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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -42

Ben born May 10, 1976
Taurus ♉

May born April 11, 1980
Aries ♈

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Ben and May’s Relationship

May and Ben’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aries and Taurus. No individual is a pure Aries or Taurus but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Ben’s birth chart and the planets in May’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

May’s Jupiter Sextiles Ben’s Uranus (+7.79 harmony) – May’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. May’s visions stimulate Ben’s creative genius. May will expand Ben’s goals and creativity. Ben adds innovation and excitement to May’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

May’s Venus Trines Ben’s Pluto (+7.59 harmony) – May’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between May and Ben makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Ben’s Mars Trines May’s Uranus (+6.10 harmony) – Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with May’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

May’s Mercury Trines Ben’s Mars (+5.20 harmony) – May’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. May’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Ben’s encouragement.

Ben’s Saturn Trines May’s Uranus (+3.56 harmony) – Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with May’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Ben’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with May’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of May with the experience and caution of Ben toward a constructive goal. May is spontaneous and creative while Ben is sensible and levelheaded.

May’s Sun Trines Ben’s Neptune (+3.47 harmony) – May’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Ben and May. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Ben’s Sun Trines May’s Saturn (+3.19 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with May’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. Ben and May are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

May’s Mercury Trines Ben’s Saturn (+2.96 harmony) – May’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Ben helps give form to May’s ideas. May learns a lot from Ben’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Ben offers practical guidance that improves May’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Ben’s Mercury Conjuncts May’s Venus (+2.82 harmony) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception combine with May’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Ben’s communication style combines with May’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from May makes Ben feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

Ben’s Sun Sextiles May’s Mercury (+0.32 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with May’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between Ben and May. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

Ben’s Mars Sextiles May’s Saturn (+0.22 harmony) – Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with May’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Ben stimulates May’s ambition and self-confidence. May restrains Ben’s tendency to act impulsively.

Ben’s Neptune Conjuncts May’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Ben and May share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Ben or May.

Ben’s Pluto Conjuncts May’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Ben and May enjoy the same cultural references. May and Ben have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

May’s Sun Opposes Ben’s Uranus (-2.27 discord) – May’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of May and the independent nature of Ben. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted Ben and May together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

May’s Saturn Squares Ben’s Neptune (-2.48 discord) – May’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in May’s realism and Ben’s idealism.

May’s Sun Opposes Ben’s Pluto (-2.58 discord) – May’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Ben will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of May. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

Ben’s Saturn Squares May’s Pluto (-3.98 discord) – Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with May’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. May being a reformer might challenge Ben’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

Ben’s Mercury Squares May’s Jupiter (-4.46 discord) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with May’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Ben will seem petty to May. May might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Ben’s Mars Squares May’s Pluto (-4.58 discord) – Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with May’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

May’s Venus Opposes Ben’s Neptune (-4.64 discord) – May’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between May and Ben. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Ben’s Sun Squares May’s Mars (-4.90 discord) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with May’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Ben and May. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between May and Ben is necessary for the union to work. May will have to work on patience while Ben will have to work on humility.

Ben’s Mercury Squares May’s Mars (-5.45 discord) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with May’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in May’s aggressive attitude and Ben’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Ben’s sarcasm could easily provoke May’s temper.

Ben’s Mercury Opposes May’s Uranus (-6.16 discord) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge May’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. May may seem unstable and erratic to Ben. Ben may seem elusive and contradictory to May. May stimulates, excites, and irritates Ben’s mind simultaneously. Ben can’t understand the complex mind of May. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Ben’s Sun Opposes May’s Uranus (-7.12 discord) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge May’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Ben and the independent nature of May. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted May and Ben together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

May’s Sun Squares Ben’s Mars (-8.82 discord) – May’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of May and Ben. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Ben and May is necessary for the union to work. Ben will have to work on patience while May will have to work on humility.

May’s Sun Squares Ben’s Saturn (-9.06 discord) – May’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Ben’s controlling nature and May’s egocentric nature. May struggles to break free from the limits set by Ben. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

The remaining -18.72 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Ben and May don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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