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Love Match Score

Love Match Score: -40

J born April 14, 1983
Aries ♈

M born November 7, 1981
Scorpio ♏

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Scorpio and Aries. No individual is a pure Scorpio or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Neptune (+11.21 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between M and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Moon Trines M’s Mars (+7.79 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between J and M. J inspires the development of M’s sexual fire. M stimulates J’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if M is male and J is female.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Mars (+7.55 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. J’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by M’s encouragement.

J’s Moon Trines M’s Venus (+7.09 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. M’s cuteness charms J’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. J and M can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

M’s Venus Trines J’s Mars (+5.44 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of J and loving nature of M. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

M’s Moon Sextiles J’s Mercury (+5.36 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s mentality and powers of perception. The relationship stimulates deep communication in a friendly manner. There is an intuitive understanding of each other’s ideas and views. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. J and M are often in complete agreement with each other. There is usually a telepathic thought projection. The relationship provides favorable circumstances to solve problems reasonably.

M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Saturn (+4.98 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J’s protective nature stimulates M’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Venus (+4.92 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between M and J. M’s power of attraction is in harmony with J’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

M’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Pluto (+4.86 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J can be possessive and domineering. M will inspire and encourage J. The combination can either be in harmony or discord depending on other aspects. This aspect helps deepen the connection between M and J.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles J’s Neptune (+4.20 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is an idealistic bond between M and J. M’s expansive dreams stimulate J’s intuitions. Both encourage each other to realize real goals.

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M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Pluto (+4.04 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between M and J makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

M’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Neptune (+3.98 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J stimulates the imagination of M. M’s practical suggestions give form to J’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between J and M. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Mars (+3.31 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of J and M. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. M and J are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Venus (+2.66 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. J’s communication style is in harmony with M’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from M makes J feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

M’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+1.92 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+1.91 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Moon (+1.81 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine pleasantly. J and M’s attitudes are similar enough they tend to agree on almost anything under the sun. They stimulate each other so well they can resolve various lifestyle problems before they even pop up. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a long-term relationship.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (+1.79 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is mutual interest in nature or culture like art and music. There is sympathy, deep affection, and devotion toward each other. This aspect intensifies other aspects. A general positive score will become more positive and vice versa.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Uranus (+0.50 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. J will expand M’s goals and creativity. M adds a touch of genius and excitement to J’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in J or M.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J can have an explosive effect on M’s viewpoints. M can expand J’s range of interest in various areas of life. J’s influence on M is stronger than M’s on J. J has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of M and could be ruthless in doing so.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or M.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Saturn (neutral) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. J’s practicality fuses with M’s expansive ideas. M provides vision while J creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Pluto (-0.22 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between M and J is repeatedly tested in this aspect. J may try to reform M’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Pluto (-0.62 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Jupiter (-1.04 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. J is rash and aggressive while M can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between J and M. There is tension in individual ambitions.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Jupiter (-1.10 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between J and M’s philosophy of life. M and J are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

J’s Venus Squares M’s Mars (-1.23 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between J and M in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. M feels suffocated by J’s possessiveness. J can be deeply hurt by M’s thoughtless words.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Jupiter (-1.31 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenges M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The tension between J and M is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Having disagreements about religion, money, and relatives is common. J may feel uncomfortable when M misunderstands a passing mood. M may make extravagant pledges making J to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Pluto (-1.73 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in J’s defensive nature and M’s nastiness. M expects J to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Pluto (-2.71 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between J and M is repeatedly tested in this aspect. M may try to reform J’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Jupiter (-2.95 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between M and J is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. M may feel uncomfortable when J misunderstands a passing mood. J may make extravagant pledges making M to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

M’s Mercury Opposes J’s Mars (-3.22 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in J’s aggressive attitude and M’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. M’s sarcasm could provoke J’s temper.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-3.74 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M may feel inadequate when J imparts knowledge and wisdom. J has the tendency to discipline M. M may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by J. M can talk J out of negative attitudes. M can encourage progressiveness in J.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Mercury (-3.80 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension when M over analyzes and misinterprets J’s feelings. Differing viewpoints can cause minor misunderstanding in the relationship. M reacts on a rational level while J on an emotional level. Understanding and tolerance with less criticism can transform this aspect from discord to harmony.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Uranus (-4.16 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between J and M. J is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. M is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Mars (-4.50 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between M and J. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when J and M are together.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Jupiter (-5.65 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in M’s instincts and J’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

J’s Venus Opposes M’s Uranus (-7.68 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Moon (-8.37 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of M and the sensitive nature of J. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Uranus (-8.41 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Saturn (-11.59 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between J and M. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. J may feel M being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. M may feel J being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Mercury (-11.81 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of J and M. Communication between M and J is difficult. The mental energies of M are frequently opposed by the creative powers of J. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Mercury (-11.91 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of M and J. Communication between J and M is difficult. The mental energies of J are frequently opposed by the creative powers of M. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Pluto (-13.88 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. M will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of J. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

There are 4 mutual receptions in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -53.69 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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