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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +5

Xander born June 22, 1979
Cancer ♋

Leslie born October 20, 1971
Libra ♎

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Xander and Leslie’s Relationship

Leslie and Xander’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Cancer. No individual is a pure Libra or Cancer but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Xander’s birth chart and the planets in Leslie’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Xander’s Jupiter Trines Leslie’s Jupiter (+10.78 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Xander and Leslie’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Xander’s Sun Trines Leslie’s Mercury (+8.03 harmony) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Leslie’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Xander and Leslie is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Leslie understands Xander’s intentions. Xander supports Leslie’s intellectual excitement. Leslie is able to discuss problems with Xander. Together they can work out a solution.

Xander’s Sun Trines Leslie’s Sun (+7.96 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Xander and Leslie can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Xander’s Venus Trines Leslie’s Uranus (+5.40 harmony) – Xander’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Leslie’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Leslie surprises Xander in one way or another. Xander has a pleasant way of toning down Leslie’s eccentricity.

Xander’s Jupiter Trines Leslie’s Neptune (+4.30 harmony) – Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Leslie’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Xander’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Leslie’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Leslie’s Venus Sextiles Xander’s Saturn (+3.77 harmony) – Leslie’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Xander’s protective nature stimulates Leslie’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Leslie’s Moon Sextiles Xander’s Saturn (+3.75 harmony) – Leslie’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between Leslie and Xander is based on mutual needs. Xander will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in Leslie. Leslie can expand the ideas of Xander with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. Xander and Leslie are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Leslie and Xander.

Xander’s Mercury Trines Leslie’s Neptune (+3.72 harmony) – Xander’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Leslie’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Leslie inspires the creativity of Xander. Xander’s practical suggestions give form to Leslie’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Leslie’s Mars Trines Xander’s Pluto (+3.48 harmony) – Leslie’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Leslie and Xander. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

Xander’s Sun Trines Leslie’s Moon (+3.29 harmony) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Leslie’s emotional needs. Leslie’s sensitive nature and Xander’s personality are in harmony. Leslie inspires and gives comfort to Xander. Xander supports, encourages, and revitalizes Leslie. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Xander’s Jupiter Sextiles Leslie’s Saturn (+2.57 harmony) – Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Leslie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Leslie’s practicality stimulates Xander’s expansive ideas. Xander provides vision while Leslie creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Xander’s Sun Trines Leslie’s Mars (+2.48 harmony) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Leslie’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Xander and Leslie are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Leslie and Xander inspire creative passion in one another.

Xander’s Sun Trines Leslie’s Venus (+2.28 harmony) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Leslie’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Leslie and Xander. Leslie’s power of attraction is in harmony with Xander’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Leslie’s Mars Sextiles Xander’s Neptune (+2.27 harmony) – Leslie’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Xander’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Leslie stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Xander. Leslie and Xander will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Xander’s Mars Trines Leslie’s Pluto (+2.17 harmony) – Xander’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Leslie’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Xander and Leslie. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

Leslie’s Mercury Sextiles Xander’s Saturn (+1.88 harmony) – Leslie’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Xander helps give form to Leslie’s ideas. Leslie learns a lot from Xander’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when Xander offers practical guidance that improves Leslie’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Xander’s Moon Trines Leslie’s Pluto (+1.69 harmony) – Xander’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Leslie’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Xander and Leslie. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Leslie’s Venus Conjuncts Xander’s Uranus (+1.32 harmony) – Leslie’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Xander is tolerant and encouraging toward Leslie. Leslie can be more creative than Xander. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Leslie’s Uranus Sextiles Xander’s Neptune (+0.94 harmony) – Leslie’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Xander’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Xander and Leslie have a strong intuitive connection.

Xander’s Venus Opposes Leslie’s Jupiter (+0.88 harmony) – Xander’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Leslie’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Leslie may occasionally accuse Xander of not being entirely open and honest. Xander may accuse Leslie of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Xander’s Jupiter Sextiles Leslie’s Uranus (+0.52 harmony) – Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Leslie’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Xander’s visions stimulate Leslie’s creative genius. Xander will expand Leslie’s goals and creativity. Leslie adds innovation and excitement to Xander’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Xander’s Moon Trines Leslie’s Uranus (+0.11 harmony) – Xander’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Leslie’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Xander and Leslie are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Leslie and Xander are together. Leslie awakens and inspires ideas in Xander. Xander’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Leslie’s inventiveness and creativity.

Leslie’s Moon Conjuncts Xander’s Uranus (neutral) – Leslie’s emotional needs combine with Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking Leslie and Xander. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes Leslie’s traditional attitude clashes with Xander’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

Leslie’s Sun Conjuncts Xander’s Pluto (neutral) – Leslie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Leslie and Xander are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Leslie’s Uranus Conjuncts Xander’s Pluto (neutral) – Leslie’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with Xander’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Leslie and Xander have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

Xander’s Venus Conjuncts Leslie’s Saturn (-0.65 discord) – Xander’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Leslie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Leslie provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Xander’s sympathy and affection stimulate Leslie’s confidence. Leslie can become possessive of Xander. Xander can feel restricted by Leslie’s criticism and discipline.

Xander’s Mars Opposes Leslie’s Jupiter (-0.71 discord) – Xander’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Leslie’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Xander is rash and aggressive while Leslie can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between Xander and Leslie. There is tension in individual ambitions.

Xander’s Saturn Squares Leslie’s Neptune (-1.23 discord) – Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Leslie’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Xander’s realism and Leslie’s idealism.

Leslie’s Venus Squares Xander’s Jupiter (-2.11 discord) – Leslie’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Xander’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Xander may occasionally accuse Leslie of not being entirely open and honest. Leslie may accuse Xander of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Leslie’s Moon Squares Xander’s Jupiter (-3.46 discord) – Leslie’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between Leslie and Xander is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Leslie may feel uncomfortable when Xander misunderstands a passing mood. Xander may make extravagant pledges making Leslie to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

Xander’s Mars Squares Leslie’s Mars (-3.52 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in own wills and desires. Everyday activities together can lead to conflicts. Cooperation is difficult to achieve between Xander and Leslie. Each one fears the other’s anger. This aspect is challenging to deal with.

Xander’s Mercury Squares Leslie’s Uranus (-3.53 discord) – Xander’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Leslie’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Leslie may seem unstable and erratic to Xander. Xander may seem elusive and contradictory to Leslie. Leslie stimulates, excites, and irritates Xander’s mind simultaneously. Xander can’t understand the complex mind of Leslie. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Leslie’s Mercury Squares Xander’s Jupiter (-3.68 discord) – Leslie’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Leslie will seem petty to Xander. Xander might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Xander’s Moon Conjuncts Leslie’s Saturn (-4.90 discord) – Xander’s emotional needs combine with Leslie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Leslie tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Xander. Xander may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Leslie imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Xander and Leslie.

Xander’s Moon Opposes Leslie’s Jupiter (-5.31 discord) – Xander’s emotional needs confront and challenges Leslie’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The tension between Xander and Leslie is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Having disagreements about religion, money, and relatives is common. Xander may feel uncomfortable when Leslie misunderstands a passing mood. Leslie may make extravagant pledges making Xander to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

Xander’s Moon Opposes Leslie’s Neptune (-5.65 discord) – Xander’s emotional needs confront and challenge Leslie’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Xander can overreact to the confusion caused by Leslie. Leslie can be deceptive or dishonest to Xander. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Leslie’s Jupiter Squares Xander’s Saturn (-5.80 discord) – Leslie’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Xander’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Xander’s view of responsibility and Leslie’s dreams of expansion. Xander places too much responsibility on Leslie. Leslie feels confined and frustrated.

Leslie’s Mars Squares Xander’s Uranus (-6.13 discord) – Leslie’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Xander’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Leslie resents the quiet side of Xander. Xander dislikes the over emotional side of Leslie. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Xander’s Mars Conjuncts Leslie’s Saturn (-7.75 discord) – Xander’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Leslie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. Xander stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in Leslie. Leslie in some ways restricts or limits the activities of Xander.

Leslie’s Sun Squares Xander’s Mercury (-8.78 discord) – Leslie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Xander’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Xander and Leslie. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Xander might be too aggressive in communicating with Leslie.

Xander’s Mars Opposes Leslie’s Neptune (-8.92 discord) – Xander’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Leslie’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Leslie’s elusive reaction to Xander’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Xander’s Saturn Squares Leslie’s Saturn (-9.94 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the relationship between how each other handles responsibility and security. Xander and Leslie can create severe problems of adjustment.

Xander’s Sun Squares Leslie’s Pluto (-11.93 discord) – Xander’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Leslie’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Xander and Leslie can cause damage to the relationship.

There are 6 mutual receptions in Xander and Leslie’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +60 harmony to the total score. The remaining -34.59 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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