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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +13

Nat born July 13, 1979
Cancer ♋

Tom born September 14, 1964
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Nat and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Nat’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Cancer. No individual is a pure Virgo or Cancer but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Nat’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Tom’s Venus Conjuncts Nat’s Jupiter (+10.47 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Nat’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Nat’s Sun Trines Tom’s Neptune (+7.19 harmony) – Nat’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Tom and Nat. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Nat’s Sun Sextiles Tom’s Sun (+6.82 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with the couple. The similar temperaments of Nat and Tom can stimulate each other to achieve their goals in life. There is a strong sense of compatibility between Tom and Nat. Both are supportive of each other’s basic needs. This aspect is mutually beneficial for marriage.

Nat’s Moon Trines Tom’s Neptune (+5.70 harmony) – Nat’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Nat and Tom. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Nat’s Sun Sextiles Tom’s Jupiter (+3.56 harmony) – Nat’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Nat stimulates Tom to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Tom and Nat can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Nat’s Uranus Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+3.27 harmony) – Nat’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Nat’s Venus Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+3.18 harmony) – Nat’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Tom surprises Nat in one way or another. Nat has a pleasant way of toning down Tom’s eccentricity.

Tom’s Mercury Sextiles Nat’s Venus (+2.71 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Nat’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Tom’s communication style stimulates Nat’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Nat makes Tom feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

Nat’s Mercury Conjuncts Tom’s Venus (+1.97 harmony) – Nat’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Nat’s communication style combines with Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Nat feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

Nat’s Sun Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+1.76 harmony) – Nat’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Nat can bring out the psychoanalyst in Tom.

Tom’s Sun Sextiles Nat’s Uranus (+1.30 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Nat’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Tom and Nat have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Nat and Tom.

Nat’s Saturn Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+0.37 harmony) – Nat’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Nat can stabilize Tom to be practical. Tom can inspire Nat to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Tom’s Venus Sextiles Nat’s Mars (+0.30 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Nat’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Nat’s desire stimulates Tom’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.

Nat’s Uranus Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+0.18 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with the couple. Nat and Tom stimulate each other’s strange ideas. There is a feeling of openness. Both enjoy their own craziness. The relationship encourages one another to have a broader view of the changes affecting society in general.

Nat’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – Nat’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Tom’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Nat and Tom. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Tom or Nat to evade responsibility.

Tom’s Jupiter Opposes Nat’s Uranus (-0.43 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Nat’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Nat’s Moon Conjuncts Tom’s Saturn (-0.88 discord) – Nat’s emotional needs combine with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Tom tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Nat. Nat may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Tom imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Nat and Tom.

Nat’s Neptune Squares Tom’s Pluto (-1.97 discord) – Nat’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Nat and Tom. Tom will likely have a more forceful personality that Nat. Nat attempts to give Tom spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Tom in return will psychoanalyze Nat’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Nat’s Sun Conjuncts Tom’s Mars (-2.60 discord) – Nat’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Nat combines with the aggressiveness of Tom. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between Tom and Nat.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Nat’s Moon (-2.71 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Nat’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of Tom and the sensitive nature of Nat. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

Nat’s Saturn Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (-3.09 discord) – Nat’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between Nat and Tom is repeatedly tested in this aspect. Tom may try to reform Nat’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

Nat’s Jupiter Squares Tom’s Neptune (-3.83 discord) – Nat’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Nat might unintentionally hurt Tom’s sensitive feelings. Tom may appear elusive to Nat. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

Tom’s Sun Squares Nat’s Neptune (-4.60 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Nat’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Tom and Nat can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Nat can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Tom.

Nat’s Saturn Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (-4.64 discord) – Nat’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Tom is radical and rebellious while Nat is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Nat’s Mars Squares Tom’s Pluto (-5.00 discord) – Nat’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Nat’s Mars Squares Tom’s Uranus (-6.12 discord) – Nat’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Nat resents the quiet side of Tom. Tom dislikes the over emotional side of Nat. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Nat’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Mercury (-6.48 discord) – Nat’s emotional needs confront and challenge Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension when Tom over analyzes and misinterprets Nat’s feelings. Differing viewpoints can cause minor misunderstanding in the relationship. Tom reacts on a rational level while Nat on an emotional level. Understanding and tolerance with less criticism can transform this aspect from discord to harmony.

Tom’s Mercury Conjuncts Nat’s Saturn (-7.76 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Nat’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom may feel inadequate when Nat imparts knowledge and wisdom. Nat has the tendency to discipline Tom. Tom may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Nat. Tom can talk Nat out of negative attitudes. Tom can encourage progressiveness in Nat.

Nat’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Neptune (-9.98 discord) – Nat’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Nat’s method of thinking. Both Nat and Tom are capable of lying to each other. Tom’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Nat’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Pluto (-10.13 discord) – Nat’s emotional needs confront and challenge Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Nat’s defensive nature and Tom’s nastiness. Tom expects Nat to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Nat’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-12.77 discord) – Nat’s emotional needs confront and challenge Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between Nat and Tom. Nat is hypersensitive and moody. Tom is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

There are 5 mutual receptions in Nat and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -2.79 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Nat and Tom don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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