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Tom and Tem’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Cancer. No individual is a pure Libra or Cancer but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Tem’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Tem’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Venus (+13.93 harmony) – Tem’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Tem’s communication style is in harmony with Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Tem feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Tem’s Venus Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+9.30 harmony) – Tem’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Tem’s Sun Trines Tom’s Neptune (+8.69 harmony) – Tem’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Tom and Tem. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Tom’s Moon Trines Tem’s Pluto (+7.04 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tem’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Tom and Tem. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Tem’s Moon Conjuncts Tom’s Jupiter (+6.18 harmony) – Tem’s emotional needs combine with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. Tom can be protective of Tem and can be too indulgent at the same time. Tem inspires and promotes Tom’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, Tom will not harbor any ill feelings toward Tem. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Tom to Tem. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

Tom’s Neptune Sextiles Tem’s Pluto (+5.77 harmony) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Tem’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Tom stimulates the reforming urge of Tem. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Venus Sextiles Tem’s Mars (+3.85 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Tem’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Tem’s desire stimulates Tom’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.

Tem’s Moon Sextiles Tom’s Saturn (+2.93 harmony) – Tem’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between Tem and Tom is based on mutual needs. Tom will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in Tem. Tem can expand the ideas of Tom with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. Tom and Tem are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Tem and Tom.

Tom’s Saturn Trines Tem’s Uranus (+2.73 harmony) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Tem’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Tom’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with Tem’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of Tem with the experience and caution of Tom toward a constructive goal. Tem is spontaneous and creative while Tom is sensible and levelheaded.

Tem’s Jupiter Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+2.67 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Tem and Tom’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Tem’s Mercury Sextiles Tom’s Jupiter (+2.20 harmony) – Tem’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Tem’s ideas stimulate Tom’s dreams. Tom’s faith deepens Tem’s intellectual self-confidence. Tom sympathizes with Tem’s desire for mental advancement. Tem respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Tom.

Tem’s Sun Sextiles Tom’s Moon (+0.96 harmony) – Tem’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Tom’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between Tem and Tom. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.

Tom’s Venus Trines Tem’s Uranus (+0.75 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tem’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Tem surprises Tom in one way or another. Tom has a pleasant way of toning down Tem’s eccentricity.

Tem’s Sun Trines Tom’s Sun (+0.31 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Tem and Tom can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Tom’s Sun Conjuncts Tem’s Moon (neutral) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tem’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Tom connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Tem. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Tem’s Moon Conjuncts Tom’s Mercury (neutral) – Tem’s emotional needs combine with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. Tem intuitively knows what Tom is thinking. Tom can clearly describe Tem’s emotions. Tom can be an excellent listener to any weird things that Tem has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

Tem’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Tem and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Tem or Tom.

Tem’s Pluto Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Tem and Tom enjoy the same cultural references. Tom and Tem have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Tom’s Moon Squares Tem’s Mercury (-0.36 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tem’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Tom is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Tem’s intentions. Tem pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Tom. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Tom’s Venus Opposes Tem’s Jupiter (-0.42 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Tem’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Tem may occasionally accuse Tom of not being entirely open and honest. Tom may accuse Tem of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Tem’s Venus Opposes Tom’s Venus (-0.78 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges each other. Both have different romantic styles. There is tension in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Tem’s Sun Squares Tom’s Mercury (-0.79 discord) – Tem’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Tom and Tem. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Tom might be too aggressive in communicating with Tem.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Tem’s Pluto (-0.87 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tem’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Tom and Tem have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Tem and Tom.

Tem’s Jupiter Squares Tom’s Neptune (-0.98 discord) – Tem’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Tem might unintentionally hurt Tom’s sensitive feelings. Tom may appear elusive to Tem. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

Tom’s Mars Squares Tem’s Saturn (-1.59 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tem’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Tem’s constructive ideas and Tom’s enthusiasm. Tem may have unreasonable demands for Tom. This makes Tom impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Tom’s Mars Conjuncts Tem’s Pluto (-1.66 discord) – A delicate combination of Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Tem’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Tom and Tem.

Tom’s Jupiter Opposes Tem’s Uranus (-2.63 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Tem’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Tem’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Uranus (-2.78 discord) – Tem’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Tom may seem unstable and erratic to Tem. Tem may seem elusive and contradictory to Tom. Tom stimulates, excites, and irritates Tem’s mind simultaneously. Tem can’t understand the complex mind of Tom. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Tem’s Uranus (-3.00 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tem’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. Tem may seem unstable and erratic to Tom. Tom may seem elusive and contradictory to Tem. Tem stimulates, excites, and irritates Tom’s mind simultaneously. Tom can’t understand the complex mind of Tem. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Tom’s Venus Squares Tem’s Neptune (-3.02 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Tem’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Tom and Tem. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Tem’s Venus Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-3.15 discord) – Tem’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of Tom and the affectionate nature of Tem. Tem feels dominated. Tom tends to impose too much responsibility on Tem.

Tom’s Mercury Conjuncts Tem’s Saturn (-3.34 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Tem’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom may feel inadequate when Tem imparts knowledge and wisdom. Tem has the tendency to discipline Tom. Tom may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Tem. Tom can talk Tem out of negative attitudes. Tom can encourage progressiveness in Tem.

Tem’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-3.40 discord) – Tem’s emotional needs confront and challenge Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between Tem and Tom. Tem is hypersensitive and moody. Tom is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

Tem’s Uranus Squares Tom’s Pluto (-3.40 discord) – Tem’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Tem and Tom. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Tem’s Saturn Squares Tom’s Pluto (-3.41 discord) – Tem’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. Tom being a reformer might challenge Tem’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

Tem’s Venus Squares Tom’s Neptune (-4.45 discord) – Tem’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Tem and Tom. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Tom’s Sun Squares Tem’s Mercury (-4.90 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tem’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Tem and Tom. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Tem might be too aggressive in communicating with Tom.

Tom’s Jupiter Squares Tem’s Pluto (-4.93 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Tem’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Tom.

Tem’s Sun Squares Tom’s Jupiter (-5.03 discord) – Tem’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Tem and Tom have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Tom and Tem may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Tom’s Sun Conjuncts Tem’s Saturn (-5.11 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tem’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Tem has the tendency to criticize and judge Tom’s actions. Tem sometimes blames Tom when something goes wrong. Tom is more tolerant and forgiving towards Tem. Tom can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Tem.

Tom’s Mars Squares Tem’s Uranus (-5.96 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tem’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Tom resents the quiet side of Tem. Tem dislikes the over emotional side of Tom. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Tem’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Pluto (-6.20 discord) – Tem’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Tom will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of Tem. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

Tem’s Moon Squares Tom’s Pluto (-7.78 discord) – Tem’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Tem’s defensive nature and Tom’s nastiness. Tom expects Tem to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Tem’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Mars (-9.45 discord) – Tem’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Tem and Tom. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Tom and Tem are together.

Tem’s Moon Squares Tom’s Mars (-11.43 discord) – Tem’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when Tem becomes indecisive when reacting to Tom’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Tem and Tom.

Tem’s Saturn Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-17.48 discord) – Tem’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension between Tem’s practicality and Tom’s innovative nature. Tem wants solidarity while Tom wants alteration.

There is 1 mutual reception in Tem and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -30.01 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

Tem and Tom don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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