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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +36

Jo born December 7, 1983
Sagittarius ♐

Selby born September 1, 1975
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Jo and Selby’s Relationship

Selby and Jo’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Sagittarius. No individual is a pure Virgo or Sagittarius but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Jo’s birth chart and the planets in Selby’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Jo’s Jupiter Trines Selby’s Jupiter (+12.34 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Jo and Selby’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Selby’s Venus Trines Jo’s Neptune (+9.72 harmony) – Selby’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Jo’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Selby is willing to overlook Jo’s faults. Jo is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Selby’s Jupiter Trines Jo’s Neptune (+8.65 harmony) – Selby’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Jo’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Selby’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Jo’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Jo’s Venus Sextiles Selby’s Venus (+8.55 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Jo and Selby have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Selby’s Venus Sextiles Jo’s Pluto (+8.42 harmony) – Selby’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Jo’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Selby and Jo makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Jo’s Mercury Trines Selby’s Venus (+8.13 harmony) – Jo’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Selby’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Jo’s communication style is in harmony with Selby’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Selby makes Jo feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Selby’s Sun Trines Jo’s Mercury (+7.71 harmony) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Jo’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Selby and Jo is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Jo understands Selby’s intentions. Selby supports Jo’s intellectual excitement. Jo is able to discuss problems with Selby. Together they can work out a solution.

Selby’s Uranus Sextiles Jo’s Neptune (+5.74 harmony) – Selby’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Jo’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Jo and Selby have a strong intuitive connection.

Jo’s Uranus Sextiles Selby’s Pluto (+5.27 harmony) – Jo’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Selby’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Jo’s Mars Trines Selby’s Mars (+4.66 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of Jo and Selby. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. Selby and Jo are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

Selby’s Moon Trines Jo’s Saturn (+3.87 harmony) – Selby’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Jo’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Selby are stabilized by Jo. Selby expands the ideas of Jo with practical imagination. Jo will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Selby is depressed. Selby and Jo complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Selby and Jo.

Jo’s Mars Sextiles Selby’s Neptune (+3.74 harmony) – Jo’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Selby’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Jo stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Selby. Jo and Selby will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Jo’s Mercury Sextiles Selby’s Uranus (+2.54 harmony) – Jo’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Selby’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Jo and Selby bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Selby’s Sun Sextiles Jo’s Saturn (+2.43 harmony) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jo’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Selby and Jo can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. Selby and Jo can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

Jo’s Venus Conjuncts Selby’s Uranus (+2.18 harmony) – Jo’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Selby’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Selby is tolerant and encouraging toward Jo. Jo can be more creative than Selby. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Selby’s Moon Trines Jo’s Venus (+2.06 harmony) – Selby’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Jo’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Jo’s cuteness charms Selby’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Selby and Jo can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Selby’s Sun Trines Jo’s Neptune (+1.99 harmony) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Jo’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Jo and Selby. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Selby’s Moon Trines Jo’s Pluto (+1.84 harmony) – Selby’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Jo’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Selby and Jo. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Selby’s Sun Trines Jo’s Moon (+0.93 harmony) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Jo’s emotional needs. Jo’s sensitive nature and Selby’s personality are in harmony. Jo inspires and gives comfort to Selby. Selby supports, encourages, and revitalizes Jo. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Selby’s Sun Sextiles Jo’s Pluto (+0.71 harmony) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jo’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Selby can bring out the psychoanalyst in Jo.

Selby’s Sun Sextiles Jo’s Venus (+0.65 harmony) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jo’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. Jo has a soothing and warm effect on Selby. Selby has the desire to please and support Jo. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

Jo’s Jupiter Conjuncts Selby’s Neptune (+0.35 harmony) – Jo’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Selby’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Both are spiritually compatible and encourage each other to realize real goals. There is a combined tendency towards extravagance and self-indulgence.

Jo’s Sun Sextiles Selby’s Pluto (+0.15 harmony) – Jo’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Selby’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Jo can bring out the psychoanalyst in Selby.

Jo’s Sun Conjuncts Selby’s Neptune (neutral) – Jo’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Selby’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The spiritual tie between Selby and Jo is deep and unbreakable. The fusion of understanding, romance, dedication, sympathy, idealism, and personal sacrifice in the relationship is remarkable. Both can read each other’s mind frequently. Jo may find Selby hard to comprehend or elusive in some way.

Jo’s Uranus Conjuncts Selby’s Neptune (neutral) – Jo’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Selby’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Jo and Selby. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Selby or Jo to evade responsibility.

Selby’s Uranus Conjuncts Jo’s Pluto (neutral) – Selby’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with Jo’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Selby and Jo have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

Selby’s Sun Squares Jo’s Jupiter (-0.04 discord) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Jo’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Selby and Jo have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Jo and Selby may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Jo’s Neptune Squares Selby’s Pluto (-0.47 discord) – Jo’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Selby’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Jo and Selby. Selby will likely have a more forceful personality that Jo. Jo attempts to give Selby spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Selby in return will psychoanalyze Jo’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Jo’s Venus Opposes Selby’s Jupiter (-0.81 discord) – Jo’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Selby’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Selby may occasionally accuse Jo of not being entirely open and honest. Jo may accuse Selby of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Selby’s Mars Opposes Jo’s Jupiter (-1.52 discord) – Selby’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Jo’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Selby is rash and aggressive while Jo can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between Selby and Jo. There is tension in individual ambitions.

Selby’s Jupiter Opposes Jo’s Pluto (-1.52 discord) – Selby’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Jo’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between Selby and Jo can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

Selby’s Mercury Conjuncts Jo’s Mars (-1.60 discord) – Selby’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Jo’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Friendly debates can sometimes lead to irritation if Jo is headstrong or argumentative. Jo can be impatient and wants immediate action while Selby intends to plan before taking any action.

Selby’s Moon Opposes Jo’s Neptune (-2.12 discord) – Selby’s emotional needs confront and challenge Jo’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Selby can overreact to the confusion caused by Jo. Jo can be deceptive or dishonest to Selby. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Jo’s Mars Conjuncts Selby’s Pluto (-2.22 discord) – A delicate combination of Jo’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Selby’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Jo and Selby.

Jo’s Moon Squares Selby’s Jupiter (-2.66 discord) – Jo’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Selby’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between Jo and Selby is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Jo may feel uncomfortable when Selby misunderstands a passing mood. Selby may make extravagant pledges making Jo to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

Jo’s Moon Opposes Selby’s Moon (-2.80 discord) – The individual emotional needs complement each other. Both are attracted to each other and can be sexually or domestically compatible. The differences in moods and feelings are mutually helpful. Jo and Selby’s personalities are different, but there is seldom severe conflict. This is a right combination for marriage if other aspects of the relationship are harmonious.

Jo’s Sun Squares Selby’s Sun (-5.63 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Jo and Selby can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Jo’s Moon Opposes Selby’s Saturn (-6.16 discord) – Jo’s emotional needs confront and challenge Selby’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between Selby’s practicality and Jo’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Jo resents Selby’s constant discipline. Selby is frustrated by the moody disposition of Jo. Selby sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. Jo sees the intuitive and magical side.

Jo’s Mercury Squares Selby’s Pluto (-6.19 discord) – Jo’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Selby’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Jo and Selby have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Selby and Jo.

Jo’s Venus Squares Selby’s Saturn (-6.81 discord) – Jo’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Selby’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of Selby and the affectionate nature of Jo. Jo feels dominated. Selby tends to impose too much responsibility on Jo.

Selby’s Moon Opposes Jo’s Mercury (-7.84 discord) – Selby’s emotional needs confront and challenge Jo’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension when Jo over analyzes and misinterprets Selby’s feelings. Differing viewpoints can cause minor misunderstanding in the relationship. Jo reacts on a rational level while Selby on an emotional level. Understanding and tolerance with less criticism can transform this aspect from discord to harmony.

Selby’s Saturn Squares Jo’s Pluto (-7.87 discord) – Selby’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Jo’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. Jo being a reformer might challenge Selby’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

Selby’s Mercury Squares Jo’s Neptune (-7.96 discord) – Selby’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Jo’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Jo’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Selby’s method of thinking. Both Selby and Jo are capable of lying to each other. Jo’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Jo’s Sun Opposes Selby’s Mars (-9.48 discord) – Jo’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Selby’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Jo and Selby. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Selby and Jo are together.

Selby’s Moon Squares Jo’s Mars (-10.29 discord) – Selby’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Jo’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when Selby becomes indecisive when reacting to Jo’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Selby and Jo.

Jo’s Mercury Squares Selby’s Mercury (-10.32 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Selby’s Sun Squares Jo’s Uranus (-10.75 discord) – Selby’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Jo’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Jo produces friction with the selfishness of Selby. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Jo might resent and even rebel against Selby’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Selby and Jo.

Selby’s Mars Opposes Jo’s Uranus (-14.53 discord) – Selby’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Jo’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. Selby resents the quiet side of Jo. Jo dislikes the over emotional side of Selby. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

There are 6 mutual receptions in Jo and Selby’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +60 harmony to the total score. The remaining -7.04 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Jo and Selby don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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