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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +65

Tom born January 31, 2002
Aquarius ♒

Mar born September 12, 2002
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Tom and Mar’s Relationship

Mar and Tom’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Aquarius. No individual is a pure Virgo or Aquarius but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Tom’s birth chart and the planets in Mar’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Mar’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Venus (+11.83 harmony) – Mar’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Mar’s communication style is in harmony with Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Mar feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Tom’s Sun Trines Mar’s Mercury (+10.46 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Mar’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Tom and Mar is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Mar understands Tom’s intentions. Tom supports Mar’s intellectual excitement. Mar is able to discuss problems with Tom. Together they can work out a solution.

Tom’s Mars Trines Mar’s Jupiter (+9.59 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Mar’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Mar has a broad impact on Tom’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Tom challenges Mar to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Tom’s Venus Sextiles Mar’s Pluto (+8.09 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Mar’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Tom and Mar makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Mar’s Venus Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+7.69 harmony) – Mar’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Mar’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Neptune (+7.60 harmony) – Mar’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Tom inspires the creativity of Mar. Mar’s practical suggestions give form to Tom’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Mar’s Jupiter Sextiles Tom’s Saturn (+5.30 harmony) – Mar’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom’s practicality stimulates Mar’s expansive ideas. Mar provides vision while Tom creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Mar’s Mars Sextiles Tom’s Jupiter (+5.20 harmony) – Mar’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates mutual helpfulness in achieving prosperity. Mar provides a foundation for aggressive action for Tom’s dreams of development. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Tom’s Sun Sextiles Mar’s Pluto (+4.45 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Mar’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Tom can bring out the psychoanalyst in Mar.

Tom’s Mars Sextiles Mar’s Neptune (+4.09 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Mar’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Tom stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Mar. Tom and Mar will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Mar’s Mercury Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+3.98 harmony) – Mar’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom stimulates Mar to be open to new ways of thinking. Mar appreciates Tom’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Tom’s influence on Mar is stronger than Mar’s on Tom.

Tom’s Saturn Trines Mar’s Neptune (+3.76 harmony) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Mar’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s practical instincts are in harmony with Mar’s visions and dreams. Tom has a good sense of reality that Mar might not have. Mar is aware of a different dimension that can help Tom.

Mar’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Saturn (+3.56 harmony) – Mar’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom helps give form to Mar’s ideas. Mar learns a lot from Tom’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Tom offers practical guidance that improves Mar’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Tom’s Mars Trines Mar’s Pluto (+3.10 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Mar’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Tom and Mar. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

Mar’s Saturn Trines Tom’s Uranus (+2.87 harmony) – Mar’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Mar’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with Tom’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of Tom with the experience and caution of Mar toward a constructive goal. Tom is spontaneous and creative while Mar is sensible and levelheaded.

Mar’s Jupiter Trines Tom’s Pluto (+2.69 harmony) – Mar’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.

Tom’s Venus Conjuncts Mar’s Neptune (+2.39 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Mar’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is mutual interest in nature or culture like art and music. There is sympathy, deep affection, and devotion toward each other. This aspect intensifies other aspects. A general positive score will become more positive and vice versa.

Tom’s Mercury Trines Mar’s Mercury (+2.20 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Tom and Mar. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Mar’s Venus Trines Tom’s Uranus (+0.83 harmony) – Mar’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Tom surprises Mar in one way or another. Mar has a pleasant way of toning down Tom’s eccentricity.

Tom’s Neptune Sextiles Mar’s Pluto (+0.59 harmony) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Mar’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Tom stimulates the reforming urge of Mar. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Venus Conjuncts Mar’s Uranus (+0.39 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Mar’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Mar is tolerant and encouraging toward Tom. Tom can be more creative than Mar. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Tom’s Sun Conjuncts Mar’s Uranus (neutral) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mar’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of Tom combine with the individualism of Mar. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. Tom is uncertain of how Mar will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of Mar has a disorganizing effect on Tom.

Tom’s Sun Conjuncts Mar’s Neptune (neutral) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mar’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The spiritual tie between Mar and Tom is deep and unbreakable. The fusion of understanding, romance, dedication, sympathy, idealism, and personal sacrifice in the relationship is remarkable. Both can read each other’s mind frequently. Tom may find Mar hard to comprehend or elusive in some way.

Mar’s Sun Conjuncts Tom’s Moon (neutral) – Mar’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tom’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Mar connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Tom. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Tom’s Mercury Conjuncts Mar’s Neptune (neutral) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Mar’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Mar brings out the poet and dreamer in Tom. There is a robust telepathic connection between Tom and Mar that helps to understand each other without speaking a word. Sometimes Tom can win arguments even when it’s wrong.

Tom’s Jupiter Conjuncts Mar’s Saturn (neutral) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Mar’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. Mar’s practicality fuses with Tom’s expansive ideas. Tom provides vision while Mar creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Tom’s Uranus Conjuncts Mar’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Tom and Mar complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Tom’s Neptune Conjuncts Mar’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Tom and Mar share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Tom or Mar.

Tom’s Pluto Conjuncts Mar’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Tom and Mar enjoy the same cultural references. Mar and Tom have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Mar’s Saturn Opposes Tom’s Pluto (-1.00 discord) – Mar’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the relationship when Mar and Tom compete for influence and dominance. Tom may try to reform Mar’s strict and severe attitudes toward life. Mar’s conservative opinion weakens the inner energy of Tom.

Tom’s Venus Opposes Mar’s Jupiter (-1.32 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Mar’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Mar may occasionally accuse Tom of not being entirely open and honest. Tom may accuse Mar of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Tom’s Sun Squares Mar’s Venus (-1.91 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Mar’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Mar’s romantic sensibilities and Tom’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Mar’s Mars Squares Tom’s Pluto (-2.31 discord) – Mar’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Mar’s Jupiter Opposes Tom’s Neptune (-2.53 discord) – Mar’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Mar’s Jupiter (-2.70 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Mar’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Tom will seem petty to Mar. Mar might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Tom’s Moon Conjuncts Mar’s Mars (-3.00 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs combine with Mar’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Mar arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Tom. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Tom and Mar will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of Mar can be unbearable to the emotional character of Tom. Both Mar and Tom are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

Mar’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Jupiter (-3.01 discord) – Mar’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Mar will seem petty to Tom. Tom might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Mar’s Venus Squares Tom’s Neptune (-3.61 discord) – Mar’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Mar and Tom. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Mar’s Venus (-5.01 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Mar’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Tom and Mar. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Tom tends to disregard the emotional needs of Mar. Mar may find Tom cold and calculative.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Mar’s Jupiter (-6.18 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Mar’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between Tom and Mar’s philosophy of life. Mar and Tom are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

Mar’s Sun Squares Tom’s Pluto (-7.43 discord) – Mar’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Mar and Tom can cause damage to the relationship.

Tom’s Saturn Opposes Mar’s Pluto (-7.66 discord) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Mar’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the relationship when Tom and Mar compete for influence and dominance. Mar may try to reform Tom’s strict and severe attitudes toward life. Tom’s conservative opinion weakens the inner energy of Mar.

Tom’s Moon Squares Mar’s Pluto (-7.85 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Mar’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Tom’s defensive nature and Mar’s nastiness. Mar expects Tom to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Mar’s Mars Squares Tom’s Saturn (-9.18 discord) – Mar’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Tom’s constructive ideas and Mar’s enthusiasm. Tom may have unreasonable demands for Mar. This makes Mar impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Mar’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Mars (-13.93 discord) – Mar’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in Tom’s aggressive attitude and Mar’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. Mar’s sarcasm could provoke Tom’s temper.

There are 7 mutual receptions in Tom and Mar’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +70 harmony to the total score. The remaining -27.03 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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