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Birthday Compatibility Score: +54

Mary born October 22, 1962
Libra ♎

Ben born July 20, 1981
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Mary and Ben’s Relationship

Ben and Mary’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Libra. No individual is a pure Cancer or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Mary’s birth chart and the planets in Ben’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Ben’s Sun Trines Mary’s Venus (+14.94 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Mary’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Mary and Ben. Mary’s power of attraction is in harmony with Ben’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Ben’s Moon Conjuncts Mary’s Jupiter (+10.30 harmony) – Ben’s emotional needs combine with Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. Mary can be protective of Ben and can be too indulgent at the same time. Ben inspires and promotes Mary’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, Mary will not harbor any ill feelings toward Ben. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Mary to Ben. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

Mary’s Moon Trines Ben’s Neptune (+9.85 harmony) – Mary’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Mary and Ben. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Ben’s Jupiter Trines Mary’s Saturn (+9.52 harmony) – Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Mary’s practicality is in harmony with Ben’s expansive ideas. Ben provides vision while Mary creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Ben’s Mars Trines Mary’s Jupiter (+8.17 harmony) – Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Mary has a broad impact on Ben’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Ben challenges Mary to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Mary’s Mars Sextiles Ben’s Jupiter (+7.52 harmony) – Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates mutual helpfulness in achieving prosperity. Mary provides a foundation for aggressive action for Ben’s dreams of development. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Mary’s Moon Sextiles Ben’s Pluto (+5.89 harmony) – Mary’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between Mary and Ben. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Ben’s Mercury Trines Mary’s Neptune (+5.66 harmony) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Mary inspires the creativity of Ben. Ben’s practical suggestions give form to Mary’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Ben’s Moon Trines Mary’s Neptune (+4.86 harmony) – Ben’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Ben and Mary. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Mary’s Sun Sextiles Ben’s Venus (+4.33 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Ben’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. Ben has a soothing and warm effect on Mary. Mary has the desire to please and support Ben. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

Mary’s Sun Trines Ben’s Mars (+3.87 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Mary and Ben are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Ben and Mary inspire creative passion in one another.

Ben’s Mercury Trines Mary’s Jupiter (+3.84 harmony) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Ben’s thoughts are in harmony with Mary’s dreams. Mary’s faith deepens Ben’s intellectual self-confidence. Mary sympathizes with Ben’s desire for mental advancement. Ben respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Mary.

Mary’s Moon Conjuncts Ben’s Venus (+3.63 harmony) – Mary’s emotional needs combine with Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither Mary nor Ben is useful in setting boundaries.

Ben’s Mercury Sextiles Mary’s Pluto (+2.90 harmony) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Mary stimulates Ben to be open to new ways of thinking. Ben appreciates Mary’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Mary’s influence on Ben is stronger than Ben’s on Mary.

Mary’s Mercury Conjuncts Ben’s Jupiter (+2.51 harmony) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Mary’s ideas combine with Ben’s dreams. Ben’s faith deepens Mary’s intellectual self-confidence. Ben sympathizes with Mary’s desire for mental advancement. Mary respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Ben.

Ben’s Mars Sextiles Mary’s Uranus (+2.43 harmony) – Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

Mary’s Venus Conjuncts Ben’s Uranus (+2.13 harmony) – Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Ben is tolerant and encouraging toward Mary. Mary can be more creative than Ben. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Ben’s Mercury Sextiles Mary’s Uranus (+1.86 harmony) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Ben and Mary bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Mary’s Mars Sextiles Ben’s Saturn (+1.57 harmony) – Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Mary stimulates Ben’s ambition and self-confidence. Ben restrains Mary’s tendency to act impulsively.

Mary’s Sun Trines Ben’s Moon (+1.07 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Ben’s emotional needs. Ben’s sensitive nature and Mary’s personality are in harmony. Ben inspires and gives comfort to Mary. Mary supports, encourages, and revitalizes Ben. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Ben’s Venus Conjuncts Mary’s Uranus (+0.72 harmony) – Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Mary is tolerant and encouraging toward Ben. Ben can be more creative than Mary. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Mary’s Mars Trines Ben’s Uranus (+0.56 harmony) – Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Mary’s Sun Conjuncts Ben’s Pluto (neutral) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Mary and Ben are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Mary’s Saturn Trines Ben’s Saturn (neutral) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very comfortably with the couple. Both Mary and Ben can work as a team on a common goal and can accomplish whatever they set their minds to. This is a good aspect for a long-term relationship. Ben and Mary’s attitude toward responsibility and security are in harmony.

Ben’s Moon Squares Mary’s Venus (-0.06 discord) – Ben’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Ben and Mary can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Mary and Ben. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Mary’s Jupiter Squares Ben’s Uranus (-0.62 discord) – Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in Mary’s aspirations and Ben’s individualistic ideas. Ben will seem rebellious or unstable to Mary. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Ben’s Venus Opposes Mary’s Jupiter (-1.04 discord) – Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Mary’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Mary may occasionally accuse Ben of not being entirely open and honest. Ben may accuse Mary of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Mary’s Mercury Conjuncts Ben’s Saturn (-2.63 discord) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Mary may feel inadequate when Ben imparts knowledge and wisdom. Ben has the tendency to discipline Mary. Mary may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Ben. Mary can talk Ben out of negative attitudes. Mary can encourage progressiveness in Ben.

Mary’s Venus Squares Ben’s Venus (-3.72 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Ben’s Sun Conjuncts Mary’s Mars (-3.92 discord) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Ben combines with the aggressiveness of Mary. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between Mary and Ben.

Mary’s Mercury Squares Ben’s Mercury (-5.94 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Mary’s Moon Squares Ben’s Uranus (-6.59 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Ben and Mary. Ben is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Mary is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Ben’s Moon Opposes Mary’s Pluto (-9.10 discord) – Ben’s emotional needs confront and challenge Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Ben’s defensive nature and Mary’s nastiness. Mary expects Ben to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Ben’s Moon Opposes Mary’s Uranus (-9.66 discord) – Ben’s emotional needs confront and challenge Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between Ben and Mary. Ben is hypersensitive and moody. Mary is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

Mary’s Sun Squares Ben’s Sun (-11.06 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Mary and Ben can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Ben’s Sun Opposes Mary’s Saturn (-12.73 discord) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Ben and Mary. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Ben may feel Mary being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Mary may feel Ben being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Mary and Ben’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -27.06 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Mary and Ben don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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