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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -9

Lily born November 16, 1997
Scorpio ♏

John born July 11, 1993
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Lily and John’s Relationship

John and Lily’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Scorpio. No individual is a pure Cancer or Scorpio but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Lily’s birth chart and the planets in John’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

John’s Jupiter Trines Lily’s Uranus (+12.18 harmony) – John’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Lily’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. John’s visions are in harmony with Lily’s creative genius. John will expand Lily’s goals and creativity. Lily adds innovation and excitement to John’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

John’s Venus Trines Lily’s Uranus (+12.09 harmony) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Lily’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Lily surprises John in one way or another. John has a pleasant way of toning down Lily’s eccentricity.

John’s Moon Sextiles Lily’s Jupiter (+11.56 harmony) – John’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Lily’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Lily is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward John. John inspires and encourages Lily’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Lily to John.

Lily’s Sun Trines John’s Mercury (+11.30 harmony) – Lily’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with John’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Lily and John is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. John understands Lily’s intentions. Lily supports John’s intellectual excitement. John is able to discuss problems with Lily. Together they can work out a solution.

John’s Moon Trines Lily’s Mercury (+10.42 harmony) – John’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Lily’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Lily and John are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Lily’s Venus Trines John’s Mars (+7.88 harmony) – Lily’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of John and loving nature of Lily. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

John’s Jupiter Sextiles Lily’s Pluto (+7.43 harmony) – John’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Lily’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

Lily’s Sun Trines John’s Sun (+7.02 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Lily and John can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Lily’s Jupiter Trines John’s Jupiter (+5.05 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Lily and John’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Lily’s Mercury Sextiles John’s Jupiter (+3.61 harmony) – Lily’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with John’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Lily’s ideas stimulate John’s dreams. John’s faith deepens Lily’s intellectual self-confidence. John sympathizes with Lily’s desire for mental advancement. Lily respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of John.

Lily’s Sun Sextiles John’s Uranus (+3.09 harmony) – Lily’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with John’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Lily and John have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for John and Lily.

Lily’s Moon Sextiles John’s Moon (+2.86 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine pleasantly. Lily and John’s attitudes are similar enough they tend to agree on almost anything under the sun. They stimulate each other so well they can resolve various lifestyle problems before they even pop up. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a long-term relationship.

John’s Moon Trines Lily’s Pluto (+2.77 harmony) – John’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Lily’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between John and Lily. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Lily’s Sun Sextiles John’s Neptune (+2.62 harmony) – Lily’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with John’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between John and Lily. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes John knows what Lily is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

John’s Venus Trines Lily’s Jupiter (+2.47 harmony) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Lily’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Lily’s Neptune Sextiles John’s Pluto (+2.27 harmony) – Lily’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with John’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Lily stimulates the reforming urge of John. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

John’s Venus Trines Lily’s Neptune (+2.04 harmony) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Lily’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. John is willing to overlook Lily’s faults. Lily is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Lily’s Mars Trines John’s Mars (+1.41 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of Lily and John. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. John and Lily are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

John’s Jupiter Trines Lily’s Neptune (+0.77 harmony) – John’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Lily’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. John’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Lily’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Lily’s Venus Conjuncts John’s Neptune (+0.75 harmony) – Lily’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with John’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is mutual interest in nature or culture like art and music. There is sympathy, deep affection, and devotion toward each other. This aspect intensifies other aspects. A general positive score will become more positive and vice versa.

Lily’s Venus Conjuncts John’s Uranus (+0.63 harmony) – Lily’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with John’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. John is tolerant and encouraging toward Lily. Lily can be more creative than John. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Lily’s Mars Sextiles John’s Saturn (+0.02 harmony) – Lily’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with John’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Lily stimulates John’s ambition and self-confidence. John restrains Lily’s tendency to act impulsively.

Lily’s Sun Conjuncts John’s Pluto (neutral) – Lily’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with John’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Lily and John are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

John’s Uranus Conjuncts Lily’s Neptune (neutral) – John’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Lily’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between John and Lily. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Lily or John to evade responsibility.

Lily’s Neptune Conjuncts John’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Lily and John share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Lily or John.

Lily’s Venus Squares John’s Jupiter (-0.57 discord) – Lily’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with John’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. John may occasionally accuse Lily of not being entirely open and honest. Lily may accuse John of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Lily’s Jupiter Squares John’s Pluto (-0.85 discord) – Lily’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with John’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Lily.

Lily’s Moon Squares John’s Mars (-1.57 discord) – Lily’s emotional needs interact stressfully with John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when Lily becomes indecisive when reacting to John’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Lily and John.

John’s Sun Opposes Lily’s Mars (-1.62 discord) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Lily’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between John and Lily. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Lily and John are together.

John’s Jupiter Opposes Lily’s Saturn (-2.75 discord) – John’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Lily’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Lily’s restrictive nature and John’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

Lily’s Mars Squares John’s Jupiter (-3.31 discord) – Lily’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with John’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in Lily’s instincts and John’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

Lily’s Sun Squares John’s Saturn (-3.92 discord) – Lily’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with John’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in John’s controlling nature and Lily’s egocentric nature. Lily struggles to break free from the limits set by John. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

John’s Moon Squares Lily’s Mars (-4.04 discord) – John’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Lily’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when John becomes indecisive when reacting to Lily’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between John and Lily.

John’s Mercury Opposes Lily’s Uranus (-4.66 discord) – John’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Lily’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. Lily may seem unstable and erratic to John. John may seem elusive and contradictory to Lily. Lily stimulates, excites, and irritates John’s mind simultaneously. John can’t understand the complex mind of Lily. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

John’s Sun Opposes Lily’s Venus (-4.94 discord) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Lily’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between John’s ego and Lily’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. Lily and John can be emotionally confused with one another.

John’s Mars Squares Lily’s Pluto (-5.52 discord) – John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Lily’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Lily’s Saturn Squares John’s Uranus (-6.11 discord) – Lily’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with John’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Lily and the progressive nature of John. Lily will restrict John’s progress and expression of individuality. John will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Lily.

Lily’s Mercury Opposes John’s Venus (-6.22 discord) – Lily’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Lily and John. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Lily tends to disregard the emotional needs of John. John may find Lily cold and calculative.

John’s Moon Squares Lily’s Venus (-6.39 discord) – John’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Lily’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. John and Lily can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Lily and John. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

John’s Sun Opposes Lily’s Neptune (-6.60 discord) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Lily’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between Lily and John is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. Lily can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards John.

John’s Saturn Squares Lily’s Pluto (-6.78 discord) – John’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Lily’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. Lily being a reformer might challenge John’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

Lily’s Saturn Squares John’s Neptune (-6.81 discord) – Lily’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with John’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Lily’s realism and John’s idealism.

John’s Moon Conjuncts Lily’s Saturn (-7.47 discord) – John’s emotional needs combine with Lily’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Lily tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of John. John may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Lily imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between John and Lily.

John’s Venus Opposes Lily’s Pluto (-8.30 discord) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Lily’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is tension in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

John’s Sun Squares Lily’s Saturn (-10.70 discord) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Lily’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Lily’s controlling nature and John’s egocentric nature. John struggles to break free from the limits set by Lily. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

John’s Mercury Opposes Lily’s Neptune (-12.27 discord) – John’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Lily’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. John’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of Lily. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. Lily may find John’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

Lily’s Mercury Squares John’s Mars (-12.49 discord) – Lily’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in John’s aggressive attitude and Lily’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Lily’s sarcasm could easily provoke John’s temper.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Lily and John’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -25.35 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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