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Birthday Compatibility Score: -40

Thomas born June 11, 2002
Gemini ♊

Jelmer born September 17, 2003
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Thomas and Jelmer’s Relationship

Jelmer and Thomas’ relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Virgo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Thomas’ birth chart and the planets in Jelmer’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Thomas’ Mercury Trines Jelmer’s Venus (+11.73 harmony) – Thomas’ mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Jelmer’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Thomas’ communication style is in harmony with Jelmer’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Jelmer makes Thomas feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Jelmer’s Moon Trines Thomas’ Neptune (+11.30 harmony) – Jelmer’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Thomas’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Jelmer and Thomas. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Jelmer’s Sun Sextiles Thomas’ Venus (+6.39 harmony) – Jelmer’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Thomas’ understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. Thomas has a soothing and warm effect on Jelmer. Jelmer has the desire to please and support Thomas. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

Thomas’ Mars Sextiles Jelmer’s Jupiter (+2.94 harmony) – Thomas’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Jelmer’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates mutual helpfulness in achieving prosperity. Thomas provides a foundation for aggressive action for Jelmer’s dreams of development. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Jelmer’s Mercury Sextiles Thomas’ Mars (+2.50 harmony) – Jelmer’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Thomas’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Jelmer’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Thomas’ encouragement.

Jelmer’s Sun Sextiles Thomas’ Jupiter (+2.32 harmony) – Jelmer’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Thomas’ spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Jelmer stimulates Thomas to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Thomas and Jelmer can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Jelmer’s Venus Trines Thomas’ Neptune (+1.90 harmony) – Jelmer’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Thomas’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Jelmer is willing to overlook Thomas’ faults. Thomas is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Jelmer’s Mercury Sextiles Thomas’ Jupiter (+1.68 harmony) – Jelmer’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Thomas’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Jelmer’s ideas stimulate Thomas’ dreams. Thomas’ faith deepens Jelmer’s intellectual self-confidence. Thomas sympathizes with Jelmer’s desire for mental advancement. Jelmer respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Thomas.

Thomas’ Venus Sextiles Jelmer’s Venus (+1.19 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Thomas and Jelmer have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Thomas’ Mars Trines Jelmer’s Mars (+0.78 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of Thomas and Jelmer. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. Jelmer and Thomas are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

Jelmer’s Neptune Sextiles Thomas’ Pluto (+0.57 harmony) – Jelmer’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Thomas’ sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Jelmer stimulates the reforming urge of Thomas. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Thomas’ Mars Trines Jelmer’s Uranus (+0.55 harmony) – Thomas’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Jelmer’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Jelmer’s Sun Trines Thomas’ Mercury (+0.52 harmony) – Jelmer’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Thomas’ mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Jelmer and Thomas is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Thomas understands Jelmer’s intentions. Jelmer supports Thomas’ intellectual excitement. Thomas is able to discuss problems with Jelmer. Together they can work out a solution.

Thomas’ Neptune Sextiles Jelmer’s Pluto (+0.42 harmony) – Thomas’ mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Jelmer’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Thomas stimulates the reforming urge of Jelmer. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Thomas’ Saturn Trines Jelmer’s Neptune (+0.01 harmony) – Thomas’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Jelmer’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Thomas’ practical instincts are in harmony with Jelmer’s visions and dreams. Thomas has a good sense of reality that Jelmer might not have. Jelmer is aware of a different dimension that can help Thomas.

Thomas’ Sun Conjuncts Jelmer’s Moon (neutral) – Thomas’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Jelmer’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Thomas connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Jelmer. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Jelmer’s Moon Conjuncts Thomas’ Mercury (neutral) – Jelmer’s emotional needs combine with Thomas’ mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. Jelmer intuitively knows what Thomas is thinking. Thomas can clearly describe Jelmer’s emotions. Thomas can be an excellent listener to any weird things that Jelmer has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

Thomas’ Jupiter Conjuncts Jelmer’s Saturn (neutral) – Thomas’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Jelmer’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. Jelmer’s practicality fuses with Thomas’ expansive ideas. Thomas provides vision while Jelmer creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Thomas’ Uranus Conjuncts Jelmer’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Thomas and Jelmer complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Thomas’ Neptune Conjuncts Jelmer’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Thomas and Jelmer share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Thomas or Jelmer.

Thomas’ Pluto Conjuncts Jelmer’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Thomas and Jelmer enjoy the same cultural references. Jelmer and Thomas have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Thomas’ Sun Squares Jelmer’s Mercury (-0.46 discord) – Thomas’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Jelmer’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Jelmer and Thomas. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Jelmer might be too aggressive in communicating with Thomas.

Jelmer’s Moon Squares Thomas’ Uranus (-0.75 discord) – Jelmer’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Thomas’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Thomas and Jelmer. Thomas is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Jelmer is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Jelmer’s Jupiter Opposes Thomas’ Uranus (-1.13 discord) – Jelmer’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Thomas’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Jelmer’s Mars Conjuncts Thomas’ Uranus (-1.51 discord) – Jelmer’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Thomas’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

Thomas’ Mercury Squares Jelmer’s Jupiter (-2.56 discord) – Thomas’ mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Jelmer’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Thomas will seem petty to Jelmer. Jelmer might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Jelmer’s Venus Squares Thomas’ Mars (-3.09 discord) – Jelmer’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Thomas’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Jelmer and Thomas in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Thomas feels suffocated by Jelmer’s possessiveness. Jelmer can be deeply hurt by Thomas’ thoughtless words.

Jelmer’s Moon Conjuncts Thomas’ Saturn (-3.17 discord) – Jelmer’s emotional needs combine with Thomas’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Thomas tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Jelmer. Jelmer may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Thomas imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Jelmer and Thomas.

Jelmer’s Mercury Squares Thomas’ Saturn (-3.20 discord) – Jelmer’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Thomas’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Thomas’ criticism and disapproval of Jelmer’s achievements. Jelmer may seem careless and annoying to Thomas. Thomas may appear cold and bossy to Jelmer. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Jelmer’s Sun Squares Thomas’ Saturn (-3.80 discord) – Jelmer’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Thomas’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Thomas’ controlling nature and Jelmer’s egocentric nature. Jelmer struggles to break free from the limits set by Thomas. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

Thomas’ Sun Squares Jelmer’s Sun (-4.21 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Thomas and Jelmer can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Jelmer’s Mercury Squares Thomas’ Pluto (-4.69 discord) – Jelmer’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Thomas’ sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Jelmer and Thomas have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Thomas and Jelmer.

Thomas’ Mercury Squares Jelmer’s Uranus (-6.25 discord) – Thomas’ mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Jelmer’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Jelmer may seem unstable and erratic to Thomas. Thomas may seem elusive and contradictory to Jelmer. Jelmer stimulates, excites, and irritates Thomas’ mind simultaneously. Thomas can’t understand the complex mind of Jelmer. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Thomas’ Mars Conjuncts Jelmer’s Saturn (-6.96 discord) – Thomas’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Jelmer’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. Thomas stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in Jelmer. Jelmer in some ways restricts or limits the activities of Thomas.

Jelmer’s Moon Opposes Thomas’ Pluto (-8.90 discord) – Jelmer’s emotional needs confront and challenge Thomas’ sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Jelmer’s defensive nature and Thomas’ nastiness. Thomas expects Jelmer to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Thomas’ Sun Opposes Jelmer’s Pluto (-8.94 discord) – Thomas’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Jelmer’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Jelmer will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of Thomas. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

Thomas’ Mercury Squares Jelmer’s Mars (-11.55 discord) – Thomas’ mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Jelmer’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Jelmer’s aggressive attitude and Thomas’ rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Thomas’ sarcasm could easily provoke Jelmer’s temper.

Thomas’ Saturn Opposes Jelmer’s Pluto (-15.93 discord) – Thomas’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Jelmer’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the relationship when Thomas and Jelmer compete for influence and dominance. Jelmer may try to reform Thomas’ strict and severe attitudes toward life. Thomas’ conservative opinion weakens the inner energy of Jelmer.

There are 2 mutual receptions in Thomas and Jelmer’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -17.70 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Thomas and Jelmer don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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