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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +161

Me born October 9, 1966
Libra ♎

Soulmate born July 12, 1993
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Me and Soulmate’s Relationship

Soulmate and Me’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Libra. No individual is a pure Cancer or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Me’s birth chart and the planets in Soulmate’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Neptune (+11.53 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Me and Soulmate. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Me’s Venus Trines Soulmate’s Venus (+10.71 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Me and Soulmate have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Me’s Venus Conjuncts Soulmate’s Jupiter (+10.56 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Soulmate’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Soulmate’s Neptune Trines Me’s Pluto (+9.48 harmony) – Soulmate’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Soulmate and Me. The spiritual urge of Soulmate harmonizes with the reforming call of Me. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Soulmate’s Uranus Trines Me’s Pluto (+9.03 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both will encourage and support each other’s causes. The relationship promotes the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals.

Me’s Uranus Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+8.57 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very comfortably between the couple. It is easy to let loose, be comfortable, and be yourself in this relationship. Me and Soulmate can harmoniously understand each other’s ideas and desire for independence. In a few words, the connection can be summed up as an “odd couple” or “wacky duo.”

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Neptune (+8.38 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Me inspires the creativity of Soulmate. Soulmate’s practical suggestions give form to Me’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Me’s Uranus Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+8.11 harmony) – Me’s respect for expression of individuality combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both surprise each other at how crazy and beautiful things can get. Soulmate and Me have a strong intuitive connection.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+7.10 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Soulmate can bring out the psychoanalyst in Me.

Soulmate’s Uranus Sextiles Me’s Neptune (+6.60 harmony) – Soulmate’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Me’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Me and Soulmate have a strong intuitive connection.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Uranus (+6.50 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Soulmate and Me have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Me and Soulmate.

Me’s Neptune Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+6.14 harmony) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines pleasantly with the couple. The relationship stimulates a beautiful romance between Me and Soulmate. Both share similar ideas, and each one knows what the other one is thinking. Soulmate and Me appreciate each other’s company. There is a feeling of love and unity in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Saturn (+5.73 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Me helps give form to Soulmate’s ideas. Soulmate learns a lot from Me’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Me offers practical guidance that improves Soulmate’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Uranus (+5.41 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Soulmate and Me bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Jupiter (+4.85 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Soulmate is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward Me. Me inspires and encourages Soulmate’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Soulmate to Me.

Me’s Uranus Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+4.80 harmony) – Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Venus (+3.88 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Me and Soulmate have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Me and Soulmate.

Soulmate’s Mercury Conjuncts Me’s Jupiter (+3.79 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Soulmate’s ideas combine with Me’s dreams. Me’s faith deepens Soulmate’s intellectual self-confidence. Me sympathizes with Soulmate’s desire for mental advancement. Soulmate respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Me.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Saturn (+3.68 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. Soulmate and Me are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Saturn (+3.15 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Soulmate helps give form to Me’s ideas. Me learns a lot from Soulmate’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Soulmate offers practical guidance that improves Me’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+3.00 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Me stimulates Soulmate to be open to new ways of thinking. Soulmate appreciates Me’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Me’s influence on Soulmate is stronger than Soulmate’s on Me.

Me’s Pluto Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+2.39 harmony) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine pleasantly within the couple. Soulmate came from a different generation with different cultural references than Me. Both enjoy reminiscing about the past, on how each individual grew up.

Soulmate’s Sun Conjuncts Me’s Jupiter (+1.75 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Me’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both Soulmate and Me share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

Me’s Mercury Sextiles Soulmate’s Mars (+1.46 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Me’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Soulmate’s encouragement.

Me’s Sun Conjuncts Soulmate’s Jupiter (+1.22 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Soulmate’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both Me and Soulmate share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

Me’s Saturn Sextiles Soulmate’s Uranus (+1.22 harmony) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Me and Soulmate. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Soulmate is spontaneous and creative while Me is sensible and rational.

Soulmate’s Venus Sextiles Me’s Jupiter (+1.03 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Me’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Me’s Saturn Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+0.99 harmony) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Me can stabilize Soulmate to be practical. Soulmate can inspire Me to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Me’s Jupiter Sextiles Soulmate’s Jupiter (+0.92 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly within the couple. Both stimulate each other to expand their horizons and are protective of each other. Soulmate and Me have the same view about ethics, philosophy, or religion. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Me’s Neptune Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of Me and Soulmate. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

Me’s Jupiter Opposes Soulmate’s Neptune (-0.06 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Me’s Jupiter Opposes Soulmate’s Uranus (-0.28 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Soulmate’s Mars Conjuncts Me’s Pluto (-0.51 discord) – A delicate combination of Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Soulmate and Me.

Me’s Saturn Trines Soulmate’s Pluto (-1.83 discord) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Me’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Soulmate’s quiet but immense power. Both Me and Soulmate are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Mercury (-3.51 discord) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Soulmate and Me. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Soulmate might be too aggressive in communicating with Me.

Me’s Mars Squares Soulmate’s Pluto (-3.53 discord) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Uranus (-5.53 discord) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Soulmate produces friction with the selfishness of Me. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Soulmate might resent and even rebel against Me’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Me and Soulmate.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Neptune (-5.99 discord) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Me and Soulmate can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Soulmate can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Me.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Sun (-7.60 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Me and Soulmate can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Me’s Mars Opposes Soulmate’s Saturn (-19.12 discord) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Me’s impulsive attitude and Soulmate’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

There are 6 mutual receptions in Me and Soulmate’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +60 harmony to the total score. The remaining -3.02 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Me and Soulmate don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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