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Birthday Compatibility Score: -9
HIM born October 11, 1990
Libra ♎
Her born July 11, 1992
Cancer ♋
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Scoring Overview
A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.
A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”
A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.
A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.
A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”
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HIM and Her’s Relationship
Her and HIM’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Libra. No individual is a pure Cancer or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in HIM’s birth chart and the planets in Her’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).
A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.
Her’s Jupiter Trines HIM’s Neptune (+14.30 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Her’s expansive dreams are in harmony with HIM’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.
HIM’s Moon Trines Her’s Pluto (+9.81 harmony) – HIM’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between HIM and Her. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.
Her’s Sun Trines HIM’s Pluto (+9.12 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Her can bring out the psychoanalyst in HIM. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both HIM and Her. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Her and HIM to a long-term relationship.
Her’s Moon Trines HIM’s Jupiter (+8.19 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Her encourages and nurtures HIM’s expansive ideas. HIM is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Her. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from HIM to Her. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.
Her’s Moon Sextiles HIM’s Venus (+7.43 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with HIM’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Her and HIM have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Her and HIM.
Her’s Mercury Sextiles HIM’s Venus (+7.26 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with HIM’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Her’s communication style stimulates HIM’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from HIM makes Her feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.
Her’s Jupiter Trines HIM’s Uranus (+6.73 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Her’s visions are in harmony with HIM’s creative genius. Her will expand HIM’s goals and creativity. HIM adds innovation and excitement to Her’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.
Her’s Uranus Sextiles HIM’s Pluto (+6.35 harmony) – Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.
Her’s Neptune Sextiles HIM’s Pluto (+6.02 harmony) – Her’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Her stimulates the reforming urge of HIM. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
Her’s Mercury Sextiles HIM’s Mars (+5.46 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with HIM’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Her’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by HIM’s encouragement.
Her’s Mercury Conjuncts HIM’s Jupiter (+5.11 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine with HIM’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Her’s ideas combine with HIM’s dreams. HIM’s faith deepens Her’s intellectual self-confidence. HIM sympathizes with Her’s desire for mental advancement. Her respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of HIM.
HIM’s Sun Sextiles Her’s Mercury (+4.75 harmony) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Her’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between HIM and Her. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.
HIM’s Sun Trines Her’s Saturn (+4.56 harmony) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. HIM and Her are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.
HIM’s Venus Trines Her’s Saturn (+4.08 harmony) – HIM’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Her’s protective trait is in harmony with HIM’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.
HIM’s Moon Sextiles Her’s Mars (+3.71 harmony) – HIM’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Her stimulates HIM’s imagination and self-confidence. HIM inspires the development of Her’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between HIM and Her. This aspect encourages reproduction if Her is male and HIM is female.
Her’s Moon Sextiles HIM’s Mercury (+3.70 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with HIM’s mentality and powers of perception. The relationship stimulates deep communication in a friendly manner. There is an intuitive understanding of each other’s ideas and views. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. HIM and Her are often in complete agreement with each other. There is usually a telepathic thought projection. The relationship provides favorable circumstances to solve problems reasonably.
HIM’s Moon Conjuncts Her’s Venus (+3.45 harmony) – HIM’s emotional needs combine with Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither HIM nor Her is useful in setting boundaries.
HIM’s Mercury Sextiles Her’s Mercury (+3.45 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly between the couple. Stimulating and exciting conversations are frequent in the relationship. Ideas flow naturally between HIM and Her. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.
HIM’s Saturn Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+2.86 harmony) – HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. HIM’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate Her’s power of transformation. HIM can give stability to Her’s feelings of loneliness. Her can strengthen HIM’s sense of authority.
Her’s Jupiter Sextiles HIM’s Pluto (+2.82 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.
Her’s Jupiter Trines HIM’s Saturn (+2.44 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. HIM’s practicality is in harmony with Her’s expansive ideas. Her provides vision while HIM creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.
Her’s Mars Trines HIM’s Saturn (+2.40 harmony) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in HIM’s patience and Her’s aggressiveness.
Her’s Mars Trines HIM’s Neptune (+1.87 harmony) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. Her helps HIM fight procrastination. HIM inspires Her to more significant achievements.
HIM’s Mars Trines Her’s Saturn (+1.73 harmony) – HIM’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Her’s patience and HIM’s aggressiveness.
HIM’s Mercury Trines Her’s Saturn (+1.54 harmony) – HIM’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Her helps give form to HIM’s ideas. HIM learns a lot from Her’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Her offers practical guidance that improves HIM’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.
HIM’s Sun Sextiles Her’s Moon (+0.50 harmony) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Her’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between HIM and Her. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.
Her’s Sun Conjuncts HIM’s Moon (neutral) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with HIM’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Her connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of HIM. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.
HIM’s Uranus Conjuncts Her’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both HIM and Her complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.
HIM’s Uranus Conjuncts Her’s Neptune (neutral) – HIM’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Her’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between HIM and Her. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Her or HIM to evade responsibility.
Her’s Uranus Conjuncts HIM’s Neptune (neutral) – Her’s respect for expression of individuality combines with HIM’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Her and HIM. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage HIM or Her to evade responsibility.
HIM’s Neptune Conjuncts Her’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both HIM and Her share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in HIM or Her.
HIM’s Pluto Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. HIM and Her enjoy the same cultural references. Her and HIM have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.
HIM’s Sun Squares Her’s Venus (-0.63 discord) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Her’s romantic sensibilities and HIM’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.
HIM’s Venus Squares Her’s Neptune (-0.71 discord) – HIM’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between HIM and Her. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.
Her’s Sun Opposes HIM’s Uranus (-1.48 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge HIM’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Her and the independent nature of HIM. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted HIM and Her together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.
HIM’s Venus Squares Her’s Uranus (-1.94 discord) – HIM’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.
HIM’s Mercury Squares Her’s Uranus (-2.23 discord) – HIM’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Her may seem unstable and erratic to HIM. HIM may seem elusive and contradictory to Her. Her stimulates, excites, and irritates HIM’s mind simultaneously. HIM can’t understand the complex mind of Her. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.
Her’s Sun Squares HIM’s Mercury (-2.69 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with HIM’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between HIM and Her. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. HIM might be too aggressive in communicating with Her.
Her’s Sun Squares HIM’s Venus (-3.79 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with HIM’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between HIM’s romantic sensibilities and Her’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.
HIM’s Mars Squares Her’s Jupiter (-4.10 discord) – HIM’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in HIM’s instincts and Her’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.
HIM’s Jupiter Opposes Her’s Saturn (-4.85 discord) – HIM’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Her’s restrictive nature and HIM’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.
HIM’s Saturn Conjuncts Her’s Uranus (-5.79 discord) – HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Her is radical and rebellious while HIM is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.
HIM’s Sun Squares Her’s Uranus (-5.97 discord) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Her produces friction with the selfishness of HIM. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Her might resent and even rebel against HIM’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between HIM and Her.
Her’s Venus Opposes HIM’s Saturn (-6.95 discord) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of HIM and the affectionate nature of Her. Her feels dominated. HIM tends to impose too much responsibility on Her.
Her’s Sun Opposes HIM’s Neptune (-7.46 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge HIM’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between HIM and Her is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. HIM can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Her.
HIM’s Sun Squares Her’s Neptune (-7.61 discord) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between HIM and Her can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Her can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards HIM.
HIM’s Saturn Conjuncts Her’s Neptune (-7.69 discord) – HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Her can add a degree of holiness to HIM’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.
HIM’s Moon Opposes Her’s Uranus (-8.45 discord) – HIM’s emotional needs confront and challenge Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between HIM and Her. HIM is hypersensitive and moody. Her is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.
HIM’s Moon Opposes Her’s Neptune (-10.08 discord) – HIM’s emotional needs confront and challenge Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. HIM can overreact to the confusion caused by Her. Her can be deceptive or dishonest to HIM. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.
Her’s Mercury Squares HIM’s Pluto (-10.12 discord) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Her and HIM have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both HIM and Her.
HIM’s Sun Squares Her’s Sun (-10.49 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between HIM and Her can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.
Her’s Mars Opposes HIM’s Pluto (-11.44 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.
Her’s Moon Opposes HIM’s Mars (-11.84 discord) – Her’s emotional needs confront and challenge HIM’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when HIM becomes rude or aggressive toward Her. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Her and HIM. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.
Her’s Saturn Squares HIM’s Pluto (-14.27 discord) – Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. HIM being a reformer might challenge Her’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.
Her’s Sun Opposes HIM’s Saturn (-28.49 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Her and HIM. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Her may feel HIM being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. HIM may feel Her being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.
There are 4 mutual receptions in HIM and Her’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add to the total score. The remaining -9.57 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.
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HIM and Her don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”
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