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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -7

Xander born July 10, 1999
Cancer ♋

Alexis born November 5, 2004
Scorpio ♏

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Xander and Alexis’ Relationship

Alexis and Xander’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Scorpio and Cancer. No individual is a pure Scorpio or Cancer but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Xander’s birth chart and the planets in Alexis’ birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Xander’s Jupiter Sextiles Alexis’ Uranus (+13.31 harmony) – Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Alexis’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Xander’s visions stimulate Alexis’ creative genius. Xander will expand Alexis’ goals and creativity. Alexis adds innovation and excitement to Xander’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Xander’s Mercury Sextiles Alexis’ Jupiter (+11.10 harmony) – Xander’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Alexis’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Xander’s ideas stimulate Alexis’ dreams. Alexis’ faith deepens Xander’s intellectual self-confidence. Alexis sympathizes with Xander’s desire for mental advancement. Xander respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Alexis.

Xander’s Mercury Sextiles Alexis’ Venus (+9.77 harmony) – Xander’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Alexis’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Xander’s communication style stimulates Alexis’ emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Alexis makes Xander feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

Xander’s Moon Trines Alexis’ Neptune (+9.08 harmony) – Xander’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Alexis’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Xander and Alexis. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Alexis’ Jupiter Sextiles Xander’s Pluto (+8.24 harmony) – Alexis’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

Xander’s Sun Trines Alexis’ Sun (+7.61 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Xander and Alexis can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Xander’s Moon Trines Alexis’ Jupiter (+7.37 harmony) – Xander’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Alexis’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Xander encourages and nurtures Alexis’ expansive ideas. Alexis is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Xander. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Alexis to Xander. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Alexis’ Jupiter Trines Xander’s Neptune (+7.13 harmony) – Alexis’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Xander’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Alexis’ expansive dreams are in harmony with Xander’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Xander’s Mars Trines Alexis’ Uranus (+6.74 harmony) – Xander’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Alexis’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Xander’s Moon Trines Alexis’ Venus (+6.66 harmony) – Xander’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Alexis’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Alexis’ cuteness charms Xander’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Xander and Alexis can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Alexis’ Venus Sextiles Xander’s Pluto (+6.35 harmony) – Alexis’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Alexis and Xander makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Alexis’ Mercury Sextiles Xander’s Neptune (+5.87 harmony) – Alexis’ mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Xander’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Xander stimulates the imagination of Alexis. Alexis’ practical suggestions give form to Xander’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Xander and Alexis. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Alexis’ Venus Trines Xander’s Neptune (+5.42 harmony) – Alexis’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Xander’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Alexis is willing to overlook Xander’s faults. Xander is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Alexis’ Jupiter Trines Xander’s Uranus (+4.14 harmony) – Alexis’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Alexis’ visions are in harmony with Xander’s creative genius. Alexis will expand Xander’s goals and creativity. Xander adds innovation and excitement to Alexis’ projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Xander’s Mercury Trines Alexis’ Mercury (+4.02 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Xander and Alexis. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Alexis’ Venus Trines Xander’s Uranus (+3.98 harmony) – Alexis’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Xander surprises Alexis in one way or another. Alexis has a pleasant way of toning down Xander’s eccentricity.

Alexis’ Moon Trines Xander’s Pluto (+3.91 harmony) – Alexis’ emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Alexis and Xander. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Xander’s Moon Sextiles Alexis’ Moon (+3.50 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine pleasantly. Xander and Alexis’ attitudes are similar enough they tend to agree on almost anything under the sun. They stimulate each other so well they can resolve various lifestyle problems before they even pop up. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a long-term relationship.

Xander’s Venus Sextiles Alexis’ Mars (+3.41 harmony) – Xander’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Alexis’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Alexis’ desire stimulates Xander’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.

Alexis’ Neptune Sextiles Xander’s Pluto (+2.49 harmony) – Alexis’ mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Alexis stimulates the reforming urge of Xander. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Xander’s Uranus Sextiles Alexis’ Pluto (+2.20 harmony) – Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Alexis’ sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Alexis’ Moon Conjuncts Xander’s Venus (+0.61 harmony) – Alexis’ emotional needs combine with Xander’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither Alexis nor Xander is useful in setting boundaries.

Alexis’ Moon Conjuncts Xander’s Mercury (neutral) – Alexis’ emotional needs combine with Xander’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. Alexis intuitively knows what Xander is thinking. Xander can clearly describe Alexis’ emotions. Xander can be an excellent listener to any weird things that Alexis has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

Xander’s Uranus Conjuncts Alexis’ Neptune (neutral) – Xander’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Alexis’ mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Xander and Alexis. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Alexis or Xander to evade responsibility.

Xander’s Neptune Conjuncts Alexis’ Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Xander and Alexis share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Xander or Alexis.

Alexis’ Mercury Conjuncts Xander’s Pluto (neutral) – Alexis’ mentality and powers of perception combine with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Xander can have an explosive effect on Alexis’ viewpoints. Alexis can expand Xander’s range of interest in various areas of life. Xander’s influence on Alexis is stronger than Alexis’ on Xander. Xander has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Alexis and could be ruthless in doing so.

Alexis’ Sun Conjuncts Xander’s Mars (-0.12 discord) – Alexis’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Xander’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Alexis combines with the aggressiveness of Xander. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between Xander and Alexis.

Alexis’ Sun Opposes Xander’s Jupiter (-0.18 discord) – Alexis’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Xander’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between Alexis and Xander’s philosophy of life. Xander and Alexis are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

Xander’s Moon Squares Alexis’ Uranus (-1.16 discord) – Xander’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Alexis’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Alexis and Xander. Alexis is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Xander is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Xander’s Sun Squares Alexis’ Jupiter (-1.42 discord) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Alexis’ spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Xander and Alexis have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Alexis and Xander may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Xander’s Mercury Conjuncts Alexis’ Saturn (-1.54 discord) – Xander’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Alexis’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Xander may feel inadequate when Alexis imparts knowledge and wisdom. Alexis has the tendency to discipline Xander. Xander may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Alexis. Xander can talk Alexis out of negative attitudes. Xander can encourage progressiveness in Alexis.

Xander’s Moon Opposes Alexis’ Pluto (-2.05 discord) – Xander’s emotional needs confront and challenge Alexis’ sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Xander’s defensive nature and Alexis’ nastiness. Alexis expects Xander to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Alexis’ Moon Opposes Xander’s Neptune (-2.17 discord) – Alexis’ emotional needs confront and challenge Xander’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Alexis can overreact to the confusion caused by Xander. Xander can be deceptive or dishonest to Alexis. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Xander’s Sun Squares Alexis’ Venus (-2.44 discord) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Alexis’ understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Alexis’ romantic sensibilities and Xander’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Xander’s Sun Conjuncts Alexis’ Saturn (-2.73 discord) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Alexis’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Alexis has the tendency to criticize and judge Xander’s actions. Alexis sometimes blames Xander when something goes wrong. Xander is more tolerant and forgiving towards Alexis. Xander can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Alexis.

Xander’s Mars Conjuncts Alexis’ Mars (-3.17 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine within the couple. Both have similar instincts regarding sex and intimacy. The tendency of action will be identical in Xander and Alexis. The same energy and desire may cause rivalry.

Alexis’ Mars Squares Xander’s Neptune (-3.51 discord) – Alexis’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Xander’s elusive reaction to Alexis’ unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Xander’s Venus Opposes Alexis’ Uranus (-3.71 discord) – Xander’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Alexis’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Xander’s Sun Squares Alexis’ Mars (-4.49 discord) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Alexis’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Xander and Alexis. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Alexis and Xander is necessary for the union to work. Alexis will have to work on patience while Xander will have to work on humility.

Xander’s Moon Opposes Alexis’ Mercury (-4.54 discord) – Xander’s emotional needs confront and challenge Alexis’ mentality and powers of perception. There is tension when Alexis over analyzes and misinterprets Xander’s feelings. Differing viewpoints can cause minor misunderstanding in the relationship. Alexis reacts on a rational level while Xander on an emotional level. Understanding and tolerance with less criticism can transform this aspect from discord to harmony.

Alexis’ Uranus Squares Xander’s Pluto (-4.75 discord) – Alexis’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Alexis and Xander. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Alexis’ Mars Opposes Xander’s Jupiter (-4.83 discord) – Alexis’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Alexis is rash and aggressive while Xander can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between Alexis and Xander. There is tension in individual ambitions.

Xander’s Jupiter Squares Alexis’ Saturn (-5.56 discord) – Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Alexis’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Alexis’ view of responsibility and Xander’s dreams of expansion. Alexis places too much responsibility on Xander. Xander feels confined and frustrated.

Alexis’ Mercury Squares Xander’s Venus (-7.14 discord) – Alexis’ mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Alexis and Xander. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Alexis tends to disregard the emotional needs of Xander. Xander may find Alexis cold and calculative.

Alexis’ Sun Squares Xander’s Uranus (-7.53 discord) – Alexis’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Xander produces friction with the selfishness of Alexis. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Xander might resent and even rebel against Alexis’ display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Alexis and Xander.

Alexis’ Sun Squares Xander’s Mercury (-7.83 discord) – Alexis’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Xander’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Xander and Alexis. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Xander might be too aggressive in communicating with Alexis.

Alexis’ Saturn Opposes Xander’s Neptune (-8.90 discord) – Alexis’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Xander’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Alexis’ domineering nature and Xander’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

Xander’s Mars Squares Alexis’ Saturn (-9.55 discord) – Xander’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Alexis’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Alexis’ constructive ideas and Xander’s enthusiasm. Alexis may have unreasonable demands for Xander. This makes Xander impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Xander’s Saturn Squares Alexis’ Neptune (-11.41 discord) – Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Alexis’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Xander’s realism and Alexis’ idealism.

Xander’s Mercury Opposes Alexis’ Neptune (-11.60 discord) – Xander’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Alexis’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Xander’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of Alexis. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. Alexis may find Xander’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

Alexis’ Sun Opposes Xander’s Saturn (-14.06 discord) – Alexis’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Alexis and Xander. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Alexis may feel Xander being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Xander may feel Alexis being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

Alexis’ Moon Opposes Xander’s Uranus (-14.65 discord) – Alexis’ emotional needs confront and challenge Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between Alexis and Xander. Alexis is hypersensitive and moody. Xander is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

Alexis’ Moon Squares Xander’s Saturn (-16.21 discord) – Alexis’ emotional needs interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between Xander’s practicality and Alexis’ emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Xander can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward Alexis. Alexis can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward Xander.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Xander and Alexis’ planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -22.66 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Xander and Alexis don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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