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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -33

Xolani born December 30, 1987
Capricorn ♑

Phindile born October 23, 1989
Libra ♎

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Xolani and Phindile’s Relationship

Phindile and Xolani’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Capricorn. No individual is a pure Libra or Capricorn but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Xolani’s birth chart and the planets in Phindile’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Phindile’s Jupiter Trines Xolani’s Pluto (+13.30 harmony) – Phindile’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Xolani’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.

Phindile’s Moon Trines Xolani’s Jupiter (+11.16 harmony) – Phindile’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Xolani’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Phindile encourages and nurtures Xolani’s expansive ideas. Xolani is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Phindile. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Xolani to Phindile. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Phindile’s Venus Trines Xolani’s Jupiter (+10.88 harmony) – Phindile’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Xolani’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Xolani’s Moon Trines Phindile’s Neptune (+5.97 harmony) – Xolani’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Phindile’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Xolani and Phindile. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Xolani’s Mercury Sextiles Phindile’s Pluto (+5.91 harmony) – Xolani’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Phindile’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Phindile stimulates Xolani to be open to new ways of thinking. Xolani appreciates Phindile’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Phindile’s influence on Xolani is stronger than Xolani’s on Phindile.

Phindile’s Moon Trines Xolani’s Uranus (+5.14 harmony) – Phindile’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Xolani’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Phindile and Xolani are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Xolani and Phindile are together. Xolani awakens and inspires ideas in Phindile. Phindile’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Xolani’s inventiveness and creativity.

Phindile’s Neptune Sextiles Xolani’s Pluto (+4.93 harmony) – Phindile’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Xolani’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Phindile stimulates the reforming urge of Xolani. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Xolani’s Moon Sextiles Phindile’s Jupiter (+4.36 harmony) – Xolani’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Phindile’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Phindile is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward Xolani. Xolani inspires and encourages Phindile’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Phindile to Xolani.

Phindile’s Moon Trines Xolani’s Saturn (+3.71 harmony) – Phindile’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Xolani’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Phindile are stabilized by Xolani. Phindile expands the ideas of Xolani with practical imagination. Xolani will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Phindile is depressed. Phindile and Xolani complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Phindile and Xolani.

Phindile’s Sun Sextiles Xolani’s Uranus (+3.51 harmony) – Phindile’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Xolani’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Phindile and Xolani have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Xolani and Phindile.

Xolani’s Moon Trines Phindile’s Saturn (+2.40 harmony) – Xolani’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Phindile’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Xolani are stabilized by Phindile. Xolani expands the ideas of Phindile with practical imagination. Phindile will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Xolani is depressed. Xolani and Phindile complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Xolani and Phindile.

Phindile’s Saturn Sextiles Xolani’s Pluto (+1.88 harmony) – Phindile’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Xolani’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Phindile’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate Xolani’s power of transformation. Phindile can give stability to Xolani’s feelings of loneliness. Xolani can strengthen Phindile’s sense of authority.

Xolani’s Sun Sextiles Phindile’s Pluto (+1.74 harmony) – Xolani’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Phindile’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Xolani can bring out the psychoanalyst in Phindile.

Phindile’s Sun Sextiles Xolani’s Saturn (+0.62 harmony) – Phindile’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Xolani’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Phindile and Xolani can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. Phindile and Xolani can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

Phindile’s Mars Sextiles Xolani’s Saturn (+0.47 harmony) – Phindile’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Xolani’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Phindile stimulates Xolani’s ambition and self-confidence. Xolani restrains Phindile’s tendency to act impulsively.

Xolani’s Neptune Sextiles Phindile’s Pluto (+0.22 harmony) – Xolani’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Phindile’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Xolani stimulates the reforming urge of Phindile. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Phindile’s Mercury Trines Xolani’s Venus (+0.04 harmony) – Phindile’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Xolani’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Phindile’s communication style is in harmony with Xolani’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Xolani makes Phindile feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Xolani’s Sun Conjuncts Phindile’s Uranus (neutral) – Xolani’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Phindile’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of Xolani combine with the individualism of Phindile. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. Xolani is uncertain of how Phindile will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of Phindile has a disorganizing effect on Xolani.

Xolani’s Sun Conjuncts Phindile’s Neptune (neutral) – Xolani’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Phindile’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The spiritual tie between Phindile and Xolani is deep and unbreakable. The fusion of understanding, romance, dedication, sympathy, idealism, and personal sacrifice in the relationship is remarkable. Both can read each other’s mind frequently. Xolani may find Phindile hard to comprehend or elusive in some way.

Xolani’s Mercury Conjuncts Phindile’s Uranus (neutral) – Xolani’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Phindile’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a fusion of intellectual and mental awakening in Xolani and Phindile. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Xolani’s Mercury Conjuncts Phindile’s Neptune (neutral) – Xolani’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Phindile’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Phindile brings out the poet and dreamer in Xolani. There is a robust telepathic connection between Xolani and Phindile that helps to understand each other without speaking a word. Sometimes Xolani can win arguments even when it’s wrong.

Xolani’s Jupiter Squares Phindile’s Jupiter (neutral) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the moral sentiments, ethical principles, and spiritual values. Both have difficulties in finding a familiar path. This may create problems of adjustment in the relationship.

Xolani’s Uranus Conjuncts Phindile’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Xolani and Phindile complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Phindile’s Uranus Conjuncts Xolani’s Neptune (neutral) – Phindile’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Xolani’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Phindile and Xolani. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Xolani or Phindile to evade responsibility.

Xolani’s Neptune Conjuncts Phindile’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Xolani and Phindile share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Xolani or Phindile.

Xolani’s Pluto Conjuncts Phindile’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Xolani and Phindile enjoy the same cultural references. Phindile and Xolani have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Phindile’s Moon Opposes Xolani’s Venus (-0.34 discord) – Phindile’s emotional needs confront and challenge Xolani’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a mutual attraction for love and marriage between Phindile and Xolani. Much affection is shown between the individuals. There may be fewer mutual interests in the relationship.

Xolani’s Mars Conjuncts Phindile’s Pluto (-0.64 discord) – A delicate combination of Xolani’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Phindile’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Xolani and Phindile.

Phindile’s Sun Opposes Xolani’s Jupiter (-1.05 discord) – Phindile’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Xolani’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between Phindile and Xolani’s philosophy of life. Xolani and Phindile are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

Phindile’s Jupiter Opposes Xolani’s Neptune (-1.40 discord) – Phindile’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Xolani’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Phindile’s Saturn Conjuncts Xolani’s Uranus (-1.44 discord) – Phindile’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Xolani’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Xolani is radical and rebellious while Phindile is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Xolani’s Sun Opposes Phindile’s Jupiter (-1.96 discord) – Xolani’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Phindile’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between Xolani and Phindile’s philosophy of life. Phindile and Xolani are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

Xolani’s Sun Squares Phindile’s Mercury (-2.12 discord) – Xolani’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Phindile’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Phindile and Xolani. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Phindile might be too aggressive in communicating with Xolani.

Xolani’s Saturn Conjuncts Phindile’s Uranus (-2.58 discord) – Xolani’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Phindile’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Phindile is radical and rebellious while Xolani is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Xolani’s Mercury Squares Phindile’s Mars (-2.79 discord) – Xolani’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Phindile’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Phindile’s aggressive attitude and Xolani’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Xolani’s sarcasm could easily provoke Phindile’s temper.

Xolani’s Venus Squares Phindile’s Pluto (-4.24 discord) – Xolani’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Phindile’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Phindile’s Mercury Opposes Xolani’s Jupiter (-4.99 discord) – Phindile’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Xolani’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Phindile will seem petty to Xolani. Xolani might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Xolani’s Moon Squares Phindile’s Moon (-5.21 discord) – The individual emotional needs interact stressfully within the couple. Xolani and Phindile’s hearts and souls lack a basic understanding or sympathy with each other. Minor clashes of mood and attitude can cause friction but not enough to destroy the relationship. Both Phindile and Xolani are moody by nature and have the tendency to exaggerate trivial disagreements.

Xolani’s Mercury Conjuncts Phindile’s Saturn (-5.65 discord) – Xolani’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Phindile’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Xolani may feel inadequate when Phindile imparts knowledge and wisdom. Phindile has the tendency to discipline Xolani. Xolani may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Phindile. Xolani can talk Phindile out of negative attitudes. Xolani can encourage progressiveness in Phindile.

Xolani’s Mercury Squares Phindile’s Mercury (-6.29 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Xolani’s Mercury Opposes Phindile’s Jupiter (-6.70 discord) – Xolani’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Phindile’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Xolani will seem petty to Phindile. Phindile might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Phindile’s Mars Opposes Xolani’s Jupiter (-7.48 discord) – Phindile’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Xolani’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Phindile is rash and aggressive while Xolani can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between Phindile and Xolani. There is tension in individual ambitions.

Phindile’s Saturn Conjuncts Xolani’s Neptune (-8.53 discord) – Phindile’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Xolani’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Xolani can add a degree of holiness to Phindile’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Phindile’s Moon Squares Xolani’s Mars (-10.98 discord) – Phindile’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Xolani’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when Phindile becomes indecisive when reacting to Xolani’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Phindile and Xolani.

Xolani’s Sun Conjuncts Phindile’s Saturn (-11.54 discord) – Xolani’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Phindile’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Phindile has the tendency to criticize and judge Xolani’s actions. Phindile sometimes blames Xolani when something goes wrong. Xolani is more tolerant and forgiving towards Phindile. Xolani can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Phindile.

Xolani’s Moon Opposes Phindile’s Pluto (-13.59 discord) – Xolani’s emotional needs confront and challenge Phindile’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Xolani’s defensive nature and Phindile’s nastiness. Phindile expects Xolani to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Xolani and Phindile’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -39.72 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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