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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -13

He born November 19, 2023
Scorpio ♏

She born September 17, 2001
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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He and She’s Relationship

She and He’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Scorpio. No individual is a pure Virgo or Scorpio but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in He’s birth chart and the planets in She’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

He’s Venus Sextiles She’s Pluto (+8.29 harmony) – He’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with She’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between He and She makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

She’s Sun Trines He’s Pluto (+6.40 harmony) – She’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with He’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. She can bring out the psychoanalyst in He. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both He and She. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead She and He to a long-term relationship.

He’s Moon Sextiles She’s Pluto (+6.31 harmony) – He’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with She’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between He and She. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

He’s Venus Trines She’s Saturn (+5.59 harmony) – He’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with She’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. She’s protective trait is in harmony with He’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

She’s Mars Trines He’s Jupiter (+5.38 harmony) – She’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with He’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. He has a broad impact on She’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. She challenges He to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

He’s Moon Trines She’s Mercury (+5.36 harmony) – He’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with She’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. She and He are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

She’s Sun Trines He’s Uranus (+4.16 harmony) – She’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with He’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. He’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with She’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between She and He.

He’s Jupiter Sextiles She’s Jupiter (+3.90 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly within the couple. Both stimulate each other to expand their horizons and are protective of each other. She and He have the same view about ethics, philosophy, or religion. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

He’s Sun Sextiles She’s Sun (+3.78 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with the couple. The similar temperaments of He and She can stimulate each other to achieve their goals in life. There is a strong sense of compatibility between She and He. Both are supportive of each other’s basic needs. This aspect is mutually beneficial for marriage.

She’s Sun Sextiles He’s Mars (+3.12 harmony) – She’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with He’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between She and He.

He’s Venus Trines She’s Neptune (+2.37 harmony) – He’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with She’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. He is willing to overlook She’s faults. She is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

She’s Mercury Conjuncts He’s Venus (+1.58 harmony) – She’s mentality and powers of perception combine with He’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. She’s communication style combines with He’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from He makes She feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

He’s Moon Trines She’s Saturn (+1.24 harmony) – He’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with She’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of He are stabilized by She. He expands the ideas of She with practical imagination. She will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when He is depressed. He and She complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between He and She.

She’s Mercury Trines He’s Saturn (+1.16 harmony) – She’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with He’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. He helps give form to She’s ideas. She learns a lot from He’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when He offers practical guidance that improves She’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

She’s Mars Sextiles He’s Saturn (+0.76 harmony) – She’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with He’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. She stimulates He’s ambition and self-confidence. He restrains She’s tendency to act impulsively.

He’s Moon Conjuncts She’s Uranus (neutral) – He’s emotional needs combine with She’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking He and She. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes He’s traditional attitude clashes with She’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

He’s Moon Conjuncts She’s Neptune (neutral) – He’s emotional needs combine with She’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The fusion offers strong compatibility with each other. A robust psychic connection exists between He and She. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

He’s Mercury Conjuncts She’s Pluto (neutral) – He’s mentality and powers of perception combine with She’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. She can have an explosive effect on He’s viewpoints. He can expand She’s range of interest in various areas of life. She’s influence on He is stronger than He’s on She. She has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of He and could be ruthless in doing so.

She’s Neptune Conjuncts He’s Pluto (neutral) – She’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with He’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of She and He. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

He’s Venus Squares She’s Mars (-0.33 discord) – He’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with She’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between He and She in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. She feels suffocated by He’s possessiveness. He can be deeply hurt by She’s thoughtless words.

She’s Venus Squares He’s Uranus (-0.89 discord) – She’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with He’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

He’s Mars Squares She’s Uranus (-1.42 discord) – He’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with She’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. He resents the quiet side of She. She dislikes the over emotional side of He. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

He’s Saturn Conjuncts She’s Uranus (-1.46 discord) – He’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with She’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. She is radical and rebellious while He is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

He’s Venus Squares She’s Jupiter (-1.98 discord) – He’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with She’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. She may occasionally accuse He of not being entirely open and honest. He may accuse She of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

He’s Sun Squares She’s Uranus (-2.76 discord) – He’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with She’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of She produces friction with the selfishness of He. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. She might resent and even rebel against He’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between He and She.

He’s Moon Opposes She’s Venus (-2.82 discord) – He’s emotional needs confront and challenge She’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a mutual attraction for love and marriage between He and She. Much affection is shown between the individuals. There may be fewer mutual interests in the relationship.

He’s Jupiter Squares She’s Neptune (-2.94 discord) – He’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with She’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. He might unintentionally hurt She’s sensitive feelings. She may appear elusive to He. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

She’s Mercury Squares He’s Pluto (-4.77 discord) – She’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with He’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both She and He have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both He and She.

He’s Sun Squares She’s Venus (-5.06 discord) – He’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with She’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between She’s romantic sensibilities and He’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

She’s Venus Squares He’s Mars (-5.13 discord) – She’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with He’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between She and He in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. He feels suffocated by She’s possessiveness. She can be deeply hurt by He’s thoughtless words.

He’s Uranus Squares She’s Uranus (-5.18 discord) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the different point of view about society. He and She don’t see things the same way due to the wide age gap between them. Both She and He want to assert their own will despite the opposition of the other.

She’s Venus Opposes He’s Saturn (-8.99 discord) – She’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges He’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of He and the affectionate nature of She. She feels dominated. He tends to impose too much responsibility on She.

She’s Sun Opposes He’s Neptune (-10.69 discord) – She’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge He’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between He and She is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. He can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards She.

He’s Mercury Opposes She’s Saturn (-20.69 discord) – He’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge She’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in She’s criticism and disapproval of He’s achievements. He may seem careless and annoying to She. She may appear cold and bossy to He. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 2 mutual receptions in He and She’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -17.29 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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He and She don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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