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Love Match Score

Love Match Score: +74

Em born December 16, 1985
Sagittarius ♐

M born September 9, 1985
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Em and M’s Relationship

M and Em’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Sagittarius. No individual is a pure Virgo or Sagittarius but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Em’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Em’s Jupiter Sextiles M’s Uranus (+8.98 harmony) – Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Em’s visions stimulate M’s creative genius. Em will expand M’s goals and creativity. M adds innovation and excitement to Em’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

M’s Mercury Trines Em’s Neptune (+8.19 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Em inspires the creativity of M. M’s practical suggestions give form to Em’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

M’s Moon Trines Em’s Pluto (+7.23 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between M and Em. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Em’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+6.88 harmony) – Em’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Em stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Em’s Venus Trines M’s Venus (+6.65 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Em and M have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Em’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Jupiter (+5.99 harmony) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Em’s ideas stimulate M’s dreams. M’s faith deepens Em’s intellectual self-confidence. M sympathizes with Em’s desire for mental advancement. Em respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of M.

Em’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (+5.19 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. M is tolerant and encouraging toward Em. Em can be more creative than M. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Em’s Mars Sextiles M’s Neptune (+5.10 harmony) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Em stimulates the sacrificial tendency in M. Em and M will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

M’s Mars Trines Em’s Neptune (+4.98 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. M helps Em fight procrastination. Em inspires M to more significant achievements.

M’s Mercury Sextiles Em’s Pluto (+4.31 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em stimulates M to be open to new ways of thinking. M appreciates Em’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Em’s influence on M is stronger than M’s on Em.

Em’s Mars Sextiles M’s Mars (+2.79 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly within the couple. Both have a fierce loyalty to each other and can cooperate effectively. The relationship stimulates each other’s courage and ambition. There is a unity of desire between Em and M. Both enjoy sports and other physical activities together.

M’s Venus Trines Em’s Uranus (+2.70 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Em surprises M in one way or another. M has a pleasant way of toning down Em’s eccentricity.

Em’s Sun Trines M’s Mars (+2.13 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Em and M are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both M and Em inspire creative passion in one another.

M’s Venus Opposes Em’s Jupiter (+1.99 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Em’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Em may occasionally accuse M of not being entirely open and honest. M may accuse Em of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles Em’s Saturn (+1.43 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Em’s practicality stimulates M’s expansive ideas. M provides vision while Em creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

M’s Moon Trines Em’s Mars (+1.33 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between M and Em. M inspires the development of Em’s sexual fire. Em stimulates M’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if Em is male and M is female.

Em’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+0.93 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Em and M’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

M’s Mercury Sextiles Em’s Mars (+0.85 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. M’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Em’s encouragement.

M’s Neptune Sextiles Em’s Pluto (+0.35 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of Em. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Em’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Em and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Em or M.

Em’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The spiritual tie between M and Em is deep and unbreakable. The fusion of understanding, romance, dedication, sympathy, idealism, and personal sacrifice in the relationship is remarkable. Both can read each other’s mind frequently. Em may find M hard to comprehend or elusive in some way.

Em’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of Em combine with the individualism of M. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. Em is uncertain of how M will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of M has a disorganizing effect on Em.

Em’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Em and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and Em have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Em’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception combine with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a fusion of intellectual and mental awakening in Em and M. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Em’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Em and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Em’s Sun Squares M’s Sun (-0.27 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Em and M can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Em’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Uranus (-0.68 discord) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M is radical and rebellious while Em is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Em’s Mars Squares M’s Jupiter (-2.26 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in Em’s instincts and M’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

Em’s Mars Conjuncts M’s Pluto (-2.54 discord) – A delicate combination of Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Em and M.

M’s Jupiter Squares Em’s Pluto (-3.23 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to M.

M’s Sun Squares Em’s Venus (-5.67 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Em’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Em’s romantic sensibilities and M’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

M’s Sun Squares Em’s Uranus (-6.17 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Em produces friction with the selfishness of M. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Em might resent and even rebel against M’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between M and Em.

M’s Moon Opposes Em’s Neptune (-6.72 discord) – M’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. M can overreact to the confusion caused by Em. Em can be deceptive or dishonest to M. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

M’s Mars Squares Em’s Saturn (-7.32 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Em’s constructive ideas and M’s enthusiasm. Em may have unreasonable demands for M. This makes M impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Em’s Mercury Squares M’s Mars (-8.08 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in M’s aggressive attitude and Em’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Em’s sarcasm could easily provoke M’s temper.

Em’s Mercury Squares M’s Mercury (-8.36 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

M’s Mercury Squares Em’s Saturn (-9.97 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Em’s criticism and disapproval of M’s achievements. M may seem careless and annoying to Em. Em may appear cold and bossy to M. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 7 mutual receptions in Em and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +70 harmony to the total score. The remaining -12.73 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Em and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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