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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +8

Kathy born October 21, 1967
Libra ♎

Ray born January 23, 1949
Aquarius ♒

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Kathy and Ray’s Relationship

Ray and Kathy’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aquarius and Libra. No individual is a pure Aquarius or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Kathy’s birth chart and the planets in Ray’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Kathy’s Venus Trines Ray’s Venus (+11.58 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Kathy and Ray have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Kathy’s Mercury Sextiles Ray’s Jupiter (+9.32 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Ray’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Kathy’s ideas stimulate Ray’s dreams. Ray’s faith deepens Kathy’s intellectual self-confidence. Ray sympathizes with Kathy’s desire for mental advancement. Kathy respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Ray.

Kathy’s Venus Trines Ray’s Jupiter (+8.43 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Ray’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Kathy’s Sun Trines Ray’s Uranus (+7.81 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Ray’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Ray’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with Kathy’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between Kathy and Ray.

Ray’s Sun Trines Kathy’s Uranus (+5.66 harmony) – Ray’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Kathy’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with Ray’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between Ray and Kathy.

Kathy’s Sun Trines Ray’s Mercury (+4.64 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Ray’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Kathy and Ray is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Ray understands Kathy’s intentions. Kathy supports Ray’s intellectual excitement. Ray is able to discuss problems with Kathy. Together they can work out a solution.

Kathy’s Jupiter Sextiles Ray’s Uranus (+4.31 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Ray’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Kathy’s visions stimulate Ray’s creative genius. Kathy will expand Ray’s goals and creativity. Ray adds innovation and excitement to Kathy’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Kathy’s Mercury Sextiles Ray’s Venus (+4.14 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Ray’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Kathy’s communication style stimulates Ray’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Ray makes Kathy feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

Ray’s Sun Sextiles Kathy’s Saturn (+1.79 harmony) – Ray’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Ray and Kathy can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. Ray and Kathy can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

Kathy’s Mars Trines Ray’s Saturn (+0.97 harmony) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Ray’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Ray’s patience and Kathy’s aggressiveness.

Kathy’s Saturn Trines Ray’s Pluto (+0.97 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Ray’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Kathy’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Ray’s quiet but immense power. Both Kathy and Ray are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Ray’s Sun Trines Kathy’s Pluto (+0.57 harmony) – Ray’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Ray can bring out the psychoanalyst in Kathy. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Kathy and Ray. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Ray and Kathy to a long-term relationship.

Kathy’s Jupiter Conjuncts Ray’s Saturn (neutral) – Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Ray’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. Ray’s practicality fuses with Kathy’s expansive ideas. Kathy provides vision while Ray creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Kathy’s Venus Conjuncts Ray’s Saturn (-0.65 discord) – Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Ray’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Ray provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Kathy’s sympathy and affection stimulate Ray’s confidence. Ray can become possessive of Kathy. Kathy can feel restricted by Ray’s criticism and discipline.

Kathy’s Saturn Opposes Ray’s Neptune (-0.66 discord) – Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Ray’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Kathy’s domineering nature and Ray’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

Ray’s Venus Squares Kathy’s Saturn (-1.19 discord) – Ray’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of Kathy and the affectionate nature of Ray. Ray feels dominated. Kathy tends to impose too much responsibility on Ray.

Ray’s Mercury Opposes Kathy’s Jupiter (-2.36 discord) – Ray’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Ray will seem petty to Kathy. Kathy might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Ray’s Uranus Squares Kathy’s Pluto (-2.54 discord) – Ray’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Ray and Kathy. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Kathy’s Neptune Squares Ray’s Pluto (-2.55 discord) – Kathy’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Ray’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Kathy and Ray. Ray will likely have a more forceful personality that Kathy. Kathy attempts to give Ray spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Ray in return will psychoanalyze Kathy’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Ray’s Mars Squares Kathy’s Neptune (-3.49 discord) – Ray’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Kathy’s elusive reaction to Ray’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Kathy’s Sun Squares Ray’s Sun (-6.23 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Kathy and Ray can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Kathy’s Uranus Squares Ray’s Uranus (-7.63 discord) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the different point of view about society. Kathy and Ray don’t see things the same way due to the wide age gap between them. Both Ray and Kathy want to assert their own will despite the opposition of the other.

Ray’s Mercury Squares Kathy’s Neptune (-8.93 discord) – Ray’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Kathy’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Ray’s method of thinking. Both Ray and Kathy are capable of lying to each other. Kathy’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Kathy’s Mercury Squares Ray’s Mercury (-9.29 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Kathy’s Mercury Squares Ray’s Pluto (-10.32 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Ray’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Kathy and Ray have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Ray and Kathy.

Kathy’s Mercury Squares Ray’s Mars (-11.79 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Ray’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Ray’s aggressive attitude and Kathy’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Kathy’s sarcasm could easily provoke Ray’s temper.

Kathy’s Mars Opposes Ray’s Uranus (-12.96 discord) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Ray’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. Kathy resents the quiet side of Ray. Ray dislikes the over emotional side of Kathy. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

There are 5 mutual receptions in Kathy and Ray’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -21.60 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Kathy and Ray don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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