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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -16

I born August 20, 1980
Leo ♌

Him born September 10, 1971
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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I and Him’s Relationship

Him and I’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Leo. No individual is a pure Virgo or Leo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in I’s birth chart and the planets in Him’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Him’s Venus Sextiles I’s Uranus (+7.71 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. I surprises Him in one way or another. Him has a pleasant way of toning down I’s eccentricity.

Him’s Sun Conjuncts I’s Jupiter (+5.25 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with I’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both Him and I share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

Him’s Venus Conjuncts I’s Jupiter (+5.07 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with I’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

I’s Moon Sextiles Him’s Uranus (+3.79 harmony) – I’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking I and Him. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. I and Him are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. Him awakens and inspires ideas in I. I’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Him’s inventiveness and creativity.

Him’s Jupiter Sextiles I’s Saturn (+3.30 harmony) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. I’s practicality stimulates Him’s expansive ideas. Him provides vision while I creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

I’s Moon Sextiles Him’s Mars (+2.57 harmony) – I’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Him stimulates I’s imagination and self-confidence. I inspires the development of Him’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between I and Him. This aspect encourages reproduction if Him is male and I is female.

Him’s Sun Sextiles I’s Uranus (+2.43 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Him and I have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for I and Him.

Him’s Jupiter Conjuncts I’s Uranus (+1.92 harmony) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. Him will expand I’s goals and creativity. I adds a touch of genius and excitement to Him’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in Him or I.

I’s Saturn Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+1.31 harmony) – I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. I can stabilize Him to be practical. Him can inspire I to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Him’s Sun Sextiles I’s Venus (+0.98 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with I’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. I has a soothing and warm effect on Him. Him has the desire to please and support I. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

Him’s Mercury Sextiles I’s Mars (+0.76 harmony) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Him’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by I’s encouragement.

Him’s Mars Trines I’s Pluto (+0.13 harmony) – Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Him and I. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

I’s Sun Conjuncts Him’s Mercury (neutral) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Him’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between I and Him. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. I supports the progressive ideas of Him. Him understands the unique individuality of I.

I’s Mercury Conjuncts Him’s Mercury (neutral) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine with ease between the couple. There is a similarity of ideas and way of thinking. Both are able to communicate intellectually to handle mental tasks. I and Him have a similar approach to solving problems even if they have different educational backgrounds. Their two minds learn from each other. Both can read each other’s thoughts. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

I’s Uranus Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (neutral) – I’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Him’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between I and Him. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Him or I to evade responsibility.

Him’s Uranus Conjuncts I’s Pluto (neutral) – Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Him and I have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

Him’s Mars Squares I’s Uranus (-0.26 discord) – Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Him resents the quiet side of I. I dislikes the over emotional side of Him. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

I’s Mercury Squares Him’s Jupiter (-0.78 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. I will seem petty to Him. Him might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

I’s Jupiter Squares Him’s Saturn (-0.84 discord) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Him’s view of responsibility and I’s dreams of expansion. Him places too much responsibility on I. I feels confined and frustrated.

I’s Neptune Squares Him’s Pluto (-0.87 discord) – I’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of I and Him. Him will likely have a more forceful personality that I. I attempts to give Him spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Him in return will psychoanalyze I’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

I’s Mercury Squares Him’s Neptune (-0.88 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Him’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in I’s method of thinking. Both I and Him are capable of lying to each other. Him’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Him’s Sun Conjuncts I’s Saturn (-1.49 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. I has the tendency to criticize and judge Him’s actions. I sometimes blames Him when something goes wrong. Him is more tolerant and forgiving towards I. Him can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from I.

Him’s Venus Conjuncts I’s Saturn (-1.68 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. I provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Him’s sympathy and affection stimulate I’s confidence. I can become possessive of Him. Him can feel restricted by I’s criticism and discipline.

Him’s Mercury Squares I’s Uranus (-2.32 discord) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. I may seem unstable and erratic to Him. Him may seem elusive and contradictory to I. I stimulates, excites, and irritates Him’s mind simultaneously. Him can’t understand the complex mind of I. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

I’s Moon Squares Him’s Venus (-3.46 discord) – I’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. I and Him can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Him and I. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

I’s Saturn Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (-4.54 discord) – I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between I and Him is repeatedly tested in this aspect. Him may try to reform I’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

I’s Sun Squares Him’s Saturn (-4.72 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Him’s controlling nature and I’s egocentric nature. I struggles to break free from the limits set by Him. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

I’s Sun Squares Him’s Jupiter (-4.88 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Him’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. I and Him have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Him and I may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Him’s Sun Squares I’s Neptune (-5.19 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Him and I can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. I can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Him.

I’s Moon Opposes Him’s Saturn (-5.98 discord) – I’s emotional needs confront and challenge Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between Him’s practicality and I’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. I resents Him’s constant discipline. Him is frustrated by the moody disposition of I. Him sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. I sees the intuitive and magical side.

Him’s Venus Squares I’s Neptune (-6.81 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Him and I. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

I’s Venus Squares Him’s Uranus (-7.23 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Him’s Sun Squares I’s Moon (-8.35 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with I’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. Him’s domineering personality can overwhelm I’s emotional and sensitive nature. I can appear moody to Him’s inconsiderate behavior.

I’s Sun Squares Him’s Neptune (-9.08 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between I and Him can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Him can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards I.

There are 3 mutual receptions in I and Him’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -11.86 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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I and Him don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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