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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +215

Me born September 26, 1946
Libra ♎

Soulmate born May 24, 1973
Gemini ♊

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Me and Soulmate’s Relationship

Soulmate and Me’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Gemini and Libra. No individual is a pure Gemini or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Me’s birth chart and the planets in Soulmate’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+17.76 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Me’s thoughts are in harmony with Soulmate’s dreams. Soulmate’s faith deepens Me’s intellectual self-confidence. Soulmate sympathizes with Me’s desire for mental advancement. Me respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Soulmate.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Venus (+13.28 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Soulmate’s cuteness charms Me’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Me and Soulmate can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Neptune (+11.89 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Me inspires the creativity of Soulmate. Soulmate’s practical suggestions give form to Me’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+11.67 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Me encourages and nurtures Soulmate’s expansive ideas. Soulmate is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Me. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Soulmate to Me. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Venus (+11.24 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Me’s communication style is in harmony with Soulmate’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Soulmate makes Me feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Trines Me’s Neptune (+9.13 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Soulmate’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Me’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Jupiter (+8.65 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Soulmate encourages and nurtures Me’s expansive ideas. Me is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Soulmate. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Me to Soulmate. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Uranus (+8.62 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Soulmate and Me are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Me and Soulmate are together. Me awakens and inspires ideas in Soulmate. Soulmate’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Me’s inventiveness and creativity.

Soulmate’s Venus Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+8.49 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Soulmate and Me makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Mercury (+8.36 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Me and Soulmate. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Sun (+7.62 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Me and Soulmate can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Me’s Uranus Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+7.61 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very comfortably between the couple. It is easy to let loose, be comfortable, and be yourself in this relationship. Me and Soulmate can harmoniously understand each other’s ideas and desire for independence. In a few words, the connection can be summed up as an “odd couple” or “wacky duo.”

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Mercury (+6.53 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Me and Soulmate is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Soulmate understands Me’s intentions. Me supports Soulmate’s intellectual excitement. Soulmate is able to discuss problems with Me. Together they can work out a solution.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Moon (+5.10 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine very comfortably. Soulmate and Me’s hearts and souls share a basic understanding of each other. There are sympathy and agreement in both big and small things. The dispositions and temperaments are the same between Me and Soulmate. Their moods are in harmony. They comfort and nourish each other naturally. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a serious relationship.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Neptune (+5.02 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Me and Soulmate. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Me’s Neptune Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+5.00 harmony) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines pleasantly with the couple. The relationship stimulates a beautiful romance between Me and Soulmate. Both share similar ideas, and each one knows what the other one is thinking. Soulmate and Me appreciate each other’s company. There is a feeling of love and unity in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Venus Trines Me’s Neptune (+4.05 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Soulmate is willing to overlook Me’s faults. Me is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Mercury (+3.98 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Soulmate and Me are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+3.64 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Soulmate and Me. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Soulmate knows what Me is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Saturn (+3.49 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Me are stabilized by Soulmate. Me expands the ideas of Soulmate with practical imagination. Soulmate will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Me is depressed. Me and Soulmate complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Me and Soulmate.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+3.44 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Me stimulates Soulmate to be open to new ways of thinking. Soulmate appreciates Me’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Me’s influence on Soulmate is stronger than Soulmate’s on Me.

Soulmate’s Venus Conjuncts Me’s Uranus (+3.39 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Me is tolerant and encouraging toward Soulmate. Soulmate can be more creative than Me. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Soulmate’s Neptune Trines Me’s Pluto (+3.32 harmony) – Soulmate’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Soulmate and Me. The spiritual urge of Soulmate harmonizes with the reforming call of Me. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Mercury (+3.26 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Me’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Soulmate and Me is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Me understands Soulmate’s intentions. Soulmate supports Me’s intellectual excitement. Me is able to discuss problems with Soulmate. Together they can work out a solution.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Saturn (+2.99 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Me helps give form to Soulmate’s ideas. Soulmate learns a lot from Me’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when Me offers practical guidance that improves Soulmate’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Me’s Saturn Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+2.96 harmony) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Me’s practical instincts are in harmony with Soulmate’s visions and dreams. Me has a good sense of reality that Soulmate might not have. Soulmate is aware of a different dimension that can help Me.

Me’s Mercury Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+2.25 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Soulmate stimulates the imagination of Me. Me’s practical suggestions give form to Soulmate’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Soulmate and Me. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Me’s Venus Trines Soulmate’s Mars (+1.93 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Soulmate and loving nature of Me. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Mars (+1.47 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between Soulmate and Me. Soulmate inspires the development of Me’s sexual fire. Me stimulates Soulmate’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if Me is male and Soulmate is female.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Saturn (+1.47 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Soulmate and Me can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. Soulmate and Me can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Saturn (+1.30 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Soulmate helps give form to Me’s ideas. Me learns a lot from Soulmate’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Soulmate offers practical guidance that improves Me’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Me’s Saturn Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+1.27 harmony) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Me’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate Soulmate’s power of transformation. Me can give stability to Soulmate’s feelings of loneliness. Soulmate can strengthen Me’s sense of authority.

Me’s Jupiter Trines Soulmate’s Saturn (+1.08 harmony) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Soulmate’s practicality is in harmony with Me’s expansive ideas. Me provides vision while Soulmate creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Me’s Jupiter Conjuncts Soulmate’s Uranus (+0.59 harmony) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. Me will expand Soulmate’s goals and creativity. Soulmate adds a touch of genius and excitement to Me’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in Me or Soulmate.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Trines Me’s Uranus (+0.40 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Soulmate’s visions are in harmony with Me’s creative genius. Soulmate will expand Me’s goals and creativity. Me adds innovation and excitement to Soulmate’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Me’s Mars Trines Soulmate’s Saturn (+0.02 harmony) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Soulmate’s patience and Me’s aggressiveness.

Me’s Sun Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Me and Soulmate are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Me’s Moon Conjuncts Soulmate’s Uranus (neutral) – Me’s emotional needs combine with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking Me and Soulmate. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes Me’s traditional attitude clashes with Soulmate’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

Me’s Moon Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s emotional needs combine with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion can be either very good or very bad depending on other aspects of the relationship. There is a powerful physical attraction between Soulmate and Me. Soulmate expands the ideas, imagination, and viewpoints of Me. Sometimes Me will find Soulmate to be possessive, jealous, and domineering.

Me’s Mercury Conjuncts Soulmate’s Uranus (neutral) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a fusion of intellectual and mental awakening in Me and Soulmate. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Me’s Mercury Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Soulmate can have an explosive effect on Me’s viewpoints. Me can expand Soulmate’s range of interest in various areas of life. Soulmate’s influence on Me is stronger than Me’s on Soulmate. Soulmate has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Me and could be ruthless in doing so.

Soulmate’s Uranus Conjuncts Me’s Neptune (neutral) – Soulmate’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Me’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Soulmate and Me. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Me or Soulmate to evade responsibility.

Me’s Neptune Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of Me and Soulmate. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

Me’s Uranus Squares Soulmate’s Pluto (-0.03 discord) – Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Me and Soulmate. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Me’s Mars Conjuncts Soulmate’s Uranus (-0.05 discord) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

Me’s Venus Squares Soulmate’s Jupiter (-0.64 discord) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Soulmate may occasionally accuse Me of not being entirely open and honest. Me may accuse Soulmate of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Soulmate’s Moon Opposes Me’s Pluto (-0.64 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs confront and challenge Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Soulmate’s defensive nature and Me’s nastiness. Me expects Soulmate to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Soulmate’s Moon Squares Me’s Venus (-1.74 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Soulmate and Me can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Me and Soulmate. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Opposes Me’s Saturn (-4.17 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Me’s restrictive nature and Soulmate’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Opposes Me’s Pluto (-4.62 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between Soulmate and Me can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

Soulmate’s Saturn Conjuncts Me’s Uranus (-5.75 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Me is radical and rebellious while Soulmate is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

There are 7 mutual receptions in Me and Soulmate’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +70 harmony to the total score. The remaining -29.63 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Me and Soulmate don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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