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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +74

Jay born October 6, 1987
Libra ♎

Em born February 19, 1988
Aquarius ♒

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Jay and Em’s Relationship

Em and Jay’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aquarius and Libra. No individual is a pure Aquarius or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Jay’s birth chart and the planets in Em’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Jay’s Jupiter Conjuncts Em’s Jupiter (+17.44 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Jay and Em’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

Em’s Mars Trines Jay’s Jupiter (+10.32 harmony) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Jay’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Jay has a broad impact on Em’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Em challenges Jay to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Em’s Jupiter Trines Jay’s Uranus (+10.18 harmony) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Jay’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Em’s visions are in harmony with Jay’s creative genius. Em will expand Jay’s goals and creativity. Jay adds innovation and excitement to Em’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Jay’s Jupiter Trines Em’s Uranus (+9.16 harmony) – Jay’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Jay’s visions are in harmony with Em’s creative genius. Jay will expand Em’s goals and creativity. Em adds innovation and excitement to Jay’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Em’s Sun Trines Jay’s Venus (+8.13 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Jay’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Jay and Em. Jay’s power of attraction is in harmony with Em’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Jay’s Sun Trines Em’s Mercury (+6.94 harmony) – Jay’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Em’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Jay and Em is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Em understands Jay’s intentions. Jay supports Em’s intellectual excitement. Em is able to discuss problems with Jay. Together they can work out a solution.

Jay’s Mercury Sextiles Em’s Neptune (+6.64 harmony) – Jay’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Em stimulates the imagination of Jay. Jay’s practical suggestions give form to Em’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Em and Jay. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Em’s Neptune Sextiles Jay’s Pluto (+6.36 harmony) – Em’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Jay’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Em stimulates the reforming urge of Jay. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Jay’s Jupiter (+6.34 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jay’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Em stimulates Jay to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Jay and Em can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Jay’s Jupiter Trines Em’s Saturn (+5.84 harmony) – Jay’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Em’s practicality is in harmony with Jay’s expansive ideas. Jay provides vision while Em creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Em’s Venus Trines Jay’s Saturn (+4.04 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Jay’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Jay’s protective trait is in harmony with Em’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Em’s Sun Trines Jay’s Mercury (+3.95 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Jay’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Em and Jay is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Jay understands Em’s intentions. Em supports Jay’s intellectual excitement. Jay is able to discuss problems with Em. Together they can work out a solution.

Jay’s Venus Sextiles Em’s Mars (+3.54 harmony) – Jay’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Em’s desire stimulates Jay’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.

Em’s Sun Trines Jay’s Pluto (+3.23 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Jay’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em can bring out the psychoanalyst in Jay. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Jay and Em. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Em and Jay to a long-term relationship.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Jay’s Neptune (+2.73 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jay’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Jay and Em. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Jay knows what Em is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Em’s Mercury Sextiles Jay’s Saturn (+2.20 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Jay’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Jay helps give form to Em’s ideas. Em learns a lot from Jay’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when Jay offers practical guidance that improves Em’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Jay’s Venus Opposes Em’s Jupiter (+2.16 harmony) – Jay’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Em’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Em may occasionally accuse Jay of not being entirely open and honest. Jay may accuse Em of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Jay’s Venus Sextiles Em’s Uranus (+1.74 harmony) – Jay’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Em surprises Jay in one way or another. Jay has a pleasant way of toning down Em’s eccentricity.

Em’s Jupiter Trines Jay’s Neptune (+1.67 harmony) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Jay’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Em’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Jay’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Em’s Sun Sextiles Jay’s Uranus (+1.17 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jay’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Em and Jay have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Jay and Em.

Jay’s Venus Sextiles Em’s Saturn (+0.84 harmony) – Jay’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Em’s protective nature stimulates Jay’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Jay’s Mercury Conjuncts Em’s Pluto (neutral) – Jay’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em can have an explosive effect on Jay’s viewpoints. Jay can expand Em’s range of interest in various areas of life. Em’s influence on Jay is stronger than Jay’s on Em. Em has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Jay and could be ruthless in doing so.

Jay’s Uranus Conjuncts Em’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Jay and Em complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Em’s Uranus Conjuncts Jay’s Neptune (neutral) – Em’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Jay’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Em and Jay. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Jay or Em to evade responsibility.

Jay’s Neptune Conjuncts Em’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Jay and Em share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Jay or Em.

Jay’s Pluto Conjuncts Em’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Jay and Em enjoy the same cultural references. Em and Jay have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Em’s Mars Conjuncts Jay’s Saturn (-0.24 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Jay’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. Em stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in Jay. Jay in some ways restricts or limits the activities of Em.

Em’s Mars Conjuncts Jay’s Neptune (-1.17 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion may combine with Jay’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Em excites Jay’s emotions. Jay encourages Em to have bigger goals. Em can overstimulate the imagination of Jay. Jay can have a dissolving effect on the energies of Em. The relationship can be confusing for both Em and Jay. There is a strong possibility of self-indulgence in one or both.

Jay’s Mercury Opposes Em’s Jupiter (-1.67 discord) – Jay’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Jay will seem petty to Em. Em might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Em’s Saturn Conjuncts Jay’s Uranus (-2.39 discord) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Jay’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Jay is radical and rebellious while Em is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Em’s Venus Squares Jay’s Neptune (-2.70 discord) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Jay’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Em and Jay. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Em’s Mars Conjuncts Jay’s Uranus (-4.45 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Jay’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

Em’s Mercury Squares Jay’s Pluto (-5.07 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Jay’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Em and Jay have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Jay and Em.

Jay’s Mars Squares Em’s Uranus (-5.43 discord) – Jay’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Jay resents the quiet side of Em. Em dislikes the over emotional side of Jay. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Jay’s Sun Opposes Em’s Venus (-5.71 discord) – Jay’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Em’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between Jay’s ego and Em’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. Em and Jay can be emotionally confused with one another.

Jay’s Mercury Squares Em’s Mercury (-6.36 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Jay’s Sun Squares Em’s Neptune (-6.77 discord) – Jay’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Jay and Em can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Em can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Jay.

Jay’s Mars Squares Em’s Mars (-8.27 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in own wills and desires. Everyday activities together can lead to conflicts. Cooperation is difficult to achieve between Jay and Em. Each one fears the other’s anger. This aspect is challenging to deal with.

Em’s Saturn Conjuncts Jay’s Neptune (-9.49 discord) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Jay’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Jay can add a degree of holiness to Em’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Jay’s Mars Squares Em’s Saturn (-14.12 discord) – Jay’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Em’s constructive ideas and Jay’s enthusiasm. Em may have unreasonable demands for Jay. This makes Jay impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

There are 5 mutual receptions in Jay and Em’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -16.78 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Jay and Em don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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