while Em will have to work on humility.

Sun’s Venus Opposes Em’s Uranus (-5.60 discord) – Sun’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Em’s Sun Squares Sun’s Uranus (-6.21 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Sun produces friction with the selfishness of Em. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Sun might resent and even rebel against Em’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Em and Sun.

Sun’s Sun Opposes Em’s Neptune (-9.52 discord) – Sun’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between Em and Sun is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. Em can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Sun.

Sun’s Neptune Squares Em’s Pluto (-9.58 discord) – Sun’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Sun and Em. Em will likely have a more forceful personality that Sun. Sun attempts to give Em spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Em in return will psychoanalyze Sun’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Em’s Mercury Squares Sun’s Uranus (-10.68 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Sun’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Sun may seem unstable and erratic to Em. Em may seem elusive and contradictory to Sun. Sun stimulates, excites, and irritates Em’s mind simultaneously. Em can’t understand the complex mind of Sun. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Em’s Mercury Squares Sun’s Mars (-10.80 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Sun’s aggressive attitude and Em’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Em’s sarcasm could easily provoke Sun’s temper.

Em’s Moon Opposes Sun’s Mars (-12.90 discord) – Em’s emotional needs confront and challenge Sun’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when Sun becomes rude or aggressive toward Em. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Em and Sun. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

Em’s Saturn Opposes Sun’s Neptune (-23.19 discord) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Sun’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Em’s domineering nature and Sun’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Sun and Em’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -13.92 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Sun and Em don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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