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Birthday Compatibility Score:
Her born October 19, 1981
Libra ♎
Him born September 4, 1980
Virgo ♍
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Scoring Overview
A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.
A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”
A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.
A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.
A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”
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Her and Him’s Relationship
Him and Her’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Libra. No individual is a pure Virgo or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Her’s birth chart and the planets in Him’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).
A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.
Her’s Moon Sextiles Him’s Jupiter (+10.28 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Him is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward Her. Her inspires and encourages Him’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Him to Her.
Her’s Jupiter Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (+8.77 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Him can be possessive and domineering. Her will inspire and encourage Him. The combination can either be in harmony or discord depending on other aspects. This aspect helps deepen the connection between Her and Him.
Him’s Venus Trines Her’s Uranus (+8.13 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Her surprises Him in one way or another. Him has a pleasant way of toning down Her’s eccentricity.
Her’s Moon Trines Him’s Uranus (+7.63 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Her and Him are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Him and Her are together. Him awakens and inspires ideas in Her. Her’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Him’s inventiveness and creativity.
Her’s Jupiter Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+7.51 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is an idealistic bond between Her and Him. Her’s expansive dreams stimulate Him’s intuitions. Both encourage each other to realize real goals.
Her’s Moon Sextiles Him’s Mercury (+5.37 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Him’s mentality and powers of perception. The relationship stimulates deep communication in a friendly manner. There is an intuitive understanding of each other’s ideas and views. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Him and Her are often in complete agreement with each other. There is usually a telepathic thought projection. The relationship provides favorable circumstances to solve problems reasonably.
Her’s Neptune Sextiles Him’s Pluto (+3.52 harmony) – Her’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Her stimulates the reforming urge of Him. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
Him’s Saturn Sextiles Her’s Uranus (+3.28 harmony) – Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Him and Her. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Her is spontaneous and creative while Him is sensible and rational.
Her’s Mercury Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+3.24 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Him stimulates the imagination of Her. Her’s practical suggestions give form to Him’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Him and Her. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.
Him’s Neptune Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+2.57 harmony) – Him’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Him stimulates the reforming urge of Her. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
Him’s Sun Sextiles Her’s Moon (+2.41 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Her’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between Him and Her. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.
Her’s Moon Conjuncts Him’s Venus (+1.51 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine with Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither Her nor Him is useful in setting boundaries.
Her’s Venus Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (+0.95 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is mutual interest in nature or culture like art and music. There is sympathy, deep affection, and devotion toward each other. This aspect intensifies other aspects. A general positive score will become more positive and vice versa.
Her’s Sun Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+0.90 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Him and Her. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Him knows what Her is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.
Her’s Saturn Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+0.78 harmony) – Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Her can stabilize Him to be practical. Him can inspire Her to have a vision and be more imaginative.
Her’s Mars Trines Him’s Neptune (+0.62 harmony) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. Her helps Him fight procrastination. Him inspires Her to more significant achievements.
Her’s Sun Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (neutral) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Her and Him are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.
Her’s Moon Conjuncts Him’s Moon (neutral) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine with ease. Her will be sensitive to Him’s moods or feelings, and vice versa. The fusion of sympathy and understanding makes both agree on almost anything under the sun. Her and Him have many traits in common including likes, dislikes, and viewpoints. The emotional compatibility promotes a long-lasting relationship.
Her’s Mercury Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (neutral) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Him can have an explosive effect on Her’s viewpoints. Her can expand Him’s range of interest in various areas of life. Him’s influence on Her is stronger than Her’s on Him. Him has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Her and could be ruthless in doing so.
Her’s Uranus Conjuncts Him’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Her and Him complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.
Her’s Neptune Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Her and Him share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Her or Him.
Her’s Pluto Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Her and Him enjoy the same cultural references. Him and Her have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.
Him’s Mars Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (-0.56 discord) – A delicate combination of Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Him and Her.
Her’s Venus Squares Him’s Jupiter (-0.72 discord) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Him’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Him may occasionally accuse Her of not being entirely open and honest. Her may accuse Him of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.
Her’s Sun Conjuncts Him’s Mars (-0.73 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Her combines with the aggressiveness of Him. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between Him and Her.
Him’s Venus Squares Her’s Jupiter (-0.82 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Her’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Her may occasionally accuse Him of not being entirely open and honest. Him may accuse Her of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.
Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Pluto (-1.64 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Him’s defensive nature and Her’s nastiness. Her expects Him to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.
Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Jupiter (-2.04 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between Him and Her is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Him may feel uncomfortable when Her misunderstands a passing mood. Her may make extravagant pledges making Him to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.
Her’s Saturn Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (-2.14 discord) – Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between Her and Him is repeatedly tested in this aspect. Him may try to reform Her’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.
Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Mercury (-2.32 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Him is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Her’s intentions. Her pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Him. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.
Him’s Mercury Squares Her’s Venus (-2.56 discord) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Him and Her. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Him tends to disregard the emotional needs of Her. Her may find Him cold and calculative.
Him’s Jupiter Squares Her’s Neptune (-3.09 discord) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Him might unintentionally hurt Her’s sensitive feelings. Her may appear elusive to Him. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.
Her’s Mars Squares Him’s Uranus (-3.73 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Her resents the quiet side of Him. Him dislikes the over emotional side of Her. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.
Her’s Mercury Squares Him’s Venus (-3.78 discord) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Her and Him. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Her tends to disregard the emotional needs of Him. Him may find Her cold and calculative.
Her’s Mars Sextiles Him’s Mars (-3.90 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly within the couple. Both have a fierce loyalty to each other and can cooperate effectively. The relationship stimulates each other’s courage and ambition. There is a unity of desire between Her and Him. Both enjoy sports and other physical activities together.
Her’s Sun Squares Him’s Venus (-5.54 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Him’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Him’s romantic sensibilities and Her’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.
Him’s Sun Squares Her’s Venus (-5.72 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Her’s romantic sensibilities and Him’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.
Him’s Venus Squares Her’s Pluto (-5.79 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.
Him’s Saturn Squares Her’s Neptune (-7.11 discord) – Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Him’s realism and Her’s idealism.
Her’s Moon Squares Him’s Pluto (-9.51 discord) – Her’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Her’s defensive nature and Him’s nastiness. Him expects Her to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.
Him’s Mercury Squares Her’s Neptune (-9.66 discord) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Her’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Him’s method of thinking. Both Him and Her are capable of lying to each other. Her’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.
Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Saturn (-12.72 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between Her’s practicality and Him’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Her can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward Him. Him can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward Her.
There are 2 mutual receptions in Her and Him’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add to the total score. The remaining are due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.
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Her and Him don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”
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